I wanted to really like this one - it seemed like such a fun premise. But it wasn't nearly as much fun as I expected. It was hard to find much to like in the two protagonists - and I'm not a reader that "needs" to like the characters in the books I read. But these two - it was really difficult for me to pull for them as a couple, despite their obvious mutual attraction. I was pulling for them to get some therapy before they got together. The haunted house aspect - wasn't great, wasn't awful. It all just fell a bit short in a lot of areas. The narration by Curtis Michael Holland and Kyla Garcia rose above the content, and my rating gives a little extra credit for that. Maybe it was me, maybe it was my mood, maybe I'm just not the target audience - it's clear that there's an audience for this one judging by the overall ratings. It just wasn't the romcom/ghost story mashup I was expecting.
Thanks to Netgalley, St. Martin's Press, and Dreamscape Media for providing copies for an unbiased review.

I really wanted to like this book. The narrator was great and paced the story well. I felt there could have been more to the plot around the mystery of the house and it's prior inhabitants.

I really had high hopes for this book, but for me it was a months long journey to get through. It somehow not quite a romance and not quite a ghostly horror novel. It's so much in between that it wasn't really either. It's like both aspects weren't quite developed enough and neither shined.

I would up having to get the physical copy of this book to read from the library so I could read and listen at the same time. Overall, the characters were interesting and the story was cute but I wish that it was just planned out better.

I DNFed this book at Chapter 3. I would have dropped it sooner, but it's an audiobook, and I'm lazy.
The first chapter is the worst romantic beginning I've ever read. Penelope (the main female lead) is full of bitterness because Neil (the main male lead) is an acclaimed Native American horror writer while she is a struggling Native American horror writer. At a writer's panel, she tells him, in front of an audience, that she thinks he's a hack. Then, when she's leaving, she literally throws her published book at him. This hits him in the head and makes him bleed. Physically assaulting a love interest shouldn't be in a romance book. The next chapter was just Penelope whining about how no one in the book community wanted to talk to her as if she hadn't done anything horrible. She was lucky she didn't get arrested for assault. The concept of these two having a rom-com romance made me want to punt this book across the room but as I was listening to this on my phone, that wasn't possible.

This review is based on an advanced reader copy provided through Netgalley for my honest thoughts.

I prob won't listen to it again; I hope the controversial issues with the author get resolved. If it does I will write a review, currently I feel uncomfortable with the correct information.

If I Stopped Haunting You by Colby Wilkens is an enemies to lovers romance set in a haunted castle. I had high hopes for this one but it just didn't work for me. Pen was a horrible character. She assaulted Neil, gaslit him, and was ultimately just a horrible person. For that reason alone I couldn't enjoy the romance. Not liking either of the main characters really just made it hard to enjoy any of the story. I think it had potential but just wasn't right for me. But the audiobook was honestly amazing. The narrators were the only reason I was able to get through this.

Thank you to the publishers and netgalley for this arc in exchange for an honest review.

This book follows two feuding authors that find themselves in a real life ghost haunting situation.

This book was a bit of a hard read for me. Not because the writing was not good and not because the story was not good but because I did not feel connected to the characters the way I wished I did. I will say this book has everything I like but I think I was not the target audience for it. There is a lot that I felt for but since it was not really meant for me it was hard to connect to the characters as much as I wanted to. I think that many Native people could read this book and love it and find themselves really connecting with the characters but it was hard to connect since I am not a part of that demographic and since it plays such a big part of the story and the way the characters interacted I found myself not as invested as I would like. That being said it's an enemies to lovers romance which I love and there were some great steamy scenes which made this not a hard book to read. I know my experience will not be the same for everyone but I think those who connect to the characters will love to pick this book up around Halloween!

Thank you NetGalley for the opportunity to read this book.

DNF at 20% due to ongoing issues with author and the fact that the book is no longer being published.

If I Stopped Haunting You is an eerie tale by Colby Wilkins. Among those on a writer’s retreat at Skinner Castle in Scotland are two indigenous American horror authors who came to blows over their representation of fellow native people and values in the past. They now find themselves both in a writing slump and find themselves together in a supposedly haunted castle trying to overcome their blocks.

These two, Penelope Skinner and Neil Storm, appear to be the only ones of the quartet at the castle to encounter the spirit of the white lady. As they scramble to determine her path to this point and how to release her from her earthly bindings, they also learn more about one another, forming an unexpected bond.

This is an interesting story, however I was disappointed that what looked like obvious storylines were left unexplored. I did enjoy what the story offered, but would have rated it higher if I hadn’t found myself dissatisfied by what seemed to be an important aspect that was left untold.

