Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️.5

Drew is definitely one of the good things that have come out of TikTok, and when it goes she will definitely be here to stay.

This book touched on a bit of everything when it comes to Drew’s life before and after TikTok fame. Reflecting on her pick me self, and the growth she has done as an individual, Her place within samoan culture, Decentering men in society, and letting us into more of her personal life when it came to her relationship with her boyfriend, her mom, and older sister.

Some parts were repetitive, but within the content it was good to bring up again.

I was hoping to hear that contagious laugh in the audiobook!!!

But overall I absolutely enjoyed learning more about one of my favorite influencers!

Thank you Macmillan Audio for the ALC and Farrar, Straus and Giroux for the e-arc!

This was such a great listen. It interwove Drew’s lived experiences with why she’s the woman she is today but also touched on lots of societal things that affect women and why we need to speak up on them. This was a really good listen and I wasn’t too sure what to expect but this exceeded anything I could’ve imagined.

This is a good book for people who aren't well versed in feminism/intersectionality to read. It was fun listening to Drew narrate her story and learning more about her!

Drew Afualo narrates her own audiobook with gusto and energy that really brings her message to heart. This is a lot for a quieter person like me but I agree wholeheartedly with her message and she really makes you think about things from a different perspective. I so appreciate strong women becoming role models for my daughters and imploring us all to do better.

I’m only a little familiar with Drew’s TikToks but everything she came up on my FYP, she earned my respect. This audiobook is the feminist big sisterly advice every 20-something needs. I’m so glad this next generation has Drew in their corner.

“You can’t feel emasculated if your self validation doesn’t come from over powering your partner.” 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

“It’s what happens when you start living according to your desires and not men’s.”

“Give yourself a chance.”

“The word no is a complete sentence.”

“There is no right way to be a woman, only your way.”

Drew truly wrote the most empowering book I have ever read. I found myself gaining the strength and courage to move through my daily life in a new found way.

What an amazing and unexpected read.

A lot sadder and more heartfelt than I was expecting. I knew very little about Drew coming in (I’ve come across her videos on TikTok but never dived in depth) and I think for fans this is a must listen/read. For others it’s an interesting look into a successful young woman of color’s life and it was super interesting hearing about her family. It really helps you understand the strive and drive for equality in relationships she has in her videos.

First, I am so lucky to get to experience this book, read by Drew, before it released. Drew is a queen and what an absolute joy Loud was to read.

From learning who you are to sticking up to others to what it means to effectively battle against oppressive, patriarchal standards, Loud is a book that hit form start to finish.

I requested the ARC for this book because a dear friend raved about Drew’s narrative around intersectional feminism, dismantling the patriarchy, and most importantly her chapter on being child-free by choice. As a firm believer of “If it’s not a hell yes, it’s a no”, Drew’s explanations of her thoughts and feelings around parenthood and choosing to be child-free, this chapter had me in my FEELINGS. As a pro-abortion femme, the way she discussed abortion and the Reproductive Justice tenets of IF AND WHEN you become a parent was beautiful and free from judgement.

I cannot wait for a generation of young women and femmes to read this book - the way Drew approaches self worth, respect and feminism is so incredible and I am so grateful to her for using her platform in this way.

4.5 Stars - I was thrilled to receive the opportunity to listen to this audio ARC early, thanks to NetGalley and Macmillan Audio for providing it in exchange for an honest review! I have long enjoyed Drew’s content on TikTok and her podcast, so I was curious to see how her memoir would turn out. What I discovered was a foundation that explains why Drew has such a strong platform. Her insights and personal reflections on her behavior and the impact of the patriarchy on our world were exceptional. While this isn’t exactly a self-help book, it offers valuable advice for younger girls, much like a wise older sister would.

The narration was good overall, though there were moments when it felt more like Drew was reading a book rather than sharing her story directly. This was a bit jarring since I’m accustomed to her natural speech patterns and commentary style on TikTok and her podcast. However, I still believe that having her narrate the book herself brought more authenticity to it than a professional narrator could have achieved.

I love that Drew was given a platform to connect with more women and help them recognize their worth beyond the male gaze.

I wasn't familiar with Drew before reading this, and wasn't sure what to expect, but I appreciate what Drew is trying to do, breaking down the patriarchy and trolling the trolls. This is a very well read audiobook, and the tone is like chatting with a friend or sister who always has your back.

