I absolutely adored this book- I read it in one sitting and already want to reread it a few days later! I actually read Wreck My Plans in December and didn't realize it was the same writer and was so excited when I realized (and got to see some familiar characters), but I loved this one even more.

Give Me Butterflies is the cutest grumpyxsunshine workplace romance, featuring the absolute best date of all time. Millie and Finn are amazing characters, both together and separately, and I loved how all of the important side relationships (familial and friendships) were as important as the romantic relationship. Both the familial and romantic relationships were further fleshed out by the inclusion of texts and emails, and I was so excited each time one was included. The Star Wars, Star Trek, and Disney references were icing on the cake and felt natural and endearing rather than cringe-y.

I can't wait to see more of the Oaks family and will probably reread this one once or twice in the meantime!

Thank you Avon and NetGalley for the ARC!

An anxious sunshiney entomologist and a grumpy astronomer working as curators at the same museum grow closer when she's up for her dream job and he's on the interview committee.

This was such a delightful read! I loved these characters and adore grumpy x sunshine. A perfect dual pov with just enough pining to save it from instalove territory, I appreciated the individual growth each character had on their own, paralleling their evolving relationship with each other. This had surprising depth, while still maintaining light and hope throughout.

An excellent debut novel! I'm very excited to read the next in the series, and look forward to Jillian Meadows' future works.

A huge thank you to Jillian Meadows, Avon and Harper Voyager, and NetGalley for the ARC <33

I can’t believe this is a debut novel. It’s delightful, it’s sexy, it’s precious, it’s just lovely and I’m absolutely privileged to be able to read and review an ARC generously provided by the author and NetGalley.

Entomologist Millie is brilliant and kind, insecure but not pitiful. She has an amazing friend group and a family who adore her, and she’s beyond worthy of the smoking hot astronomer Finn and his twin nieces.

Finn is my current favorite book boyfriend, giving big dad energy and unwavering love and support despite being the product of dreadfully distant and critical parents.

I look forward to devouring Lena’s book next and eventually Fable and Tessa’s stories as well. Jillian Meadows is a wonderful author who brought all the characters to full color realness, and made me wish for a friend group just like Millie’s.

I can unreservedly recommend this novel to any fan of open door romance.

This book was perfection!!!!! The grumpy/sunshine was on point! The build up and the sweet moments had my heart in palpitations! This book was so so good and seriously it had the absolute best ending!!! I loved it so much!

Truly obsessed with every single part of this. This is just such an excellent book that words cannot describe it. I’m always a sucker for an aunt/uncle single parent situation and this was for sure one of the best.

Finn, Eloise, and Avery are all still dealing with death of their sister/mother. Millie comes in and is just such a light for all of them, one might even say she’s a star. Finn is so grumpy at work and never gave Millie any hint that he might be interested in her. However, the tides start to change when she meets his nieces at a camp at the museum. It shows her a different side to the grump.

They slowly start spending time together, all four of them, and they are really just building their own little family. Millie has such strong feelings for Finn but she is scared because she’s been hurt before and he’s on the interview panel for her promotion. This doesn’t stop him because he wants to show that he is the best possible option for Millie.

The way Millie fell in love not only with Finn but with the girls was so sweet. They became an instant family and it is the best thing ever. Millie helping Finn learn how to cook and honoring his sisters memory constantly made me want to cry.

Finn is just always so reassuring and she does the same for him. They make each other her dad’s special soup when they get sick. AHHHHHHH! Her family is also so supportive and immediately takes the girls in as their grandchildren. It is the positive role models that they need.

All I have to say is please read this book when it comes out.

I received an arc through netgalley.

Another DNF unfortunately. This one seemed to be leaning into the tropes just a bit Too Much. I’m all for a good grumpy x sunshine, but we need to see a bit more than be told. I think our first meeting (and second, for that matter) of them could have been done differently and not just been forced quippy banter.

4.5⭐️ rounded up

This book is a super cute, dual POV romance with found family, amazing banter and the importance of friendship! The MCs are both in the STEM field and Millie is an absolute hoot and badass at her job.

