I really wanted to like this book; the early reviews were positive and the description sounded like a book I would enjoy. I live in a small town, and after making many big choices to leave, I've stayed for the past quarter century. I was expecting the beauty and thoughtfulness of a book like "Wintering," instead, I was disappointed. As much as she repeats that she chose to stay (in her small town, in her bookstore, in her church, etc.), her tone is often whiny, at times begrudging the friends who made different choices, choices to leave. While there were a few strong, insightful chapters, like Obituaries and Be Ringo, overall I found the essays to be self-centered and superficial, much like the approach the author came to accept toward many of her friendships and her church—and maybe that was the point. It could be that I'm a GenX reader and she's a millennial writer (she lets us know she's a millennial frequently). Younger readers may better relate to the ideas and writing style.

This was an incredible read! at the top of my recommendations for friends ><. The writing was spectacular and i felt engaged the entire time, i literally couldnt put it down it was so fantastic

I think I expected more self help whereas this leaned more into memoir, but that doesn't diminish the value or beauty of this book. In a world that is fast paced and increasingly accessible, this explores the magic in the day to day and in the places we currently are.

This book shares the value of “blooming where you are planted.” I enjoyed several paragraphs so much; I think this is a book with some concepts that I will remember. I enjoy Annie B. Jones’ podcast, so I may have enjoyed the audio version of this book more. Still, a lovely and important read to fill a gap in memoir/essay nonfiction.

Thank you NetGalley and HarperOne for the advanced copy. All opinions are my own.

I, like many, adore Annie B. Jones from her From the Front Porch podcast and her Instagram. The owner of The Bookshelf in Thomasville, Georgia is a modern day Kathleen Kelly and partially at fault for my boundless TBR pile. She’s completely darling. When I realized a few years ago that I actually know Annie’s brother, a superbly brilliant human being, my admiration for her grew even more. Visiting The Bookshelf is on my bucket list, as I remind my husband at least once a month. Needless to say, I was thrilled to get an ARC (Advanced Reader Copy) of Annie’s first book, Ordinary Time: Lessons Learned from Staying Put, from NetGalley. It’s a collection of stories from Annie’s life. She’s very vulnerable, delightfully charming, and completely authentic. It’s cliche, but I laughed and I cried. I related firsthand to several parts of Annie’s story and, as they say, “I feel seen”. Ordinary Time will be released in April and I highly recommend you add it to your reading plans for 2025. It’s simply wonderful. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Thank you to the publisher for an advanced copy of Ordinary Time by Annie B. Jones. I listen to Annie's podcast faithfully every week and have done so for years so I was very excited to read her first book. It is no surprise to me that I loved it. There were so many essays that really hit for me - particularly the one about being an older sister to a younger brother not because that is my situation but because it was so well written. Annie is so open and honest and just so Annie in this book. She covers reading and family and faith and love in this book - I highly recommend it.

I've followed Annie B. Jones, The Bookshelf, and her podcast From the Front Porch for years, so when she announced her first book, I knew I would be reading it. Annie is close to my age and I love the way she talks about books, reading, faith, and life. Annie is a great writer, and she is transparent and vulnerable in this collection. I loved it.

I've listened to Annie B Jones on her weekly podcast, From the Front Porch, been a long distance customer of The Bookshelf for years, and even met Annie when we both attended Book Expo in NYC in 2019. Despite the fact that Annie doesn't know me, I feel like I know her and that we could be friends. This book ranks right up there with some of my other non-fiction favorites like Mary Laura Philpott's I Miss You When I Blink and Bomb Shelter, and Elizabeth Passarella's Good Apple and It Was An Ugly Couch Anyway. Annie's ability to be reflective and open and honest makes me feel like we are kindred spirits- and throughout my reading I found myself composing an email to Annie in my head. This is one I want to gift to friends and I will admit I'm hoping that Annie has more topics she wants to write about and share.

*Review to be posted on @library.lady on instagram as publication date nears

Loved this book. Annie’s thoughts are provoking and sweet to read. She writes about a station in life that isn’t talked about much and her perspective is valuable.

