Overall enjoyed this book! I was expecting a little bit more from it but it’s hard to want some more feminism when it’s based in the 60s. for women in the 60s, reading a book and sparking ideas about feminism and women being more than housewives was such an interesting take. the story felt a little longer than it needed to be for the conclusion it came to but overall, it was a good read! definitely something out of my comfort zone but i enjoyed it!

📚 Book Review: The Book Club for Troublesome Women
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️☆ (4/5 stars)

This book was everything. It’s a beautifully written story about a group of women in the 1960s from all walks of life who start a book club—and it ends up pushing them to face their marriages, their roles, and their true desires in life. It’s funny, emotional, and incredibly inspiring. It made me laugh, cry, and most of all, feel hopeful that the future is going to be brighter for women and minorities, and that we’re stronger when we support each other.

It’s a reminder that we all have the power to rewrite our stories—and we’re never alone when we do.

✨ “Here’s to strong women. May we know them. May we be them. May we raise raise them.” ✨

I have The Book Club for Troublesome Women 3.5 (rounded to 4) ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Thank you Harper Muse, Marie Bostwick and Net Galley for the ARC. These are my honest opinions.

I enjoyed reading this book. The characters, all housewives in the 1960s, were believable and identifiable and I really enjoyed getting to know them.

My only problem with the book was the pacing. It seemed like the story would ramp up, with lots of dialogue and interaction between the characters, and then take a detour with more telling instead of showing. But, overall, the story kept me engaged and I enjoyed reading it.

Thanks for the opportunity to read and review this prior to publication. I grabbed this because one of my book groups picked this as the May pick. I really enjoyed reading about a book club in this time period, and I thought the characters were well done. I had trouble separating the opinion of the author from those of the characters and what they learned from The Feminine Mystique, so at times the writing felt preachy instead of fully what the characters really thought. I know this is compared to The Briar Club and Lessons in Chemistry, and I felt those two titles were stronger than this one. I did finish this one a week ago and I had to reread the description to remember what I read. It should be a great book club discussion! 3.5 stars.

Thank you Harper muse and NetGalley for this advanced reader copy! I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.

The story covers the post-war housewife fixation and propaganda in America. We see the invisible labour carried out by women, the obstacles they faced, and how many of them gave up on their dreams to fulfill the role society deemed the most important for them. This story feels relevant even today, with the resurgence of the “trad wife” ideas on social media.

The subtle feminism in the story was welcoming, and didn’t overpower the story or the characters. I loved how the women in this story empowered one another to take chances and break out of the molds society has forced them into, and celebrates the bond of women and lifelong, supportive friendships. It’s an ode to the devotion women have to their tribes, and how much you can accomplish with the right people by your side.

This novel was more character driven than focused on a plot line, and I enjoyed the depth given to all of them. Despite the main focus of the novel being women’s lives, I appreciated how the author added in the idea that men were also forced into a specific role by society, “the provider”, which caused many of them to give up on their own dreams as well

There is so much I appreciate about this book. The four main characters in this book were about 5-10 years older than my mother--housewives in the early '60's which is when she got married. I am always floored at how much the world changed from her early adult years to mine and then from mine to those of my four daughters. These women who were represented in this book faced so much discrimination and limitations. I am so grateful for all they did to break glass ceilings and pave the way that I and my children have had so many more opportunities and choices. Discrimination against women still exists and I can't help but worry about the Old Boys Network seeming to be running the show for our country right now, but I refuse to believe that women today will ever allow things to go backwards. Like the women of the Bettys book club, we must believe in ourselves and never accept that things are the way they are and can never change.
I really enjoyed each "Betty's" individual stories. One of my favorite moments was when Margaret was unexpectedly at a luncheon with successful female journalists and Susan Stamberg joins them! Jackie Kennedy made and appearance too, but this NPR junkie was far more excited about Susan!!

I hope this book finds all the women (and men who care) like me who will appreciate the message of this book. I am so grateful to #netgalley and #HarperMuse for the arc of this gem. I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.