In the beginning, Millie is an example of Murphy's law but that doesn't stop Finn from being drawn to her. They both are trying to navigate the pull their hearts have toward each other while balancing their heads telling them why they shouldn't give in to the pull. For Millie, it's her job and for Finn, it's his twin nieces who lost their mother.

The banter and build between Millie and Finn is a wonderful slow burn that also includes the girls. Not only does Millie fall for Finn, but Avery and Eloise too. Millie has an amazing relationship with her family (the texts are hilarious) and Finn, Avery and Eloise ultimately end up finding their family throughout the book as well.

All in all, the friendships that surround Millie, the family Finn and the girls gain, and the overall build of their relationship makes this book a great feel-good romance. I'm looking forward to the rest of the stories Jillian comes up with in this universe!

Read if you Like:
- Small-town romances
- Second chance romances
- Friends to lovers
- Grumpy/sunshine
- Forced proximity

The book centers on two childhood best friends who reconnect in adulthood, navigating a tangle of unresolved feelings, personal growth, and undeniable chemistry.

The grumpy/sunshine dynamic adds plenty of playful banter, with the brooding, guarded hero contrasting beautifully with the heroine’s optimistic and vibrant personality. Their forced proximity—the result of a sweetly contrived circumstance in their picturesque hometown—creates tension and allows their bond to deepen in a way that feels organic.

For fans of second-chance and friends-to-lovers romances, Give Me Butterflies is a gem that will leave you smiling long after the last page.

Thank you so much to Avon for my gifted ARC!

thank you to netgalley and the publisher for providing an e-arc in exchange for an honest review!

i've read jillian's work before and have loved her romances! this was just as lovely as her other books - the perfect amount of character growth, romance, emotional depth, and humor! i loved that we had both main characters, millie and finn, working in different departments at a museum and that we were able to see the passion each had for their respective fields. throughout the story, these two were incredibly supportive of each other and what was the most refreshing was the honesty between the two - they were straightforward with their feelings and always spoke up with any issues or problems.

finn also had two twin nieces that he is now the guardian of and it was the cutest thing reading about his relationship with them and how millie became a part of their lives. absolutely loved this one!

“You don’t have to be the loudest in the room to be the strongest”

I haven’t read many STEM romance books, but this one was such a fun and heartwarming read! It has the perfect mix of romance, personal growth, and humor. It follows Millie, an entomologist recovering from a bad relationship, and Finn, a grumpy astronomer raising his twin nieces.

Millie can’t help but embarrass herself in front of her hot coworker Finn. She ran into him and spilled coffee on both of them, smashed his nose with her shoulder, and even bumps his car. It’s hilarious and so full of tension, especially since Finn is on the board deciding if Millie gets her promotion 😬

I had so much fun reading and the vibes were just so good here. I’m so excited to check out everything Jillian writes! 🤍🦋

This contemporary romance centers around Millie, an entomologist vying for a promotion, and Finn, a director of astronomy at the same museum.

I found this story to be a refreshing take on the grumpy single dad/sunshine female character story. Finn is the twin girls uncle who has been given custody after his sister’s death and has some parenting struggles. While Millie is happy-presenting, she also has real issues and life situations in the story.

I would have liked to see more STEM in the story; there are a couple of threads in it that could have had a bit more punch. The family dynamics were well done with both healthy and toxic representations.

Thank you HarperCollinsPublishers for providing this book for review consideration via NetGalley.

I *loved* Finn and Millie's story oh my gosh. She's the sunshine to his grumpy and this was the workplace romance I didn't know I needed and I just know this is going to be one of my favorite reads this month.

Both cautious due to past trauma, after a few run ins (literally) some of the walls they both had built start crumbling down and with the help of Finn's adorable nieces, him and Millie strike up the most wonderful friendship before it inevitably turns into something more. We got to watch sparks fly through Disney songs and Millie teaching him how to cook, through him supporting her when her ex resurfaces and her working towards a promotion at the museum they both work at and each of them showing up for the other in the spots when they needed it the most, i was a puddle of all the feelings for most of this story! With plenty of banter, melt worthy moments and all the almond croissants one could want, I didn't want the book to end! 🥰


Thank you Netgalley, and Avon, and Harper Voyager for the ARC in exchange for my review!

