Always support an addition to the genre of Asian American Women Being Totally Normal /compliment. Of course there's a place for big stories about war, historical trauma, racism, etc., but I felt very seen by how Katie Yee captures the wry, meandering consciousness of a woman just getting through life, the way events can crash over you like tidal waves but also wash through you as if you're a sieve beneath those waves. As other reviewers have noted, Weike Wang is a great comp, and fans of her work would definitely enjoy this!

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the free eARC in exchange for an honest review!

I really enjoyed this brief, stream of consciousness style story of a women going through a bit of a rough patch, needless to say.

I found myself wanting our heroine to get angrier with her plight - confront your husband about his affair! Tell him you have cancer! She was certainly more stoic than I. I can also understand that her internal monologue was a way to process these hurdles, and I found her musings generally touching and introspective. I just wanted a bit more oomph. There were beautiful reflections on motherhood, love, autonomy and friendship that I really enjoyed. This type of novel works when the prose is tight and clean and it definitely worked here. I would recommend this book and I look forward to the author’s future work.

I love this narrator's voice! I think the pace compliments the plot and the characters are perfectly likable and unlikable in authentic measure.

A fragmented, but approachable storytelling debut from Katie Yee. I am not usually drawn to novels featuring the narrative stream-of-consciousness style, but Yee's charming main character and unhinged plot design created a unique story that I couldn't put down. Yee has certainly earned a place in my top reads of 2025.

Absolutely everything I want in a book. This was so good!
You follow a FMC figuring out her stand in life through divorce, motherhood, health issues, friends & so on. The way the author sucks you into each line is impeccable. 💖 I loved seeing the little folktales told in between the main story when she is putting her children to bed. It encouraged me to start adding my own flavor to bedtime stories w my kiddo!
If this FMC was a real person, I would whole heartedly try being her friend, she’s 1000% my vibe.

Thank you NetGalley, the author, & publishers for this ARC!

The plot of “Maggie; Or a Man and A Woman Walk into a Bar” by Katie Yee can be summarized simply - a woman learns in short order that her husband is having an affair and that she has breast cancer. The results of these events are what create the action the novel. However, the depth of the book comes from the narrator’s observations about the joys and sorrows of being alive, about friendship, motherhood, and ways of seeing the world. At one point the protagonist says, “I think if enough bad things pile up, they inevitably cross over into comedy. I am a collector of bad things with the hope that I can make them funny.” This is exactly what Yee does in this novel. She takes bad things and casts them in new light, making them funny and poignant as well as real and relatable.

What struck me most in this novel was the power of the connections that Yee makes through her choice of metaphor and the vividness of her prose. I found myself highlighting sentences and passages because of the unique connections that struck me as relevant and true. This novel elevates the joys and sorrows of every day. It gives the act of living importance and power and celebrates our humanity.

Thank you to Simon and Schuster and Net Galley for this ARC in exchange for my independent and honest review.

A surprising early contender for my favorite new release of the year. The stream of consciousness style of storytelling feels fragmented but never disjointed. The narrator's nuanced thoughts and feelings about grief, love, loss, and existentialism are explored in a really compelling way, and Yee is exceptionally good at describing these big, complicated emotions in terms of the mundane and relatable. Equal parts funny and sad, hopeful and nihilistic.
Thank you to the author (Katie Yee), the publisher (Simon & Schuster), and NetGalley for granting me an ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.

This is certainly an emotional book, but not emotional just for the sake of it. Really enjoyed the main character and an excuse to get into my feelings.

Do you know that feeling when you just finish the final season of series. You sit quietly, your heart beating slightly faster than usual, as you stare out into nowhere wondering what comes next. I got that same feeling finishing this book. Utterly speechless. It's quite literally 4am in the morning but I had to get this review out.

This might just be one of my favorite reads of 2025 and it's not even out yet. For fans of slice of life books, one step away from a stream of consciousness, this story is for you.

We follow the main character after she finds out that not only is her husband unapologetically having an affair but that she also has breast cancer just like her mother did. It seems like God is just handing out one punishment after another, but in some ways her cancer also comes at the perfect time, helping her cope with the news of her husband.


I honestly don't even know how to explain this book without giving spoilers. All I have to say is that this is a 2025 must read, especially if you're going through a time of grief or general disconnect with your life.

