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I went through about half of these with my partner and actually felt like we got something out of it despite us thinking we knew each other very well.
Definitely recommend if you're struggling with communication or just need to bring back a little spark to your relationship.
I think this book is helpful to get a dialogue going between you and your partner. Some reviews say it's too simple but I actually appreciate that. I also loved the bonus questions at the end, especially about parenting. Those questions in particular have sparked great conversation with my partner.
Although this is designed so that couples can explore one question a day, you might fund yourselves doing more than one. How well do you know yourself let alone each other? This is meant to stimulate discussion and, hopefully, bring couples together. Useful for both new couples and for those who have been together for years. Thanks to Netgalley fro the ARC. A good gift for newlyweds.
I loved the questions in this one and feel like this would be a great book for couples. I loved trying out these questions with my partner and feel like they were unique. Would definitely recommend this to couples to try and learn more and be closer.
Hubby and I have gone through a lot of emotional/relational changes over the course of our relationship. Between family drama driving a wedge between us and a new baby throwing us into uncharted territory, I can really appreciate the aim of this book to reconnect couples in a question a day type of way.
I got this book since it sounded hopeful for couples on the brink of divorce as the creators have developed their Marriage365 program.
The authors have created a 365 a day questions in order for couples to develop a curiosity in asking to foster connection. That said, the authors are correct about the importance of engaging with one another so couples can create a safe environment to explore their feelings.
However, I found the book's structure a bit simplistic and sometimes these questions
may not be sufficient to address deeper marital challenges. It conveys the personal experience of how the authors came up with their program, as the couple broke their pattern of disconnect simply by asking a question a day which is what this book offers— 365 days of questions, each focusing on different areas to ask one another, deep innocuous thought provoking questions.
I feel like this format might oversimplify issues which require more substantial frameworks for processing.
While the idea of daily engagement is key, I believe couples may need more than just open questions to navigate their challenges effectively and do not find this book addressing that.
I ended up checking on the background of these authors and went to their website. It appears they are not licensed therapists but actually more like a life coach. What I further discovered on the website is how they show a chart comparing savings of using their approach versus going to therapy which is a bit misleading. In their book they claim their approach is research-based, yet I struggled to find any concrete data backing their assertions. This raises questions about the validity of this approach. Additionally, their tendency to simplify complex issues by relying on open-ended questions to connect can be risky. With no disclaimer about how if there are deeper trauma or issues please seek professional help, I fear that people will do more damage with this approach.
I enjoyed this book and will recommend to friends and colleagues who want to reconnect with spouses/partners, especially empty nesters. It reminded me of those boxes of cards that you can buy that pose provocative questions about likes/dislikes/opinions/what would you scenarios, etc.
Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for this ARC!
This is fun and helpful and I enjoy using it!
This is a fun book full of all kinds of questions for couples. I like that they have a question for each day of the year and a lot of bonus months of themed questions towards the back of the book. They are great conversation starters for couples. It provides a fun activity to do together! At the start of the book they do a little bit of an introduction and give you some tips and ideas on how to use the book & the questions. they also break it up into categories if you want to find questions for a certain category. I think this could make a fun gift for a couple!
Thanks to the publisher and Netgalley for this eARC.
365 Connecting Questions for Couples (Revised and Updated): With 200 New Questions by Casey and Meygan Caston is a delightful and insightful guide designed to deepen the emotional connection between partners. This revised edition, enriched with 200 new questions, offers a fresh approach to fostering intimacy and understanding in relationships.
The book is structured to provide a daily prompt for an entire year, encouraging couples to engage in meaningful conversations beyond the mundane aspects of daily life. This diversity ensures that couples can explore different facets of their relationship, uncovering new insights and strengthening their bond.
The Castons’ approach is practical and engaging, providing a simple yet effective tool for enhancing communication and emotional intimacy.
