I initially went in reading this book hoping to learn more about trusting God when it feels hard. Instead, this focused more on battling trust issues after dealing with broken relationships. I also felt like it dragged on and that Lysa kept mentioning her divorce a bit too much. I would have liked if she focused more on ways to rebuild trust in general relationships and included more Biblical stories.

I was first introduced to Lysa a few years ago with a women’s Bible study. She is always extremely easy to follow along with and I love her books. Lysa does a really good job of touching on topics that women really need to learn about or even be introduced to. Let me explain that better, in this case, it’s about trust. I started this book with the intention of reading it for the information but not really learning anything from it. However, there’s was so much information in it for me, areas that I hadn’t realized I was harboring jaded or unforgiving feelings. Thank for for the ARC NetGalley.

Lysa TerKeurst has a way of meeting you right where you are — in the ache, the confusion, the guarded silence you didn’t even realize had settled into your soul. I Want to Trust You, but I Don’t is not a quick-fix or a surface-level encouragement; it’s a raw, deeply personal, and biblically grounded invitation to process the pain of broken trust.

This book came at a time when I didn’t even realize how tightly I was holding onto self-protection. Lysa walks readers through what trust really means — not just between people, but with God. She doesn’t shy away from the hard parts: betrayal, grief, disappointment, and even the uncomfortable reality that sometimes the healing process is messier and longer than we’d like. And yet, she offers so much grace.

There’s a strong blend of Scripture, personal story, and practical wisdom. It’s clear this book was written through lived experience, not theory. Lysa reminds us that boundaries are biblical, that forgiveness isn’t the same as reconciliation, and that trust is built (or rebuilt) in layers, not leaps.

Whether you're navigating the aftermath of betrayal, struggling with bitterness, or afraid to open your heart again, this book feels like a trusted friend who will hold your hand and tell you the truth — in love.

Another heartwarming faith-filled book you've come to expect and appreciate from this author.
Lysa Terkeurst is one of my absolutely favorite Christian authors and I'm always amazed by her ability to speak directly to my heart as if we've been best friends for a lifetime. Her books never disappoint and I'll read them again and again.

This was a deeply personal non-fiction rooted strongly in Lysa TerKeurst's personal experiences. I appreciated the incorporation of scripture and biblical teaching with navigating the human conditions of being hurt and disappointed by others.

Lysa TerKeurst opens her heart in I Want to Trust You, but I Don’t, sharing deep personal stories and hard-won wisdom. The book leans heavily into emotional trauma, psychology, and the complexity of rebuilding trust—both in others and in God.

It’s a raw and vulnerable read, not quite as uplifting or encouraging as I anticipated, but undoubtedly powerful for those who have walked through similar pain. Readers who relate to Lysa’s life experiences may find this book especially validating and helpful.

A thoughtful and faith-filled resource for anyone wrestling with trust in the aftermath of deep wounds.

I'm not sure how I feel about this one. It has some good ideas and since there are already so many 5 star reviews, I am sure mine will get lost in there. It just seems like there was SO much information it got a bit hard to follow. I am also not sure I like some of her medical claims, as I did some research and there is controversy about Dr. Amen. Anyway, It does offer some help in trying to re-trust God after you have felt let down by Him or people. Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for an ARC.

This book built upon the authors previous books. It was relatable. deep. Provided examples of how to work through issues one might have while going the ultimate healing of wound and the inability to trust can only be healed by God.

I Want to Trust You, but I don't is a journey through Lysa TerKeurst's experience with trauma and the loss of trust. Throughout the book, TerKeurst shares not only her very personal story of trauma and loss of trust, but points the reader back to God as the source of ultimate trust. While some knowledge from psychologists was shared, this book felt like it relied heavily on personal experience and for me read more as a memoir with things that TerKeurst learned along her journey rather than a book that points back to a more strongly researched coping mechanisms.

I gave this book 3.5/5 stars.

Thank you to Nelson Books and to NetGalley for an ARC of this book.

I have read other books by Lysa Terkeurst before, and I thought that they were really good. I saw this book and I knew it was something that I wanted to request because of the subject matter.

This book is all about trust issues. Family, friends, spouses, God.. Lysa covers all of these relationships in this book. This book is really intense, so I put it down for a bit and then had to go back to it. Lysa has definitely been through a lot, and she shares it here in these pages.

I found this book really intense but very helpful. This is a book that I will most likely purchase a physical copy of, so I can go back and reference it.

