Mason Deaver's The Build-a-Boyfriend Project is a refreshing, heartfelt rom-com that deftly explores self-discovery, ambition, and love. With wit, charm, and an undercurrent of real emotional depth, Deaver brings readers into Eli Francis’s world—a place where dating disasters, career dreams, and unexpected connections weave together into a genuinely captivating story.

Eli, a complex and relatable protagonist, is stuck in both his career and his personal life, feeling underappreciated at work and haunted by his ex’s success. His chance encounter with Peter Park—a first date so awkward it’s almost endearing—sparks a series of “practice” dates with a hilarious twist: Eli's pretending it's all for an article while actually digging deeper into Peter’s story. This clever setup makes for some laugh-out-loud moments but also allows Deaver to explore the nuances of queer dating, the challenges of coming out in the South, and the vulnerability of truly opening up to someone new.
Peter is the kind of character you can't help but root for: he’s sweet, awkward, and authentic in ways that contrast perfectly with Eli’s more cynical, guarded personality. Their relationship builds slowly, with layers of trust and respect that make each “date” feel increasingly meaningful. The chemistry between them is palpable, and the progression from "fake" dating to something real is both organic and deeply satisfying.

Beyond the romance, Eli's journey to find his voice as a writer and break free from the limitations placed on him at work is inspiring. Deaver captures the frustration of being stuck in a role that feels beneath one's potential, making Eli's professional journey just as compelling as his romantic one. His final decisions reveal growth, courage, and a newfound understanding of his own worth—both as a writer and as a person capable of love.

The Build-a-Boyfriend Project is more than just a lighthearted romance; it’s an honest, uplifting exploration of self-worth, career ambition, and the messy, wonderful process of opening up to love again. Deaver’s writing is sharp, funny, and brimming with heart. A must-read for anyone who loves a rom-com with substance and authenticity, this book is bound to leave readers smiling long after the last page.

I LOVED THIS SO MUCH. I have zero notes, I’m pretty much speechless. I am obsessed.


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I think this was a really cozy romance for me. The representation of LGBTQ characters felt really well done and also relatable for those in a place of their lives where they are ready to make a change. A perfect combo of all the classic rom com tropes.

I went into this book thinking I could guess where it was going from the summary and I was wrong in the best way. I had a great time reading and had a good few laughs, aww cute and some bitter sweet moments.

This was the first book I've ever read that one of the MMCs was trans and I enjoyed reading the different perspective/learning some new things that sent me down some new rabbit holes of education. I adored Eli's family and friends as they were supportive but realistic through the book. Peter stole my heart and his arc had me smiling as he we the readers learned about his experiences, many which I personally resonated with. Eli's arc also was realistic and I found it refreshing that he was able to own up to his actions.

Although this was my first time reading a book from Mx. Deaver, I look forward to reading more of their works in the future! My only note is that I wish there would have been a mini montage or something of that nature between the last chapter and epilogue (it would have been on brand for the movie references!)

The Build a Better Boyfriend Project was a 3.5 star read. The main turmoil was lying and miscommunication for corporate gain and that made me uncomfortable and not like the book. I appreciate the fleshed out characters with their struggles very well laid out. the writing was clear and I really related with Peter's struggle as a socially anxious guy. Overall, this was an easy adult romance read that deals with heavier topics regarding race and sexuality, and topics of communication and forgiveness.

Peter is a lovely cinnamon roll who should be protected at all costs. I also adored Eli, even when he screwed up big time. The plot was pretty predictable, but every interaction was so charming.

I really enjoyed this as a romance novel, it had realistic characters and their romance was realistically done. I enjoyed the plot and how their jobs worked overall, it had that element that I wanted and thoroughly enjoyed going on this journey.

Cute novel it was fast paced
I enjoyed the relationship building although it did get a bit predictable at times

However I think people will really enjoy this book.

I loved this. It was really cure and I loved the reaction ship that formed between them. I liked the story and how it develops throughout the story. It was a great read and I think Deaver made a wonderful novel that will be loved by many

It was not bad, but there's nothing I'd write home about. Not really shocked about the third act break-up, as I saw it coming from a mile away.

Thanks Avon and Harper Voyager, and NetGalley for the e-arc of this book!