I (think) I want out is a good book to read when you might be in the early phases of martial problems and questions. If you already might be in the phase of separation, this book isn't for that but there may be good things that can help repair it. This book had a great holistic approach and I enjoyed reading it. I got some helpful tips and strategies for it that I think could be used for relationships in general, not just marital. I encourage any reader to take their time with this and also have a reflection journal as you read through it. There are a lot of good insights. Thank you NetGalley & Simon & Schuster for letting me have an advance copy of this book to read in exchange for a honest review.

While I didn't have personal need for this book, working in the field of labor and delivery and postpartum, I work with a lot of families during tumultuous times. I'm the child of divorce (x2) myself, so in many ways I wanted to know how things could have been done differently.

I didn't expect to find practical advice for a marriage that isn't on the brink. There are a lot of good tips on communicating in the book, so it has been helpful in other ways. I'll definitely keep in mind for families I work with, but can be a great book for many couples in general.

This was such a helpful book. I am a mental health therapist that works primarily with women, yet I do not specialize in marriage and family therapy and I found this book a great resource in explaining and supporting my therapy practice. Whetstone does an effective job in describing the dynamics that occur in a couple when one is thinking or deciding to leave and how these dynamics can impact how the separation, divorce or recommitment proceeds. Great information, education and resources to use with my clients. I recommended it my other colleagues in our practice just this week!


Thanks to Netgalley, and the publisher for this ARC!

I (Think) I Want Out" by Dr. Becky Whetstone is an essential guide for anyone navigating the uncertainty of a marriage crisis. With personal insights and professional expertise, Whetstone walks readers through the complex emotions and challenges of deciding whether to stay in or leave a marriage. She provides practical strategies for both partners—the "Decider" and the "Leaning-In" spouse—offering tools to make thoughtful, informed decisions. This book emphasizes the importance of managing the marital crisis wisely, whether it leads to reconciliation or separation. If you're feeling stuck and unsure about the future of your relationship, this book will help guide you through the fog with wisdom and compassion. Highly recommended for anyone at a marital crossroads!

This is an exciting and insightful book. I liked how it explained the different stages of a marriage potentially ending. It gave me a lot to think about. Thanks to NetGalley for the ARC.