Elizabeth finds herself resigned to her life in a nursing home, feeling as though her remaining days will be spent in solitude. However, her life takes an unexpected turn when she meets Cary, a compassionate young attendant who awakens her passions and emotions. Despite their significant age gap, they develop a remarkable relationship that transcends societal norms.

As their bond deepens, both characters experience profound self-discovery. Elizabeth grapples with painful memories of her past—particularly the influence of her domineering mother who forced her into a loveless marriage. This history creates internal conflict as she yearns to follow her heart but is also burdened by insecurities and the fear of judgment from others.

Cary’s background adds another layer to their relationship; raised by a single mother, he faces his own challenges and dilemmas that threaten his connection with Elizabeth. An ultimatum looms over him, potentially jeopardizing their union.

The story unfolds through alternating perspectives of both characters, allowing readers to witness their vulnerabilities and unfulfilled dreams. They share common interests that draw them together while also confronting personal regrets—Cary’s missed educational opportunities and Elizabeth’s estrangement from a childhood friend.

Despite knowing that Elizabeth’s health struggles are insurmountable, they cherish every moment together. Their relationship evolves into a deep emotional connection without crossing into sexual intimacy. The narrative captures the essence of love in its purest form—a touching exploration of companionship during life’s twilight years.

Ultimately, “Certain Sensibilities” is a poignant tale about choosing love over societal expectations and making the most out of fleeting moments shared between two kindred spirits.

This was a wise and brave book to write. The focus on the love between a woman in her 80's and a man in his 30's was so unique and kept me reading page after page. I found parts of the story a little boring, especially the long bits about the back stories of their friends' lives. I was more interested in Elizabeth's and Cary's stories. Also, for me, there was a spiritual element missing. Maybe it was meant to be understated, but I would have liked for the characters to have given voice to the fact that they may have been lovers/best friends in a former life (or two!). Other than that, I really enjoyed the journey of the two main characters. Kudos to the author for taking on this unique storyline!

Thanks to Netgalley, the author, and publisher, for an advanced ready copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.