5 FREAKING STARS

I only give these coveted 5 stars to a book that captures my attention and evokes emotion (or a head-scratch) with unique/creative ideas or prose, creates characters and storylines that stay with me for a long time, and spurs me to tell all my friends to read it. Maggie hit all these marks for me! So impressed with this debut novel -- following Katie Yee from here on out.

Outside of the title (hoping it may change before publication to be less unwieldy?), I was a fan of everything else in this book. It handled really tough life gauntlets -- infidelity, divorce, cancer, raising bi-racial children, class inequalities -- so adeptly with sincerity and thoughtfulness but also humor and optimism. An untold number of times, observations from the main character hit spot on to things I'd witnessed or seen in my own life without giving a second thought to; I kept thinking, "Damn, how have I NEVER thought of that??" Each relationship had its own evolution with the simultaneously vulnerable and strong lead character be it with a cheating husband, ice-cold MIL, dear friend, a tree-obsessed son or inquisitive daughter.

My takeaway from this one: Life can come at you REAL hard all at once, but if you lean on yourself and those people who truly care about you, you can make it through better than you were -- even if it means reconstructing yourself or the life you thought you had ahead of you into something completely new and different. Also, F%&K Maggie.

****Thank you to Simon & Schuster and NetGalley for advanced access to this book in exchange for my unbiased review.

this was a good book! I liked the themes of womanhood, sisterhood, family, relationships, and growth. It was a good story and evoked emotion. I liked the way it made you think and feel. Overall I enjoyed it a lot!

Thank you to NetGalley, to the author, and to the publisher for this complimentary ARC in exchange for my honest review!!!

I really enjoyed this story. It was easy to follow along with and I enjoyed the characters. I liked how the woman interacted with her children and told them stories. I liked how she turned the unfortunate circumstances of her husband leaving her and the cancer diagnosis into a bit of a comedic outlooks.

Maggie; or, A Man and a Woman Walk Into a Bar by Katie Yee is a gem. As a Chinese American woman, Maggie's journey through heartbreak and cancer hit me hard. Yee’s writing is sharp and heartfelt, weaving humor and resilience into Maggie's story. The blend of grief, motherhood, and myths is beautifully done. This novel is both moving and uplifting. If you liked *Crying in H Mart, you’ll love this one.

I absolutely adored this enchanting debut novel, and immediately placed it on my Best of 2025 list, where I presume its other readers will too. The storytelling, including the use of stories and folklore within the novel, is brilliant, and the dry, dark humor through a woman's crises manages to still be hopeful. I can't wait for this book to hit shelves and find its enamored audience, and I can't wait for whatever Katie Yee writes next!!!

Not my jam. A big rambling stream of consciousness with little plot. I applaud the author for insight into the depths of this character's plight but I found myself skimming over the repetitive lists. I received an ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.

I so wanted to like this but it just felt like this was not going anywhere quick enough for me. DNF at page 30

A wonderful premise. We first get to know our narrator as she laments her children’s preference for her husband’s storytelling. Soon, she is shocked by her husband’s betrayal and by a cancer diagnosis…

The voice and humor drew me in right away. The story is structured as two long chapters in a stream of consciousness style. I appreciated this and think it fit the character (but I also would have loved short chapters to give the lovely writing and observations some more breathing room).

Thank you very moving to Simon and Schuster and NetGalley for the opportunity to read a copy.

I really liked this book. It starts off super strong and fit 50% she held me. In the back half it felt like she was unwilling to dig deeper into the dynamics of their marriage and played it safe with herself as the good one and him as the bad guy. I wish she’d strayed from that kind of narrative. The writing style, language, form were all stellar. The content left me wanting in places.

wow! I loved this sad lil book so much. the writing was incredible, humorous and poignant and honest and heartwrenching. truly immersed me and often left me feeling a bit gutted (in a good way). such a good examination of grief and healing and heartbreak. 4.5 stars rounded up!

I really enjoyed this book! I think the description is just SLIGHTLY off - people who enjoyed "Crying in H Mart" would probably enjoy this, but I think it's more for people who liked "You Could Make This Place Beautiful." Beautiful, lyrical prose. Chapters would have been nice for the organization of the book, but it flowed so well and is also relatively short, so not too much of a hindrance. Absolutely worth a read, I thought this was such a fantastic book!