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I feel seen as a mother! She offers an authentic glimpse into the experience new parents face as they grow their family. I felt as though I was chatting with a friend and sharing our latest parenting trials and tribulations. A must read for new moms who feel trapped in their new life.

I read this at 3 months postpartum with my first baby. Such a helpful book at this time when I'm figuring out who I am in this new role and new life.

Mothers Are Made by Danielle Sherman-Lazar is a heartfelt and honest exploration of the challenges of motherhood. Through personal stories of struggles with breastfeeding, NICU stays, eating disorders, and anxiety, Danielle emphasizes that motherhood isn’t something we’re born into—it’s something we’re forged through time and experience. Her raw writing connects deeply with readers, offering reassurance and strength for those facing their own hurdles. With humor, love, and vulnerability, Danielle reminds mothers that they have the resilience to overcome any challenge, and that they are not alone in their journey. An empowering and relatable read for all moms.

This is a profoundly impactful book that offers an authentic and emotional perspective on the journey of motherhood. It provides valuable support for individuals seeking to feel less isolated in their experiences. I will certainly recommend it to new and expectant parents.

Mothers Are Made by Danielle Sherman-Lazar was a fine read—honest, insightful, and deeply personal. It captures the raw, often unspoken realities of motherhood, from the overwhelming love to the exhaustion and self-doubt. While I appreciated the vulnerability and truth in her words, I didn’t always feel fully connected to the narrative—it resonated in moments but didn’t completely pull me in. That said, it’s a worthwhile read for anyone looking for a candid reflection on the messy, beautiful process of becoming a mother

Mothers are Made is the kind of book I wish I owned in print so I could annotate it and have it to flip through later whenever I need a kind word. Full of relatable scenarios that included critical self-talk, chaos toddlers, and frustrating interactions with other adults, I constantly wondered whether she had secret cameras in my house. Though I only have one child compared to her four, I’ve experienced many of the same things she discussed in this book.
I love that we got to accompany her through a recollection of her own life that led up to where she is now. This is not a book by a picture-perfect homemaker that has always had the patience of a saint. This is the story of someone that’s gone through her own trials and tribulations to arrive at her current location, and I enjoyed learning about that transformation.
All throughout, she includes little pep talks to her readers that tell us about the lessons she’s learned along the way and the fact that we don’t have to be perfect to be good parents. But we do need to love them and we do need to try our best, to learn from our mistakes, to keep on going even when things are rough. But that doesn’t mean we need to do things alone or that we should always put on a happy front when we are struggling. This is the kind of book I want to share with other mothers to show that I see them, that I’m there too, and that we can do this together.

An absolutely brilliant book that makes you feel a little less lonely. Sherman-Lazar goes through every aspect of being a mother - her honesty is refreshing. Motherhood is beautiful, messy and hard work! As a mother of a toddler I enjoyed hearing Sherman-Lazar's experiences and thoughts on parenting, as it helped reinforce my beliefs and showed me that I'm not alone. I would recommend this to anyone who is a parent or planning to start a family!

This was exactly what I needed to read while navigating through my own personal journey. I deeply appreciated her vulnerability and honesty, and I found myself highlighting every other page. So many true statements and pieces of advice. I would recommend this to any mom, or anyone in their parenting journey for that matter. Thank you to NetGalley and Alcove Press for my e-ARC.

Wow, what a great memoir. All mothers will appreciate Mothers are Made by Danielle Sherman-Lazar. It will give you all the feels.