A lovely read a book of finding the magic at home in your neighborhood among the books you read.Annie B.Jones has written a sweet gem and I will be recommending.#NetGalley #harperone

I don't see this as a memoir but rather as an over-examined life, perhaps justifying her decisions which is okay. I don't listen to podcasts so I know nothing about this author. Although I am a book person and an introvert too, I really couldn't relate. All in all, it's her reflections on an ordinary life, which most of us have, whether we stayed or left.

I enjoyed this essay compilation. I have followed Annie on social media and could really hear her voice in the book. I wish it was a bit more organized in chronological order. It was hard to follow the through line at times.

I have followed Annie Jones on the internet for years and am so thrilled I was able to read her book early so I can sing its praises! Annie is to writing about place and books as Shauna Niequest is to writing about food. I particularly loved her reflections on growing up, owning a small business, and living in a small town. Her essay titled "Everybody Writes About Sisters" brought me to tears as a sister with a younger brother. I highlighted so many quotes, but this final page will really stick with me: "Good stories are anywhere you are. Your ordinary life matters, and the place you're living it matters, too."

I requested this book on a bit of a whim and with a personal goal of reading more memoirs. I knew nothing of the author prior to reading and I still enjoyed it and will give her podcast a listen! It was well structured, she shared her experience in relatable ways and I grew an appreciation for staying put in a world where everyone is trying to go places and do big things. Thank you!

Oh, Annie! You’ve written a book worthy of a hug and a sigh! Thanks to #harpercollins and #netgalley I received an early copy of Ordinary Time and devoured it on this rainy Sunday afternoon! I laughed with Annie at her awkwardness that most of us introverts share and cried with her as she shared her thoughts on her faith and her precious memories of her grandparents. My favorite and most resonating quotes from the book:
“My faith is messy and muddled and not at all certain or sure. There is fear and trembling at every turn….but God is still there and He is big, so much bigger than the wood-paneled church told me He was.”

“Even us stayers will one day be dust. We’ll leave, too, and I hope we will have learned how from those who went first.”

Thankful to have read this delightful piece of work and I will be in line at The Bookshelf as soon as it is released to get my signed copy!

Thank you NetGalley for allowing me to read the ARC for this book. Annie's book was just what I needed to steep out of my hectic life. It encouraged me to reflect on the choices I've made over the course of my life. It felt like we sitting on her front porch while she shared a bit of her life story. As I read, many of my own wonderful memories were jogged from their slumber. I thoroughly enjoyed this one and will add it to my own bookshelf.

Annie B. Jones’s Ordinary Time is a reflective, tender collection of essays that explores themes of faith, home, marriage, and friendship. Written from the perspective of a 35-year-old bookstore owner in Georgia, Jones invites readers into her quiet, deliberate life, one centered on finding meaning in the everyday. While there’s a definite warmth and authenticity to her voice, the book feels tailored to a very specific audience—one that may not include every reader.

As a 19-year-old college student living in New York, I struggled to connect deeply with Jones’s narrative. My life, shaped by the constant motion and reinvention of a large city, feels far removed from the rootedness she describes. Jones’s life—staying close to her hometown in Tallahassee, navigating adulthood through marriage and faith—feels distant from my current experiences. Her reflections are insightful but, at times, lacked the universality I was hoping for, leaving me feeling more like an observer than a participant in her story.

The book’s tone and writing style also didn’t fully resonate with me. Jones’s prose leans toward the understated, occasionally slipping into a vaguely preachy cadence. While this might complement the contemplative nature of her essays, I found it a bit too subdued for my taste. That said, there is a time and place for this kind of introspective, heartfelt writing, and for readers at a different stage of life, it might feel exactly right.

Despite my reservations, Ordinary Time has a memorable conclusion that struck a chord:

“Good stories are anywhere you are. Your ordinary life matters, and the place you’re living it matters, too.
We can’t all move to New York. We can’t all leave; some of us, for whatever reason or purpose, have to stay.”

As someone who has chosen to leave but still feels tethered to the idea of home, this sentiment resonated. It’s a gentle reminder that meaning is not bound to one place, but found wherever we choose to embrace it. Though the book didn’t align with my current perspective, it left me with a sense of warmth and respect for those who find their story in staying rather than going.

