I read this book with curiosity, wondering what the author had to offer on a topic that can cause intense emotion and reaction. I wondered if this book would help families in search of guidance, and how the book would coach people to act.

The author goes above and beyond to present the content in a conversational, friendly tone. The conversation shared homilies and pointed out that the “meat” of this matter would follow, but unfortunately I felt like the author was beating around the bush, much like someone nervous about broaching an uncomfortable topic.

Eventually the author meanders to the topic of talking with someone about identity, and makes really good points. The reader has to wade through a lot of words before finding those points. It was a frustrating read because of the meandering and wordiness. I think some people might give up on the text because of this.

My advice is that 15- 20% of the words should be cut. Whittle down the chatting and let those valuable points and comments shine. There is good advice here if someone can find it.

Wow!!!! This book was fantastic. Each church should gift this to parents. What a helpful resource for them to have. I was awestruck by how well this was done.