Lookout Ali Hazelwood! We got another author writing STEM romances.

We have Millecent (Gerry? Gary? Larry? You there, dad?) and Finneaus. Millie is a kind hearted butterfly enthusiast getting out of a relationship with a toxico and attempting to pursue a big promotion at work. Meanwhile, Finneaus is trying to stay afloat after becoming the primary caregiver to his nieces after the death of his sister. And he's got some toxicas too! So many times the characters in romance book don't have any nuance. These people were really in the thick of it, and I appreciate when authors give their characters loves that feel realistic.

Love the black cat/golden retriever vibes of these two. Millie put in the WORK holding open the door for that old man, allowing him to steal her croissant, tho. In the words of Taylor Swift, 🎵 karma is a cat purring in my lap cause it loves me 🎶 you like grumpy/sunshine? You'll like this.

I sat and was forever at work with all the pop culture references in this book. So few books manage to do it well, and I feel like Meadows achieved a good balance. The OMEGA-verse references were clear as day. Honestly, I was dying. Break the fourth wall babe! Then let us watch you break the glass ceiling 😉

The characters were giving; however, the plot was not. There wasn't much plot other than these people forming a power couple and taking over the museum (I desperately need to utter "Get out of my museum!" to someone now...). Honestly, even though I'm a plot girly, this was still fine. And there were many small twists that surprised me! The spicy scenes were a bit much. Ma'am the entire "bonus epilogue" could stayed on Wattpad lol. My only additional complaint was I wanted MORE nerd entomology and astronomy talk. Other than that, no notes.

Thank you to NetGalley and the publishing house for early access to this ARC in exchange for an honest review. The new cover is a huge improvement.

Give Me Butterflies by Jillian Meadows was a wonderful way to start the year off. I loved reading about Millie and Finn. Their relationship was adorable and healthy and seeing how they communicated with each other was rewarding to read about.
There are so many amazing things about this book that readers are sure to love. The only problem I had with it was that I felt like the book needed something extra. I am not sure what; it just felt a little empty.
Overall, the story was super adorable, and I couldn’t stop smiling. If you want a fast-paced, cute book, this is for you.

I used to have a book by Judge Judy and it said to never judge a book by its cover but as soon as I saw the cover for this, I decided I MUST READ IT IMMEDIATELY.

It’s become one of my favorite romances and I can’t wait to see the series continue!! I loved every moment and I have zero bad things to say. There wasn’t any unnecessary fights and drama. The communication between the FMC and MMC was amazing and the took time to understand each other. him being a impromptu dad and taking care of his late sisters children was heart warming and it shows the challenges one would face when that happens. He FREAKING HIRED A CHEF AT THE LOCAL CAFE TO TEACH HER HOW TO MAKE ALMOND CROISSANTS. How romantic is that?! There was no 3rd act breakup which happens in EVERY romance book!!!! And all the charecters are so lovable minus that dumb ex and his parents.

I highly rocommend this book if you want a GOOOOOOD romance!!

Always lovely to get back into the world of Finn and Millie! It is just as good as I remembered the indie version. They remain adorable with a sweet development of friends to lovers. Get your nose ready: there is a lot of talking about their scents, and there is a lot of baking you will want to try (or eat) while reading this!!

I will note for newer readers of Jillian Meadows: this book was written before Lena and Gavin, and it is set before. The trad publishing timeline is weird, so Lena will be single in this book.

Thank you to NetGalley and Avon for an eARC in exchange for my honest review!

Thank you to NetGalley and Jillian Meadows for the opportunity to read this book early.

We follow Millie, who is working on a promotion at her museum. Finn, who also works at the museum, is a grumpy single dad who continuously clashes with Millie's sunshine. Together they go on a path of healing and growth. Finn was such an interesting MMC for me, add in that he's broody like Kylo Ren and I'm hooked. His relationships with his nieces was so sweet, I loved reading his pov chapters while interacting with them as I don't think we see that enough in romance novels. If you have read Jillian's other novel, Wreck My Plans, we do interact some with the main female character from that book which was super fun. I loved learning more about her. If you're a fan of cozy romances, grumpy sunshine, and single dad this book is for you.

