I received a free copy of, Girl, Uncoded, by Brandi Dredge, from the publisher and Netgalley in exchange for an honest review. When she was sixteen, Caroline fell in love with Gary Richard, a man she thought was her prince charming, her knight in shining armor. Gary Richard she found out, is neither of those things. What a read, such a wild ride., a very interesting story, about young love, or lust.

Girl Uncoded: A Memoir of Passion, Betrayal, and Eventual Blessings is a captivating and inspiring read. The author’s journey through passion, heartbreak, betrayal, and ultimately, redemption is both raw and honest, drawing you in with its real and intense narrative from the very first page.

The memoir offers a compelling look at the challenges and triumphs faced by the author, who grows and gains strength throughout her story. Her vulnerability is shown through the writing, making her resilience and strength in the face of betrayal deeply moving.

This book is a testament to the power of perseverance and the ability to find light even in the darkest of times

Thank you to the publisher She Writes Press for providing an advance reader copy via NetGalley

A true story that's a very powerful read. Hard to think why did she keep going back, who knows what you would do in that situation?

Raw and honest memoire that shows you have to believe in yourself every step of the way

How do I rate a memoir?! 4/5 but again - how do I rate it! An incredible redemptive tale of profound personal growth.

What a wild and raw journey - one that I think brought unique perspectives and considerations into the mix.

From the beginning I was rooting for the author, and from the beginning her ex-husband read like an episode of Dateline or 20/20 (seriously). It’s an intense memoir but one that is quite redemptive when all is said and done. It’s lovely seeing the author grow in her power and prowess as she grows.

There are some content warnings, including SA & gr00ming. The latter is a significant component of the memoir. It’s a tough read because it’s heartbreaking to read about, but again: the author is able to process through it in her writing in ways that are admirable and reflect her growth.

Thank you to NetGalley and publishes for offering me a copy of this ARC in exchange for an honest review.

After meeting the man of her dreams at age 16, Caroline sets out to make him her own. But she didn’t bargain for all that came with him as she struggled to accept his troubling reality. She shares her teen pregnancy struggle and eventual marriage to him as they build a life. There are bigger problems coming that help her turn to God to get through.

This book is compelling, but that is despite the often annoying writing style. Too many details at times and certain life experiences are too dragged out.

However, the central premise of this book is "how can you find your true self" despite the abuse from a male (or more males). At times, I felt horrible for Caroline, but then you see that at times, she is her own worst enemy. Thankfully, she found a way through hope, to religion and it is obvious that this is what helped her survived..

Ultimately, this book is scary, but must read.

What an amazing read! You get absorbed by the characters and their journey and can’t wait to see what happens next.

The development of relationships between them is beautifully written.
The emotional journey Tina takes throughout the book gives hope to anyone struggling in their life

The first thing that comes to my mind is "Wow"
Girl, Uncoded by Brandi Dredge is a powerful memoir that chronicles the author’s journey through profound challenges and eventual triumphs. Dredge recounts her experiences with raw honesty and vulnerability, addressing themes of passion, betrayal, and personal growth. The memoir explores the complexities of relationships and the resilience required to navigate life’s unexpected twists. Dredge’s narrative is compelling and heartfelt, offering readers a glimpse into her transformative journey towards self-discovery and healing. Overall, Girl, Uncoded is a poignant and inspiring read that resonates long after the final page.

A true story of a teen in love wth an adult male stripper. After a time she discovers she is pregnant, as she is getting caught up in his lies. A story that may hit close to home for many. Good book.

I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.

I really appreciate this book because it is so unapologetically honest and raw. The book grapples with thoughts, and raw emotions of a young girl forced into adult situations too soon. The author shares her incredible journey of her life opens her difficult past to share with the rest of us.

This was a very powerful read, and it takes you immediately with that first chapter. I had to keep reminding myself that this was a memoir and not fiction because some of the things these men were doing were just so outlandish and harmful. We follow 16-year-old Caroline's relationship with a much older man from the start, and the ongoing struggles their relationship faces - a young mother and teen pregnancy, financial burden, infidelity, but crucially, Gary Richard's repeated arrests and criminal investigations..

I think there is a very interesting discussion on "victimhood" and what being a "victim" means - for outsiders, law enforcement, lawyers etc. it's very easy to apply this label of victim as we are objectively aware of the black and white definition of their actions; a 24-year old man had unprotected sex with a 16-year old. However, for the 16-year old, who at this point is deeply in a relationship with her abuser, remembers her own context surrounding the same scenario: she wanted to be with him. It must be incredibly difficult to detach the context of your relationship and family from the crime. Caroline states it well, when she discusses that she wasn't crying or hurt or injured from these attacks, so how could she be a victim? And the stigma surrounding victimisation and victimhood is very strong, particularly with women. Repeatedly, women who are abused are interrogated as to whether they really were, why they didn't do anything to stop it. Being a victim becomes synonymous with guilt, weakness and shame.

I think this is an interesting read; the writing itself was a bit stilted and jarring at times - it jumped quite drastically timelines wise and mentioned pieces of information (e.g., how many siblings Caroline had) that wasn't previously explained, but it doesn't negate the message that one is not defined by their past choices, relationships or struggles, and there is always light.

cw// sexual abuse, sexual abuse of a minor, grooming, rape, domestic violence

This is a sobering book to read. It is written with such candour and in a matter of fact style that makes what is happening all the harder to take in and to understand the impact. The power of men to make her believe what they, and she, wanted to believe is frightening. The story is ultimately of hope, of being a mother and being able to give your all to raise your children well and to save yourself. Brandi finds God amongst the pain and the impact of this is visible in the end of the book and flows through the last chapters. Worth a read to understand the strength that people have when the odds are really stacked against them.

Wow a page turner. Such reality in the story and a reminder personally that God is there for me no matter what. An encouragement to be reminded that we are each HIS masterpiece created for His pleasure to worship Him in all things.