This book gives an interesting glimpse into the lives of married women in the 60ies. They were expected to be full-time caregivers and could hardly decide anything important without asking their husbands. The story about the four friends and their friendship is entertaining and uplifting but it was rather predictable and in the end everything of course works out for all of them. The title had me expect more but it was an enjoyable novel.

This is a well written book about 4 women in the 60’s who join a bookclub. Starting with the first book they read, The Feminine Mystique, these women start taking some control back in their lives during a time when so many women were really just finding out that they had any control to take back at all. I was root rooting for all of them and I would have loved to sit in at one of their book clubs. *Thanks to. NetGalley for providing me with a free copy of this ebook in exchange for an honest review.*

1963, friendship, family drama, and books? This was excellent! Four women form a strong friendship starting with a book club. These ladies are all very different but a perfect match in creating a sisterhood. They each have to face frustrating personal issues and it was inspiring to watch the growth they experienced. The ending was very satisfying. This book shows how far we’ve come but also how much more we have to go. Overall it was fast paced, interesting, and I’m happy I was able to read an early copy. 5 stars and highly recommend 📚

I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.

THE BOOK CLUB FOR TROUBLESOME WOMEN tells the story of four women in the early 1960s in a bedroom community outside Washington, DC whose lives are transformed by forming a book club and reading Betty Friedan’s THE FEMININE MYSTIQUE. Collectively, Margaret , Charlotte, Bitsy, and Viv become known as “The Bettys”. Each one has a different battle to fight. Margaret yearns to be a successful writer. Viv, pregnant with her seventh child, misses the challenge of her days as a wartime nurse. Bitsy is married to an older man she doesn’t really love, and Charlotte is battling the demons of addiction. Inspired by Friedan’s now famous tome, they each come to believe that women deserve to go after what they want in the world, and begin doing it. However, they also come to realize that no one can do it alone and that their community of “Bettys” is essential to their success.

The book is a little precious and didactic in its championing of women’s rights and contributions to society, but it is still an engaging read that may inspire some women to take that difficult first step toward achieving their goals.

A Wonderful story of four neighborhood housewives who get together to discuss books; Forming the Bettys Book club. 1963, Concordia Virginia, just after the war ended and Women went back to household duties once the men all returned from the war. The book goes into their daily lives, their struggles, wanting more for their lives. This was very much the time a lot of the family Sitcoms were inspired and many watched all throughout the 80's. Women's roles started to evolve, change. Great characters, the internal struggles and many of the societal themes of their day. Nostalgic, yet very real for many women and still ongoing to this day. Yes, we have come a long long way of the 1960s, but still have a lot to push ahead. What a great time to release this book. Fantastic reminder of where we where, what was accomplished and the many who fought for this day in age of freedoms.
4.5

Unfortunately this book was just not for me. I was really excited about the premise of four women discovering their paths in life.

However I found it incredibly Preachy. Trying to address all the issues and solve all the world’s problems at once: racism, sexism, financial disparities, generational mentoring, mental health, addictions
While all incredibly important, one issue wasn’t delved into enough to evoke meaning from the reader.

Random historical moments thrown in, but not in enough context or detail to mean anything to the story. A build up of MLK, just for a main character to see her acquaintance on TV. JFK is mentioned because a main character sat in the room with his wife two days prior. These are moments in American history, but they’re just thrown in the book and added almost as an afterthought - lacking the substance for these big experiences.

The four women did not have distinctive personalities . While they all had different lives, their thought processes, reactions and emotions were identical throughout. When one struggled, they all did and it was wrapped up quickly. As were there successes.

I did like the ending, the last 15% had a tempo that felt easier to read through. I’m glad to know how their lives ended up and get a conclusion that they all grew and got what they wanted.

Thank you for the chance to read this book

Rating: 3.5/5
Review of The Book Club for Troublesome Women

I had the opportunity to read a free digital advance review copy of The Book Club for Troublesome Women, provided by the publisher via NetGalley.

Set in 1963, shortly after the publication of The Feminine Mystique, this novel follows a group of suburban housewives in Virginia who start a book club, choosing Betty Friedan’s groundbreaking book as their first read. What begins as a simple gathering soon transforms their lives as they grapple with the unsettling truths Friedan presents. Through the perspectives of Margaret, Viv, Bitsy, and Charlotte, Marie Bostwick paints a vivid picture of a society in flux, capturing the deep-seated gender roles and societal expectations of the time.