Ordinary Time may not be the perfect fit for younger readers like me, but for those in search of comfort and connection in the quiet rhythms of adulthood, it’s likely to feel like home.

I have been a fan of Annie B Jones and her podcast, From the Front Porch, for many years! I was thrilled to hear she had a book coming out, and I'm most grateful to NetGalley for the free ARC digital copy for review. I flew through this book so quickly - this memoir has that 'un-put-down-able' quality I love when reading, but especially, when reading nonfiction/memoir/essay. Annie is the owner of the independent bookstore, The Bookshelf, in Thomasville, GA. (Of which I hope to visit one day soon!)
Ordinary Time is about staying, in many of its forms--chapters include, "staying put", "staying friends", staying faithful", "staying grounded" and "staying you". Author Emily P. Freeman wrote the forward to this book, and I loved her comparison of Annie's words to the combined voices of Wendell Berry and Nora Ephron. Each essay is absorbing, and full of wisdom, humor and moments I found myself saying, "Oh, you too? I thought I was the only one!".
Given that statement I just shared, I also have to say something that probably sounds contradictory. Parts of Annie's life don't feel relatable to me, especially in terms of her close-knit family and friends, her warm and friendly front porch, and beautiful connection to so many in her life. But I don't say that as a negative. Usually, when people write about "warm, fuzzy moments" (my terminology, not hers), that I can't relate to, it makes it hard for me to enjoy the book fully. But Annie has a wonderful way of writing about her experiences that made me feel warm and drew me into her experience. Her stories about her life reminded me to find the good and beautiful and true in my own life, and for that, I'm so grateful.
Annie's writing style is very conversational, and I highlighted so many quotes throughout the book. She writes about everything from her family and friend's experiences, to her journey of being a bookstore owner, to hospitality and of course, books. Though I highlighted pages and pages, some of my favorites include her words about staying:
"I am someone who stays...I have read very few books about stayers; those stories don't have pulsating plot lines or climactic moments of courage. Those books are the quiet ones...They are lauded for their quietness, but no critic says what we're really thinking, which is that these are the stories most familiar to our souls. Most of us, as it turns out, stay..."
I also loved this quote on reading:
"Books move me forward when I want to stay put. I read books because they fill up my depleted soul and give me renewed energy for a life spent outside the walls of my home...I think they're meant to be flashlights, moving us forward, p[lacing us in community with one another, giving us a reason to walk together..."

I look forward to giving this book to friends, as well as picking up a hardcover copy for myself when it releases next spring. If you love memoir, essays, and a book that feels like a friend when you're finished, don't miss Annie's shimmering debut! I can't wait to read what she writes next! Congratulations and wonderful job, Annie B. Jones!

I am a huge fan of Annie B. Jones and all that her and her staff do at The Bookshelf. This book is so essentially Annie. I felt like I was in a private conversation with her and learned things about her that I never knew. This book about staying and the lessons learned has come at the perfect time for me. I am debating making changes and Annie so captured a lot of the emotions that I am going through.

I started out as a podcast listener to “From the Front Porch,” then became an online customer of “The Bookshelf.” Now I am an enthusiastic reader of Annie B. Jones’s first book, “Ordinary Time,” a collection of essays.

There are chapters about running a bookstore, about being childless, about the angst of changing faith communities – yet the common denominator is rootedness. Annie identifies as the high school friend who remained in the home town while classmates left the area to seek their fortune.

I loved discovering the backstory of The Bookshelf (Annie’s bookstore) as well as the behind-the-scenes operations. It’s been awhile since I worked retail and Annie aptly describes the impact a customer’s words – whether appreciative or critical – can have on employees.

I especially resonated with the section on staying faithful. Annie reminds me of the late Rachel Held Evans: in terms of her writing, her auburn bob, her contagious enthusiasm, and her willingness to grapple with challenging issues of faith.

My copy is full of highlighting and I know I will be re-reading it soon. “Ordinary Time” is one of those books where you feel as though you spent a long, lazy afternoon on the porch swing chatting with a friend, and you don’t want it to end.