I'm scoring this book based on reading, which I completed before the allegations about Colby Wilkens' heritage came out. I truly loved this story. Penelope Skinner and Neil Storm run in the same literary circles, but cannot stand to be around one another. At least Penelope can't stand to be around Neil. They're lured under false pretenses to a Scottish castle for a writing retreat, and come face to face with a lot of their own personal fears as well as their conflict with one another. Penelope struggles with her identity and Neil does a lot to affirm her-it's jarring to see this same identity issue called into question regarding Wilkens herself.

Many thanks to St. Martin's Press | St. Martin's Griffin and NetGalley for the advanced reader's copy in exchange for my review.

4⭐️ Narration
3⭐️ Story
Rival indigenous horror authors, Penelope Skinner and Neil Storm are surprised when their mutual friend tricks both of them into attending a writers retreat in a supposedly haunted Scottish castle.

Finding themselves haunted by more than just their past animosity, Penelope and Neil lean on each other to unravel the mysterious happenings around them and find that they not only have more in common than differences, but they are also stronger together- in both ghost hunting and with their writing!

This is an interesting romance/mystery that I found a little disjointed with the genre melding. I really appreciated Penelope and Neil’s interactions and their enemies to lovers relationship and found that the mystery aspect of the story to be a distraction and take away from the romance.

I had the privilege of listening to the audiobook narrated by Curtis Michael Holland and Kyla Garcia and I can easily say that it was the highlight of my reading experience. The inclusion of Curtis and Kyla‘s indigenous voices brought the characters to life and added another dimension to them. Both mariners did an excellent job voicing their main character and differentiating the side characters.

Overall, I really enjoyed my listening experience and found that the romance between Penelope and Neil to be very compelling. Their cultural struggle are what made this book stand out.

This book was just okay for me. I didn’t hate it, but I didn’t love it either. There was just too much going on. Was it a mystery? Was it a romance? Was it both? I feel like it had a bit of an identity crisis. The main characters were okay. They started out as enemies, and that usually leads to the spicier romances, which it did, but I wasn’t convinced that they one hundred percent were into each other. And the supporting characters were just there - they didn’t impress me much.

Cannot recommend this audiobook for purchase unless the controversy surrounding the author's identity claims resolves in her favor.

I am really disappointed by all the drama around this author because I finished and enjoyed this title just before it came out that she might not be Native. It's one of the things that I pay attention to in my reading. I'm sorry that she is likely done in publishing, but I wish y'all hadn't done this.

**** I am reviewing this after finding out author has lied about being indigenous and attempted to not let this bias my review.****

This was one of my most highly anticipated reads of the year and boy was it a let down. The only aspect I actually enjoyed about this book were the ghosts and not in a scary way. The premise of the story was that it would be a scary romance and I found none of that within this book. To enjoy a romance I must root for the pairing - and I could not get along with either Penelope or Neil - enemies to lovers, more like forces proximity sex partners and the only enemies were the me, the reader and the main characters. If the main story was the ghost - that had more of chance, heck even the main characters falling in "love" (more like in lust) with the ghosts instead of each other. Also the main aspect of Penelope is that she is an indigenous woman trying to break into a predominately white industry - only to find out the author is white woman faking being indigenous to - break into the industry - WTAF! So I cannot recommend this to anyone and I have yet to find a horror/romance where the author has not deceived the general public about who they actually are and boy, that is very disheartening.

Disappointed. Domestic violence in a contemporary romance? No. An author who was outed for lying about her identity and heritage - AND bullying others? Nope. So sad because I wanted to love this.

legit listened to this in one sitting. i think the narrator did a wonderful job bringing this spooky story to life and i read it in october which was PERFECT for an atmospheric and vibey experience!! highly recommend reading (or listening) if this haunted romcom is up your alley!!!

I'm bored, but also extremely uncomfortable with the female lead's "poor me, nobody treats me Indigenous" narrative. She honestly appears to believe that being white or white passing does not provide her with any form of privelage in the world. Being in a room with a Black woman and a visibly Indigenous man and thinking you're the most oppressed person in the room BECAUSE you are white is a really weird vibe. I tried to push through and give it the benefit of doubt because of the author's being white and Indigenous, but if her knowledge of indigeneity only came from research and genealogy, I'm not sure she's one to speak on the subject with authenticity.

I liked this for what it was, but am very disappointed to find out about the author faking Native identity. My original review has been redacted for this reason.

DNF at 50%
Giving this one three stars because I thought the narrators did a great job, but overall I don’t think this one was for me.

The tropes were on point: enemies to lovers in a haunted Scottish castle?! Sign me up! The haunting piece of the story was my favourite part. But I found I had a hard time connecting with the characters and investing in the story and the romance between them.

I would be willing to try something from this author again though.

Thank you to NetGalley, Dreamscape Media and Colby Wilkens for an early review copy. These are my honest thoughts.