One of the novel’s greatest strengths is how it explores the rigid post-war ideal of the “perfect housewife” and the invisible labor women were expected to perform. Bostwick effectively highlights how consumerism thrived on keeping middle-class women confined to domestic roles, as it ensured the continued demand for household appliances and other domestic products. The book also doesn’t shy away from the stark realities of the time: the lack of financial independence for married women, the struggles of maintaining a career, and the widespread use of prescription drugs to cope with unfulfilling, restrictive lives—an era literally defined by “Mother’s Little Helper.”

Another aspect I appreciated was the novel’s acknowledgment of The Feminine Mystique’s limitations. As Viv points out, Friedan’s arguments primarily resonated with middle-class white women who had choices, while working-class women (and men) often had no choice but to work grueling jobs to support their families. This nuance adds depth to the novel, recognizing that while Friedan’s work was revolutionary, it was not universally applicable.

However, while the book succeeds in its social commentary, the actual plot development leaves something to be desired. For a novel of this length, not much truly happens. There are meaningful moments scattered throughout, but they are interspersed with long, slow sections that lack momentum. Despite the title, I was surprised that we didn’t see much in the way of “troublesome women.” Charlotte is the only character who truly pushes boundaries, and even then, much of her defiance is driven by her daughter’s actions. Margaret and Bitsy, on the other hand, experience change primarily due to their husbands’ decisions, rather than their own agency. This was a little frustrating, given the premise of the book. There’s a great deal of internal struggle, yet too much deference and easy forgiveness when it comes to confronting injustice. Even Walt’s dramatic shift in character felt a bit too convenient.

The first few chapters also felt somewhat clunky, with run-on sentences and overly expository dialogue. Additionally, the formatting of the book was distracting, making it harder to follow perspective shifts between characters. There were a few typos, which, while minor, further detracted from the reading experience.

That said, despite these shortcomings, the novel remains deeply engaging. It’s a celebration of female friendship and resilience, emphasizing the importance of maintaining one’s individuality even in restrictive circumstances. The dynamic between the women is compelling, and their emotional journeys—though sometimes slow—are ultimately rewarding.

While reading, I couldn’t help but be reminded of films like The Women, The Help, Mona Lisa Smile, and Strike! (All I Wanna Do)—stories that explore the evolving roles of women in society and the quiet (or not-so-quiet) ways they challenge the status quo.

Overall, The Book Club for Troublesome Women is a thought-provoking novel with a strong message, even if its execution is not always as dynamic as it could be. Readers interested in feminist history and character-driven storytelling will find much to appreciate, though those looking for a fast-paced, transformative narrative may find it a bit slow.

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Thank you Net Galley for the ARC of this book. The Book Club for Troublesome Women is set in the 1960s, when a group of women began a book club in their neighborhood. The first book they read was Betty Friedan's :The Feminine Mystique." It brought up a lot of feelings in these women and each have their own way of dealing with the changes that were occurring in society. The characters are all wonderful If you loved "Lessons in Chemistry, you will love this book. These women grew and triumphed each in their own way. This will be THE book club selection this year.

What a delightful book; very heartwarming !! A character-rich novel that takes place during the early 60s—what many refer to as “the Golden Age”.

Specifically, this book focuses on the year of 1963. This is the year that four, traditional housewives find each other and form their “Tribe”, all over a very radical and controversial book called, “The Feminine Mystique”, by Betty Friedan.

This story celebrates the bond of women and sisterhood, as four lovely and very well-developed characters who barely know one another, decide to start a bookclub that becomes just what they needed to spark new breath into their lives. The dawn of this bookclub builds to a lifetime of friendships amongst the four, as 1963 unfolds. It is a ballad of devotion to women and their tribes, but does not become annoyingly feminist like so many author’s books seem to be written today. The feminist narrative is subtle and amiable, not bothersome and disturbing. All four protagonists and supporting characters flourish well within the confines of this very important year that is peppered powerfully with rich history. It’s just sooooo good!!! Due to be published for all of us on April 22, 2025–read it.