2.5 stars

"Give Me Butterflies" was overly... cute and lighthearted. While the book delivered on cozy romance vibes, I couldn’t help but notice the plot wasn’t really plotting. The story lacked depth, and the grump-to-sunshine dynamic fell flat—Finn wasn’t grumpy enough to leave an impression, and the STEM aspect wasn’t as prominent as I’d hoped.

That said, decent debut from the author and she did a lovely job exploring grief and family dynamics, adding emotional weight to an otherwise lighthearted read. The mushy, over-the-top romantic moments might not be for everyone, but for readers who love cozy, heartwarming stories, this could be a perfect pick.

Overall, it’s a sweet, easy read, but ultimately a forgettable one for me. If you’re looking for a fluffy romance with minimal conflict and plenty of feel-good moments, it might be worth a try!

★★★★☆
Give Me Butterflies (Jillian Meadows - releasing 01.21.2025)
e-ARC Review | DEBUT (first published on Kindle)

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A massive thank you to NetGalley, Avon, Harper Voyager, & the amazingly talented Jillian Meadows for the e-ARC in exchange for my honest book review! 🥰🙌

“Strength isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s a quiet power that isn’t so obvious to the world.” 🌠🦋

This book is perfect for readers who enjoy…
Dual POV
Grumpy x Sunshine
Slow burn and strong communication
Women who laugh loudly
Books that aren’t afraid to discuss the hard topics - grief, loss and loneliness

First, I just want to say that the dedication is AMAZING. The first note I wrote about this book review was “the dedication is perfection.” Not to spoil the book, but here’s the dedication you have to look forward to because it was something I needed to read myself:

To the chronic apologizers: let that shit go.
Don’t apologize for things that aren’t your fault.
Don’t apologize for things you don’t regret.
And definitely don’t apologize for who you are.

For a light read, Jillian Meadows really knows how to pack a punch. I am so happy to know that there will be more stories involving the other Oaks sisters. As her debut novel, Meadows puts out an extremely strong first book. If you read a lot of romance, I’d say this has the feel of a Sarah Adams novel (think When in Rome series) meets the depths of an Ashley Poston novel (think The Seven Year Slip). Meadows brings it all - characters going through some tough family relationship dynamics, grief, and an incredible amount of hope. If you are looking for an uplifting read, look no further.

This is the first installment in the Oaks Sisters series. I look forward to the other stories that are sure to delight!

RATING SYSTEM: I rate my books by 5 literary element groupings: plot and pacing, characters and development, setting and world building, dialogue and writing style. See below for a full review:

📖Plot and Pacing
Here’s what I immediately loved throughout the book. While both characters were definitely going through some personal issues and forced growth, there wasn’t an abundance of DRAMA. It’s always nice to read a romcom that really gets the emotional depth without unnecessary spats and miscommunication. Sure, we get a fun trope in the beginning of the book, but we work past communication breakdowns. You won’t find characters rilling themselves up for no reason in this book! Millie and Finn are both museum curators in different departments; Millie works in entomology and Finn works in astronomy. Millie thinks she knows just the type of grumpy man Finn is, but she is shocked to learn he has more on his plate than what she sees at work. Finn is a single parent to his late sister’s twin girls. I never felt a lull in the book. In fact, I found myself a bit sad when it wrapped up. I’m glad to know this will be a sibling series!

NOTE: If you’re looking for a lot of drama and action, this might be a “slow” read for you.

🧞‍♀️Characters and Development
Millie is self-aware and we are HERE FOR IT! After a toxic relationship with her ex, she’s worried about letting anyone else in for the fear of losing herself again. However, she’s not going at life alone. She has a supportive family with a hilarious family group chat and friends that want to see her thrive. We should all be so lucky! Finn, on the other hand, is struggling with loneliness and grief after the death of his sisters. Additionally, he spends every moment that he’s not at work taking care of his nieces without support from his parents as they are absolute narcissists. If they had it their way, they’d parent the girls like they did their own children - completely absent and with a nanny. Finn wants to give the girls everything he never received emotionally from his parents, but at what cost? Millie and Finn struggle through their own issues, but find that spending time together brings out the best in each of them.