"I might have known in my bones that I was born to be a mother, but the actual experience was turning out to be nothing like the fairytale I had imagined.">
"Resilience isn't something we're born with. Like being a MOM, it's something we learn and develop. It's something we gain through hard experience. We all have issues, messes to overcome, whether it's addiction, a looming divorce, mental illness, or a past we're not particularly proud of. As humans, we're fallible and complex. But we're also able to choose, so instead of sitting in the mess of our story-if we can overcome our hurdles, our situation, and thereby help our children overcome theirs and gain resilience-THAT will become our greatest strength.
"Mothers are MADE through time and experience. We are through long nights that pass in a tired, overwhelmed blur into harder days. But it's exactly through these difficult experiences with our children that we are created."
5 big, emotional stars for this sobbing mama. i weep. i hugged my babies so tight tonight.
this was a raw, emotional and honest look at motherhood and the many ups and downs that come with it. motherhood and parenthood in general are the most beautiful and challenging thing I've ever done, and it was refreshing to relate so heavily to another so much and to know i'm not alone. i highlighted so many beautiful thoughts in this book to remind myself in the hard moments of how beautiful this journey truly is. this book felt like reading all of my own deepest thoughts, put together in the most beautiful way. it felt like a “friend” i could turn to at 3am in the middle of a breakdown when no one else would understand. the words found in these pages somehow captures the most honest parts of being a new mom and balancing it with life and being a wife.
i’ve just become a mom 4 years ago and in 2022 (i have 2 boys) so this felt like a good read for this timing in my life. some days are good, some days are bad, but we push through because no one is going to love these babies as much as we do.
i would highly recommend this book to anyone but especially parents and especially new parents who are in the thick of it. it's hard not to read without getting emotional. it was absolutely beautiful and i will cherish it forever.
Thank you Alcove Press. damn you for making me cry in the middle of the night.

This is the book that I was looking for to inspire me through my parenting journey. I loved the emotion and empathy in Danielle's writing. 4 little girls sounds like a bit much for me but she's really made for it. I hope that I can be as good of a momma as you are ❤️

Thank you to NetGalley for giving me an ARC copy of this book. I finished it in two days!
It was interesting to me to see a different perspective of being a mother, I had my son only when I was 20 so it was tough for me to ask for help and learn how to navigate life with a baby that I was not responsible for.
It was just such a good reminder not to be so hard on myself because at the end of the day we all need a village. Its ok to feel frustrated, sad, etc..

"I might have known in my bones that I was born to be a mother, but the actual experience was turning out to be nothing like the fairytale I had imagined." There is so much to relate to in this beautifully-written book by Danielle Sherman-Lazar - for moms to be, moms of young children, and really moms of children of any age. My children are both in their 20's. but I found myself shaking my head and saying "oh yeah" as I read through Dani's motherhood journey and all the raw emotions she was expressing. This is a tell-it-like-it-is story of motherhood with all of its joys and challenges. "There is no right way in parenting. Parenting is complicated. It's not about reading every book and studying like you are taking a test. It's hands on, and about loving them, trusting your gut, messing up, and trying again." I have often said that I rarely second-guessed myself in my 20 years of experience in the business world, but I still do it pretty much every day as a mom. Dani's message is powerful and uplifting - I highly recommend this book! Thanks to #netgalley #alcovepress and #MothersareMade for this ARC in exchange for an honest review.

This is a staple for every mother to own, reading it made my so emotional thinking about my own experiences.

“Mothers are made though time and experience.”
I would recomand this book to any new mother that needs to know that it is ok to not be perfect because if you do your best you are a good mom.
This is not just a parenting book, it is the story of a mother that went through a lot and managed to be stronger, braver and a better parent.
I read the book in one day and found a lot of relatable situations. It is hard to have one child so I can only imagine how it is with 4.
Thank you Netgalley and Alcove Press for an advance digital copy to review. This is my honest opinion.

I got the ARC today, and three hours later I'm here advocating that this book should be a staple in your bookshelf, if your pregnant it will prepare you for what's to come in a way that I've never found in a book before.
"Mothers are made through time and experience."
I'm a mother of sex and when my daughter was born I learned that becoming a parent and parenting isn't the same. And through all of my children I've learnt so much about my strengths and resilience. I wish that I could have read this book during my first pregnancy to know that I'm not alone in this sh*tstorm. Because often we are bombarded by how amazing and beautiful a pregnancy is, then having the baby and learning how to take care of another life. Because if you thought that once you've mastered the baby, I'm glad to say you just leveled up. And parenting is amazing it really is but it's difficult too.
This book is REAL which is what I love the most about it, I'll come back to read it every time I feel like this is too hard. But also to have a good laugh and just to feel less alone in this journey, because every day I learn how to become a better parent. This book will also help you be kinder to yourself through this journey.