I really love Drew on Tik Tok so I was very excited to get early access to her book. Hearing her story was really eye opening and enlightened me to who she is as a person. One thing I really loved about Drew's writing was that she also discussed her mistakes, not just her victories. It made her more relatable and honestly made her content more real to me. The only downside I had to this audiobook was it lacked Drew's enthusiasm. I didn't really hear her voice shine through and instead it felt like she was reading from a script. Reading the book itself without narration, I felt that I could insert the Drew's voice that I knew and loved. Overall this book was a fun memoir that helped me learn more about someone I find to be hilarious and entertaining.

This book is a gem. It's more than a memoir, it's a message of love and solidarity to anyone that has ever had to pivot in life and didn't know where to start. It's a story encouraging everyone to love themselves despite where they are in their journey and to surround yourself with a healthy support system.

I finished this book in two days. I could not put it down and will probably ready it again in the near future. Amazing job Ms. Afualo!!

Thanks to Netgalley, Macmillan Audio and Drew Afualo for allowing me to read this ARC.

I absolutely love Drew Afualo and have followed her on Tik Tok for years. Thank you to NetGalley and Macmillan audio for this audio ARC. There were many chapters of this book that made me feel so seen and I truly appreciated Drew's vulnerability talking about "sensitive" topics. The way that she articulates her thoughts on being parent resonated with me so much. I also loved her chapters on Pick-Me girls and also how she reacted to her sister coming out. Although my views are the very similar to hers I found myself learning and connecting the dots and feeling even more confident in myself. This was a great listen, and I love that she narrates her book. I'd highly recommend this.

I loved this so much ♥️

This book explores so many topics ranging from self love, intersectional feminism, culture, etc.
It gives insight into Drew’s life and shows how she became the badass we all know her to be on social media.

Thank you to NetGalley/Publisher &Author for the eARC!

If you love Drew’s content, you’ll love this. Very glad I did the audio, as she narrates. Drew’s feminist ideas are the same as my own, and I always appreciate a conversation on how terrible men are. This book gives some background on Drew’s life I didn’t know just by following her on tiktok, which I enjoyed.

I love Drew. The fact that she narrates this makes it even better. So funny and smart! Thanks NetGalley and the publisher for the opportunity to review this audiobook!

4.5/5

I believe all young men and women need to read this book. Drew does a great job of voicing the issues that everyone struggles with because of the patriarchy. My only disappointment with this book is that unfortunately the people that need to read it will be the ones that avoid it.

Thank you NetGalley and MacMillan Audio for sending this book for review consideration. All opinions are my own.

It’s not our fault if we’re born ignorant. It IS our fault if we die that way. -Drew Afualo

You probably know the author from TikTok. Her most viral videos are clapping back at toxic men, cackling all the while. But this book is so much more. She talks about her childhood, unpacking “pick me girl” behavior, becoming an ally, and empowering her friends to name a few.

This is a book about being true to yourself, the importance of building community, and how internalized misogyny impacts us all. And something that I think is missing from a lot of “self help” books is the lack of toxic positivity. It’s a pep talk from your best friend. Drew is a true girl’s girl and that you’re never too young to have wisdom or too old to make change.

Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for the audio ARC.

Loved this book -- I follow Drew on TikTok, so when I saw she had a book coming out I was excited to get my hands on it and am very appreciative to NetGalley for giving me the opportunity.

Drew is a little young to be writing a whole memoir so this book is about what I thought it would be -- mostly her thoughts on men/women/the patriarchy, with a little bit of her backstory to help fill in the gaps of how she came to be where she is currently. It didn't really introduce me to any real new information since I'm already with Drew in almost all of her stances, but I loved hearing about her thoughts top to bottom, instead of just in little 1-5 minute increments that I typically get through TikTok. Will absolutely continue to follow for more and good for her for her following and the book drop!

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for this audio book ARC opportunity!

I came upon Drew on TikTok and loved her very important take on women’s self esteem and the way some men speak to and about women. I literally and figuratively love her voice, so I was excited to be able to hear her book.

It was nice to learn about Drew and hear even more about her views. The only thing I’d recommend is I wish she brought a little more energy to the way she spoke, but I understand this is a book and not TikTok. Even so, Drew still brought her “don’t take sh*t” stance to this book and it was inspiring!