🌇Setting and World Building
While there wasn’t a need for world building, the three main settings Meadows creates for us are Finn’s home, Millie’s family farm and Maggie’s Bakery. I feel like all three are well-described. From the comfort of your favorite coffee shop to the love found in both new and old family homes, Meadows brings you along to each of these comfy and safe spaces.

🗣️Dialogue
Believe me when I say that there are some laugh out loud moments between the characters’ banter and dialogue in this book. Reading this on a plane ride and trying not to laugh was indeed a challenge. During the first few interactions with the FMC and MMC, Millie really lets the readers know what she thinks of Finn and his grumpy disposition. However, as the plot progresses, we see both main characters, their families and her friends all bring personalized dialogue to the table. What I wouldn’t give for a game night with the Oaks family!

📝Writing Style
We have already established that I love a dual POV, so seeing both characters’ internal monologues added to the overall story. With a lot of dual POV novels, I feel like the characters can sometimes be a bit too messy which is why the dual POV might lead a reader to scream at the character (think horror movie bad decisions). What Meadows does well is showcase two adults who are aware of their flaws, but maintain honest communication throughout the story. Additionally, the realistic aspects of the characters and “slice of life” writing lent itself to a well-detailed book that more closely resembles real life.

❉BONUS❉: Emotional Connection
I saw myself in the FMC in many ways. One of those being that she is a chronic apologizer and has a bit of anxiety. I loved how focused this book was on character development and growth throughout the plot. I also saw my past self in the MMC’s struggles with grief and the terrifying loneliness that can accommodate those moments. Overall, the biggest connection I felt was that the readers are treated to a story about two adults who have faults and are each trying to work independently and co-dependently through their issues. A true balance of seeing what you need to do yourself and how others can lift us up in trying times.

😤The Flaws
As it can be with the genre, at times, Finn feels a bit too perfect and adjusted. But, hey, he’s been through a lot and sees a therapist (woohoo - we love a therapy moment). However, this man is a five-star date planner, and that was just too much for me to believe. Am I glad Millie was spoiled by a man who has the best attention to detail? Absolutely. So, maybe I’m just jealous. There’s a little cheesiness in the book, but we all want it. Regardless of what we complain about.

Lastly, and I will only type this once - oatmeal raisin cookies are disgusting. 😂

Gratitude, always.
- H.

Give Me Butterflies by Jillian Meadows

Rating: 5/5 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Spice: 2/5 🌶️🌶️

“Strength isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s a quiet power that isn’t so obvious to the world.” ✨🦋

Thank you to Avon, Harper Voyager, Netgalley, and the author for access to this ARC in exchange for an honest review!

Give Me Butterflies is one of my all-time favorite romance reads! Everything about this one was absolute perfection. Millie and Finn’s love story is so adorable. I love how the author thoughtfully addressed some more serious topics while still keeping the book lighthearted. Millie’s anxiety and experiences from a toxic previous relationship were highlighted while showing her determination and strength to remain positive. This book is filled with so much love, positivity, hope, and good vibes. I instantly knew I’d love it from the first chapter!

Both MCs have some insecurities/past experiences that they have to overcome and seeing how they do so together was beautiful. Finn is grieving the death of his sister and doing his best to raise his twin nieces. The way in which Millie’s relationship between her and Finn’s nieces develops was one of the most heartwarming parts. Also, the found family aspect and Millie’s family were also so amazing!

And when it comes to Millie and Finn’s relationship, their support and respect for one another coupled with their amazing chemistry makes them an incredible couple.

A wonderful, sweet, and uplifting read that I’d highly recommend!

Tropes:
- workplace romance
- friends to lovers
- grumpy x sunshine
- single uncle/father figure
- slow burn
- he falls first