Thank you to Author, Marie Bostwick, Publisher, Harper Muse, and Netgalley for providing me with an ARC of this enchanting novel in exchange for an honest review. The opinions expressed here are wholly my own. It is available on 4/22/2025.

5.0 stars
HIGHLY recommend

"I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own"

This was a fantastic historical fiction novel about March to November 1963. Four women join a book club and become best friends. Unfortunately, real life intrudes and they all experience issues, problems, and hardships along the way, but their friendships hold them up. The four female characters grow, develop, and become stronger because of this intense friendship!

I didn't know much about the 1960s. I was a toddler when this story occurred and a kid for the rest of it. But I must confess that it was an eye-opening book!

The strong writing, character development, and storyline are all top-notch. I'm just grateful to read a historical fiction book NOT about WWII!

If you like historical fiction, STRONG female characters, or want to learn about 1963, read this book!!


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Hello.

Thank you so much for an advanced copy of this book. I throughly enjoyed it and have attached my review below! I just wanted to mention the cover - it is gorgeous but it uses the same picture as the book 'The First Time Lauren Pailing Died' by Alyson Rudd. You might already know this but I thought it was worth mentioning!

I will post a reel discussing the book on instagram (@what.gem.reads) on 22nd April to coincide with the books release day. I will also discuss the book in March wrap up on YouTube (@gemturley) - this will be out early April.

My Review:
I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.

Set in the 1960s, this novel follows four women who come together to form a book club, *The Bettys*, and read *The Feminine Mystique*. This feminist work sparks something in each of them—giving them the courage to question the lives they’ve been told to lead and inspiring them to chase their own ambitions.

Each woman’s life looks different—some have supportive relationships, while others do not—but they all share a desire for more than just serving their husbands. This novel beautifully explores how fulfillment can make someone a better mother, wife, and person, while also challenging the idea that we should settle for someone else’s definition of a “good” life.

Female friendship is at the heart of this book, and that’s one of the reasons I enjoyed it so much. I love stories that highlight the power of women supporting each other, and this novel does it so well. Another thing I appreciated was how distinct the main characters are—I think many readers will find a Betty they relate to, making the book feel deeply personal.

The novel also doesn’t shy away from addressing the flaws of second-wave feminism. It acknowledges that the movement was largely aimed at middle-class white women, and it even touches on how patriarchy affects men—something that wasn’t widely discussed at the time but is an important conversation to have.

*The Book Club for Troublesome Women* left me feeling inspired. It reminded me to be grateful for the opportunities I have today, but also that it’s up to me to be an active participant in my own life. Women before me have opened doors, but I need to step through them. Whenever I feel doubt creeping in, I’ll think of *The Bettys*.

Finally, I love how this book highlights the power of literature—how a single book can spark change, start conversations, and transform lives.

⭐ 4.5 stars!

Thank you to NetGalley and HarperCollins Focus/Harper Muse for the ARC. This was a great story about building friendships and was well written but for my taste it was a bit slow. I really wanted to love this book but it just didn’t grab me as I wanted. I’m sure others will enjoy it…perhaps it was just the wrong time to read it.

I love reading historical fiction set in the 1960's. This book hit the mark for me and I found it deeply moving. The female friendships and self discovery were superbly written.

The story centers around four women - Margaret, Charlotte, Bitsy and Viv (such southern names) who come together to form a book club. The club ends up becoming a catalyst for their own personal transformations.

I really enjoyed how each character is richly developed and grapples with their own issues. The camaraderie among them is beautifully portrayed.

If you are looking for a book that celebrates resilience, the search for identity with the power of literacy and friendship, I highly recommend this book. It's a very uplifting read.

The Book Club for Troublesome Women by Marie Bostwick is an uplifting and heartwarming novel that centers around a group of women who find themselves in a book club despite their better judgements. Each woman brings her unique story and struggles, but through their shared love of reading and mutual support, they find strength and healing. Bostwick’s writing is both poignant and humorous, creating a compelling narrative about friendship, resilience, and personal growth. I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.