Member Reviews
I am not on Tik Tok, so I had not heard of Kyle Prue or his "How to Piss Off Men" series prior to seeing this book. It sounded funny, and I was very thankful when RBmedia | Recorded Books allowed me to read the NetGalley audiobook. When I saw the time I was a little shocked-- less than two hours? Is that correct? It is correct. In fact, the actual reading of said 106 things is only about half of the recording. The second part is Kyle and his mom discussing the book and then giving advice. Listening to Kyle and Kelly was no mere filler; kudos to whomever decided that section would be the perfect way to pad the audio recording. At one point they joke that the advice part is so much fun that they should just turn it into a call-in show. I can totally support that! I would encourage readers to buy the audiobook. Especially if you're on Audible or a Prime subscriber, the price is so low you would totally be missing out to not experience Kyle and Kelly.
Unfortunately, I was left unimpressed by the book. While I had hoped for something witty and sharp, it often felt more insulting than clever, especially toward women.
As a woman, I found it rather silly that a man would feel the need to explain to women how to piss off men as if we aren't already well-versed in the subject. Many of the examples came across as condescending. For instance, using a Lord of the Rings joke, with the implication that women wouldn’t understand it so he explained it
Rather than offering any fresh or empowering insights, the book fell flat, feeling more like a lecture on things we already know. I was expecting much more wit and bite, but unfortunately, it just wasn't there.
When I saw this book was available, I made sure to request it. Mostly because one of my absolute favorite authors had recommended it and done an event with the author. It’s a really short read (or listen in my case), but I could not stop laughing. I personally love when authors narrate their own books, especially when it’s a book where the comedic timing of the author can factor into how certain lines or jokes come across. There’s some great advice and nuggets of wisdom sprinkled through out. I think I already need to reread it, and give Kyle Prue a follow on social media.
I would give this 3.5 stars. I follow Kyle on TikTok, and while this book was funny - I don’t think it had much too it. I would like more funny stories and anecdotes, rather than just some tips. It would make a funny coffee table book.
I am not on social media but came across this book on goodreads. When I saw the juxtaposition between the title and the fact that it was written by someone named Kyle, and that Kyle was in fact a cis- het- man, I knew I definitely should have no clue what to expect from this book. So I write this for that audience.
This is a book on male anger, and does a great job of being witty along the way. A really great job. I listened to the audiobook version, where the first half is jokes (or self-reflections, or instructions, depending on how you choose to use the information) and the second half is an interview and Q&A between Kyle and his mom Kelly.
First-person critique of the cis- het- experience of patriarchy is not easy to come by, so I was happy to find literally anything on the topic.
The jokes (or reflections, or instructions) made me laugh, and the interview Q&A part was reflective, fun, and self-aware.
In the interview with Kelly he made a remark that the big sell on putting patriarchy behind us is to help everyone understand that it is not benefiting any of us. To me this book read, in part, as a way to express his lived experience of patriarchy, but also of our transition from patriarchy to equality. However, I could not totally make sense of what exactly the transition experience like is for him.
Given that he has spent so much time developing his voice on the topic of anger and his lived experience of masculinity, I would love to see a future work where he explores if he experiences our transition from patriarchy to equality as a matriarchy. If so, does he have any ideas for how to curb that? And if so, when is the right time?
Lastly, I would also love to see a podcast where Kyle and Kelly take calls and thanks to NetGalley for a copy of the book in exchange for this review.
This is my first time reading/listening to anything by Kyle Prue, but it won’t be the last! I laughed out loud several times. How to Piss Off Men is witty, funny, important and engaging. The narration flowed so naturally and effortlessly. Will be recommending! Many thanks to NetGalley for this opportunity!
Narration:
Kyle Prue’s narration of How to Piss Off Men is masterful and adds an extra layer of authenticity to the audiobook. His voice exudes confidence and charisma, perfectly aligning with the witty tone of his writing. Prue clearly understands how he wants the text to be conveyed, with distinct tonal shifts and inflexions that bring the content to life. His pacing is spot on; he knows just when to speed up to build excitement or slow down for emphasis, resulting in an immersive listening experience.
Story:
In this humorous yet thought-provoking exploration of gender dynamics, Prue encourages women to embrace their individuality and challenge societal expectations. The anecdotes are relatable, and the advice is practical, weaving a narrative that’s as entertaining as it is empowering. Each chapter flows seamlessly, introducing new ideas and perspectives that keep the listener engaged throughout.
Audiobook Flow:
The audiobook's flow is well-executed, with smooth transitions between chapters and sections, thanks to Prue’s skilled pacing. While the absence of chapter indicators in some listening apps can be confusing, he creates a natural rhythm that guides listeners effortlessly through the content. There were moments where I felt completely immersed, almost losing track of time as the narrative unfolded.
Unique Elements:
While the audiobook does not feature music or sound effects, Prue’s engaging style is a powerful tool that enhances the listening experience. The focus remains on the text and the author's message, allowing the humour and insights to shine without distractions.
Recommendation:
I highly recommend How to Piss Off Men as an audiobook. The combination of Kyle Prue’s witty writing and captivating delivery creates an entertaining and enlightening experience. This audiobook is perfect for anyone looking for a fresh perspective on feminism and empowerment. I believe the narrative is particularly impactful when listened to, as Prue’s performance adds depth to the text.
Absolutely loved this in every way. I will be buying copies for myself and my close friends. Thank you netgalley for the audio copy I couldn’t have enjoyed it more!