The new introduction by the authors adds a personal touch, sharing their journey and the lessons from the more than 100,000 couples who have used the book. This context not only adds credibility but also makes the book feel like a trusted companion on the journey to a deeper connection.
The layout of the book is user-friendly, with each question presented clearly and concisely. The prompts are designed to be thought-provoking without being overwhelming, making it easy for couples to incorporate them into their daily routine. Whether used over a morning coffee, during a quiet evening at home, or on a weekend getaway, these questions provide a valuable opportunity for couples to reconnect and rediscover each other.
365 Connecting Questions for Couples (Revised and Updated) is an invaluable resource for anyone looking to enhance their relationship. Casey and Meygan Caston have created a practical, engaging, and insightful guide that encourages couples to communicate more openly and deeply. With its wide range of topics and user-friendly format, this book is sure to become a cherished tool for building and maintaining a strong, loving relationship. Whether you’re looking to spark new conversations or revive old ones, this book offers a year-long journey of discovery and connection.
This is a wonderful book with meaningful questions for couples. There is a question for every day of the year.
The questions have not a yes-or-no answer.
For instance, today’s question is “In your opinion, what qualities does a healthy marriage have?”.
At the end of the book, you cand find bonus questions on parenting amd faith.
The book is suitable for all couples!
This provides some great tools and guides for helping grow your relationship.
Thank you to the publisher and netgalley for this review copy
I thought the book was ok, and I can certainly see the direction it is going. Offering encouraging questions for couples to ask, the answers will really make them think and should help connect them on a deeper level.
This book is great and I do recommend getting the digital copy to be able to pull out on date nights or any time you have free moments to chat! The authors have a great Instagram account to follow also!
This book is a collection of thought provoking questions to share with your partner. It’s meant to be used a little bit everyday for a year, so I haven’t had time yet to check out every question. I did a quick peek and I’m very excited to do this with my partner and learn about each other!
This book is a lovely, straightforward tool for deepening your connection with your partner. With thoughtful questions that range from light-hearted to introspective, it's perfect for sparking meaningful conversations. It's easy to see how incorporating these questions into everyday life can bring couples closer. Whether you're just looking to have fun or dive deeper into serious topics, this book offers a bit of everything to strengthen your bond.
Huge thanks to the publisher and NetGalley for this read!
What a delightful and inspirational book for couples! It is surprisingly simple but has the potential to influence profound effects. A singular question for every day of the year. Categories included are boundaries, childhood, communication, conflict and repair, friendship and romance, holidays and celebrations, just for fun, money, mental health, self-discovery, sex and intimacy, roles, career, and household chores, and two bonus sections for parents and faith and spirituality. I really appreciate the intro and the background behind this. Yes, these are just questions, but there are responsible and safe ways to ask (and answer) questions and create a safe space for these conversations. If your partner won’t read or engage the questions, there’s great tips for that too. Wherever you are in your relationship, this is an excellent tool to start conversation, engage your partner, and foster intimacy and growth.
I received a copy from the publisher via NetGalley and all opinions expressed are solely my own, freely given.
Where are my quality time and words of affirmation love language girlies at? This book is for you. This is a great way to initiate deeper connections and intimacy with your partner. The variety of questions are broad and insightful from asking about your partner’s favorite childhood memories to their parents communicate styles. Get to know your partner on an intimate level and also meet their inner child.
This is a well thought out book with thought provoking questions. I’ve been married 23 years and these question are things that I do not know about my partner. After 23 years we’ve fallen into a “stale” period and this book is exactly what we need to get the convos going again. I enjoyed the intro with tips on how to listen, what words and phrases work best and overall guide on how to start talking. Love that the questions are arranged by day, topic and more. Highly recommend this book to anyone that wants to start the conversation for the first time or over again.
This is an excellent book for individuals to journal with on their own and/or to invite meaningful conversations with loved ones. Highly recommend!
Thanks to NetGalley, the authors and publisher for an advanced reading copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.