This is a story told by the reflection often ignored. Most stories are from the perspective of being cheated on. This was a captivating story that really placed you in her shoes. Healing and peace takes time. Throughout the story you will want to continue reading and not put this book down!

This book is a must read for anyone who has been in any form of a destructive relationship. Everything she said was spot on. She also does a great job of making the reader feel less alone which is comforting when you feel shame and guilt from the person who hurt you.

This book is pretty decent.

Not amazing. but I make a point of reading most books on this subject matter and I have to say that the title is perfect for this book. I had not even thought about how invisite we feel and appear to other people.

Some good chapters and some kind of drag, which is my main beef with this book.

However, thiere is a higher message here, so with that I would recommend.

**Review of *Becoming Invisible: Losing Myself as the Other Woman in Love with a Married Man* by Emilie**

*Becoming Invisible* is a poignant and fearless memoir that delves into the emotional labyrinth of being the other woman in an affair. Emilie offers readers an unflinching look at her experiences, bravely confronting the complexities and heartaches that accompany such a relationship. Her story is both a personal journey and a broader exploration of the often-unseen struggles faced by women in similar situations.

From the very first page, Emilie’s raw honesty draws you in. She navigates the highs and lows of her affair with a married man, articulating the feelings of isolation and shame that can accompany being in the shadows. Her reflections on how she became ensnared in this relationship provide a powerful insight into the emotional turmoil that can lead someone to overlook the red flags. This candid examination is not just an account of heartbreak; it’s a deeply human exploration of vulnerability, desire, and the longing for connection.

One of the book’s standout features is its emphasis on healing and self-rediscovery. Emilie provides practical insights and steps for reclaiming one’s identity after the pain of an affair. Her journey toward empowerment is inspiring, offering hope and guidance to readers who may find themselves in similar situations. The chapters focused on recovery are particularly impactful, as she shares her strategies for rebuilding self-worth and trust, emphasizing the importance of self-love and resilience.

What makes *Becoming Invisible* particularly significant is its dedication to amplifying the voice of the mistress. In a world where narratives often center around the cheating spouse, Emilie’s account shines a light on the overlooked emotions and struggles of women like her. This perspective is refreshing and necessary, breaking the silence surrounding the complexities of such relationships.

The memoir does not shy away from the uncomfortable truths about secrecy and emotional damage. Emilie confronts these themes head-on, shedding light on the unhealthy dynamics that can trap individuals in cycles of heartbreak. Her insights offer both validation and understanding for those grappling with similar feelings of shame and isolation.

In summary, *Becoming Invisible* is a compelling and transformative read that provides comfort, solidarity, and guidance for anyone navigating the challenges of being in an affair or recovering from one. Emilie’s courage in sharing her story fosters a sense of community for those who feel voiceless. This book is not just a memoir; it is a powerful exploration of love, loss, and ultimately, self-discovery. Highly recommended for anyone seeking understanding and empowerment in the face of emotional adversity.