I loved the print book and I've already started telling people about it, but I was excited to see there's an audiobook read by the author. It was even better than I thought, and I'm going to listen again before the weekend is over.
The content is hilarious, and what a great idea -- things you can say to men to piss them off. There's nothing graphic and the language is pretty clean; instead of using profanity to make a point, Kyle Prue uses simple statements and questions to devastating effect. He also explains how to ask and what kind of tone to use, and even if you never plan on doing it, it's so funny to listen to.
At the end, there's a discussion with his mother. I would have guessed he had a good relationship with his mother, because the author has a lot of self awareness. Thanks to NetGalley for letting me listen to this audiobook
“Who publishes a list of insults!? That’s Virgo shit.”
Kyle Prue’s latest is a hilarious take on dismantling the patriarchy with creativity and wit. If you’ve ever felt frustrated by mansplainers or outdated gender norms, this book offers a fresh arsenal of clever insults to spice up your retorts.
Prue’s comedic approach makes it an entertaining read, transforming what could be mundane quips into laugh-out-loud moments. The audiobook is a special treat, with Prue narrating and even including a Q&A with his mother, adding another layer of fun to this book.
I can’t wait to put all of his recommendations into action against the next annoying mansplainer I encounter.
My bestie and I read it and we both loved it. In fact, we are going to share it with our husbands, we know they’ll love it too! Only the best men will appreciate this humor.
If you’re looking for something to share with friends or just need a good laugh, this book is a must-read!
I was surprised that this book was written, and red, by a man!
I expected a lot of laughter with this book. I smiled a few times but I didn't really get into it.
I'm glad I gave it a try.
Thank you to NetGalley and RBmedia for allowing me a copy of this audio book in return for an honest review.
Based on his successful TikTok page, Kyle lists 109 of his favourite ways to upset men. Additional bonus content for the audiobook includes a Q&A session with his mother.
What I liked: I’ve never heard of Kyle before but I had already seen quotes from the book popping up on social media, so I was intrigued to read it. I had been a little sceptical about the dangers of pissing off men using some of the lines but there was a responsible warning about that at the beginning of the book, and a reminder of that warning for some of the more assertive suggestions. I really enjoyed the Q&A with his mum at the end, they seem to have a really supportive and open relationship.
What didn’t work for me: I know I can’t have both worlds with an audio book of a coffee table book but I really would have liked to see the pictures. Additionally I found it hard to remember the items on the list as it went so fast. I guess I’ll have to find a copy of the physical book.
Final thoughts: A fun list of insults intended to make the recipient think.
Who would enjoy this: Mostly women, but men really should read it too.
Will be using these to piss off men ASAP.
Interview with his mom after the end of the book gave thought-provoking talking points.
So like, I totally grabbed this book thinking it was gonna be hilarious and packed with some seriously savage comebacks to make dudes crumble. And, I mean, there were a few moments where I was like, “Yaaas, queen!” but honestly? It just didn’t fully land for me. 💁♀️
Some of the comebacks were kinda cute, but others felt super basic, like, stuff we already say. I was hoping for some next-level zingers, you know? But it didn’t really give me anything new to add to my go-to clapbacks. 😅
If you’re looking for something with real oomph, it’s more of a quick giggle than a total LOL-fest. Definitely not as sharp as I expected, but hey, it’s not the worst. 📚✨ It’s a cute little read, just not the die-of-laughter moment I was dreaming of. 💅
Big thanks to NetGalley for the ARC!
The list of things that piss off men were hilarious. I listened twice because I found them so funny. The second portion of the book was basically a Q&A with Kyle and his mother giving the background to the inner workings to his childhood and thought process. I found this very entertaining and look forward to listening to his podcasts . Thank you to NetGalley and RBmedia for this free advanced copy. I am leaving this review voluntarily
What a fun audiobook! Not only was it hilarious but it was also confidence building to women in this modern society. I enjoyed the commentary between the author and his mother at the end. Very informative on the intent of the author to break down the male ego when they’re being oppressive to sort of even the playing field. Most women don’t know how to respond when offended so hearing these suggestions helps give some ammunition just in case it’s needed later.
♥️ Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for this audiobook ARC.
How to Piss Off Men is a hilarious, sharp, and unapologetic guide that flips the script on gender dynamics with wit and style. The book cleverly dissects societal expectations and offers empowering insights for women to embrace their independence while calling out toxic behaviors. It's both entertaining and thought-provoking, blending humor with powerful messages about self-confidence and defying outdated norms. A bold, fun read that will leave you feeling inspired and ready to take on the world!
I really love Kyle Prue and his TikTok series. The book was fun and I'm glad he narrated and I really liked the added bits of the stories that were behind some of his viral TikTok advice. I was surprised by how short this was - more like a short essay than a book. I do wish it had been longer!
I actually laughed out loud while reading this book. Listening to the audiobook while working with headphones in may not be the best approach. I am sure that people passing by thought I was crazy as I burst out laughing. This was a short but enjoyable read. Recommend!
I didn't quite know what to except with this book but it met my expectations tenfold...
Kyle Prue, you are a gem. This book was so funny and his delivery as the narrator was comedic gold. I have to buy this immediately and put it on my coffee table, put it into everyone's stockings, take it to secret santa... it just a perfectly short and digestible funny read. I also think that some of these things could actually be applicable when a guy is annoying you, however about half of them are very fandom specific.
My favorites were #8, #20, #31, #36, #52, #68, #76, #82, #97!
Thank you Netgalley and RBmedia for this arc!