I Never Thought of It That Way: How to Have Fearlessly Curious Conversations in Dangerously Divided Times by Mónica Guzmán is an insightful and practical guide for navigating difficult conversations in an increasingly polarized world. Guzmán, a seasoned journalist and advocate for bridging divides, offers readers tools to engage with others who hold opposing views, fostering understanding rather than conflict.

The book emphasizes the importance of curiosity, empathy, and open-mindedness in conversations, even with those whose beliefs seem radically different. Guzmán’s approach is grounded in a deep respect for people’s experiences and perspectives, offering a refreshing alternative to the typical “debate” style of conversation.

I Never Thought of It That Way is both empowering and timely, providing readers with strategies to engage in more thoughtful, productive discussions. It’s a must-read for anyone looking to improve their communication skills and build connections in a world that often seems defined by division. Guzmán’s writing is warm, relatable, and full of practical advice, making this an invaluable resource for anyone striving to create meaningful conversations in today’s challenging political and social climate.

Such a fun read! Highly recommend.

Many thanks to Netgalley, the author, and the publisher for my ARC. All opinions are my own.

The title of this book caught my eye and caused me to request it because it seems to be a very timely topic. "I Never Thought of It That Way" by Monica Guzman promises to teach you "how to have fearlessly curious conversations in dangerously divided times." Guzman reiterates that there are three patterns humans use when relating to others: sorting, othering, and siloing. Sometimes these patterns are helpful, but oftentimes they're divisive. While there's a strong tendency to follow these patterns, we need to avoid them at all costs.

Guzman encourages her readers to ask CARE questions: curious, answerable, raw, and exploring in order to create relationships with others who are different from us. I thought this book was thought provoking and that many will find it helpful. Thanks to NetGalley for the ARC. All opinions are my own.

The premise was interesting, but I did not enjoy this book.
I was not too fond of the simplistic (and at times cringy) journalistic style and the way in which the author explained things felt too naive and hopeful.
I get it, we should all try and get out of our little social media bubbles where we only engage in conversations with people with whom we share views and values... but sometimes it's just impossible to talk and have meaningful discussions with BIGOTS.
I'm sorry, I wanted to like this but it's not that simple.

I found this book fascinating. It definitely hit home for me. I'm the left leaning daughter of a right Leaning father. I definitely agree that we need to do something about the hate and division around politics in this country.

This was a good primer on having meaningful conversations with those who don't share your same views. I really liked the structure and background Guzman presents regarding building bridges through communication.

Overall, the tone is a bit rosy and optimistic, which I don't think is always the most realistic. It might be triggering for some to pursue conversations with others who have a problem with their core identity. This book is aimed at people who want to have those conversations and make connections.

The author is liberal, but presents left and right leaning perspectives and engagement. I did appreciate the sections on how to converse in a curious way and considering why we hold the specific beliefs we do. Structured suggestions and questions are provided, making the process more straightforward. This is a helpful guide to connection and conversation.

Thank you to the publisher for providing this ebook. All thoughts are my own.