This book was what I expected. I thought the primary focus would be on doubting God and wanting to/learning to trust Him, but it's not. It is focused on not trusting other people. The author has been very open about her relationship traumas as of late, and that seems to be the basis behind this book. Sadly, I found this book to feel somewhat disorganized and thrown together, which wasn't what I was expecting because I have read many other books by this author in the past. Some of the personal stories she shares didn't quite seem to fit into the context for the chapters. While I didn't find it to be what I'd anticipated, I do seem to be in the minority.

Luda does it again. Who knew this is what I needed. She did and always does. Just when I thought I was the lone wolf of struggling with trust and forgiveness.

Lisa always brings you in and allows you to see yourself in everyday living. The humanity of existing on this universe with others similar to you. The enormity of the small difference's that become barriers of understanding and compassion.

I give this book 5+ stars and recommend it for all to read. Even if you do or don't identify with a specific religion, this is a must read of WISDOM. Thank you net galley and Lisa for allowing me the honor of reading and reviewing this book!!!

Anything by Lisa Terkeurst is an absolute must read for me. Her writing style is one of my favorites because she makes everything relatable, and from personal experiences. You can connect with her from the very start of the beginning of the book. If you are someone who has had trust broken, and find it hard to trust again, specifically after infidelity... This one is for you. She holds your hand and guides you thru the feelings you've felt or still feel and helps gain perspective of how to work thru it and be able to work on trusting someone again.

Many Christians have trust issues. We find it hard to trust God, because people in our lives have proved to be untrustworthy. We may have been hurt by a family member, a spouse, or even the church. After a painful divorce, Lysa found herself in this situation. In this book she shares bits of her story along with sound, biblical advice about how to move on without remaining bitter or giving up hope.

Lysa does not gloss over the emotional trauma that can be part of this kind of experience. She admits and describes the fear, anger and isolation that she felt, as well as the things that helped her to heal. Topics include:

*Red flags and things that we should not ignore

*Distinguishing between acting with discernment or being triggered

*How to trust God when you don't understand

*How to heal when the person who hurt you got away with it

*The secret to really healing

And, of course, there is more. At the end of each chapter there is a recap of the important points and a prayer. The book ends with an update on Lysa's life; 10 Scriptural truths for remembering God's faithfulness, information on getting the help you may need, and some notes about abuse to consider. There is also an extensive list of other resources you may be interested in.

Wow! What a vulnerable and comforting book Lysa wrote, yet again! I didn't connect to every chapter - but the ones that I did made me process, think and grow. I loved that she included prompts to help you be honest with yourself and God so that healing can take place. If you've had a hard season of disconnect with friends, family or God this book can definitely help you!

I am a big fan of Lisa Terkeurst and this book lived up to the hype! I don’t always know what I need until it’s smack dab in my face. This was definitely what I needed! I don’t know why I’m constantly amazed at Gods perfect timing because it happens all the time, but I am! Thank you Lysa for being so ‘real’ and such an amazing vessel sharing Gods love for us!

Do you ever have a book that you feel was written just for you? This is that book. Once again, Lysa TerKeurst masters a challenging topic that hits home for so many of us. She addresses hurt and disappointment, while challenging the reader to put their full faith in God. A deeply wonderful challenge that all should read.

Lysa’s writing, as always, is captivating, guiding readers through challenging experiences. She possesses a unique ability to connect with her audience, offering a sense of companionship throughout the narrative. I wholeheartedly endorse this book; keep tissues handy – you'll understand why!

Thank you to NetGalley and Nelson Books for the advance copy. All opinions are my own.

This is the second book by Lysa TerKeurst I’ve read, and I am now firmly a believer and want to read her entire back catalog. “I Want to Trust You, But I Don’t” is perfect for those of us who have been let down and want to navigate the path to trusting others and ourselves again. Words of wisdom, sentences that hit like the best of affirmations, and real talk will guide you through a healing journey and leave you full of hope.

Lysa has a way of conveying extremely relatable advice through the word while not being too “preachy.” Her advice is sound and easily applicable (most of the time, if we aren’t fighting ourselves). Her writing makes you feel like you’re reading the cheat code from your big sister or best friend. If you haven’t read her work before, I recommend the first one I ever read – “The Best Yes: Making Wise Decisions in the Midst of Endless Demands.”

Thank you to #NetGalley for a review copy of #IWantToTrustYouButIDont. All feedback is my unbiased opinion, not paid, and simply for the love of books.

Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for the opportunity to read this book. As always Lisa has a way of pulling you in and working you through some difficult things. She has a way of connecting with you like a good friend and just hold your hand on the journey. I highly recommend this book and have some Kleenex close by and I’m saying that in a great way.