Talk, by Alison Wood Brooks, uses this formula as the thesis for her work about the art of conversation:

Topics: Choose topics and manage them well
Asking: Ask more questions
Levity: Use humor to keep conversations fizzy
Kindness: Prioritize their partners conversational needs

What one can appreciate about Brooks' work is that she is very knows the subject matter quite well, and she is provides a nice amount of information for those just beginning to learn how to speak to someone else on an interpersonal level. However, the work is sometimes a bit too basic, which can get to readers who are looking for newer insights about techniques in communication. This is good for those teaching lower-level courses in interpersonal and intercultural communication....but the better go-to is always going to be How to Win Friends and Influence People (even if a bit antiquated).

In this fun and informational book, the sometimes-hidden maneuvers of conversation are clearly explained, with tips to help readers improve their conversational skills.

Reviewed for Shelf Awareness.

I really enjoyed this deep dive into being a good conversationalist. Brooks has done extensive research on the subject, has taught courses on how to be a good communicator and provides excellent strategies from her years teaching in navigating many social situations. Her TALK method of having a topic-asking-levity-kindness is simple and a great way to forge ahead in building better relationships! Highly recommend!

An engaging, accessible, and practical read for anyone interested in the art of conversation. The author uses her maxim TALK (Topics, Asking, Levity, Kindness) to walk readers through anecdotes and tips on how to improve any conversation we have.

Recommended to anyone curious about enhancing the way they communicate, from small talk to difficult conversations.

Thank you very much to Crown Publishing and NetGalley for the opportunity to read a copy.

A fascinating look at the nuances of conversation, the hidden dynamics at play in a duo or a group, and the ways to improve any conversational experience. The book is divided into four main factors: Topics, Asking, Levity, and Kindness (yes, TALK). If you've ever floundered or felt dissatisfied with a conversation's vibe, this book will probably help you to understand why, and even give you some tools to address it, even in small ways. It's realistic and doesn't over-promise, which makes it feel accessible and useful for practically anyone.