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Chelsea Handler’s latest book serves up exactly what you’d expect from the comedian: laugh-out-loud stories, sharp wit, and jaw-dropping anecdotes spiked with surprising moments of vulnerability. But beneath the absurd adventures (like spiking childhood lemonade and booking herself into first-class as a kid) lies the story of a woman who’s as fierce as she is loyal.

Handler masterfully blends hilarity with heartfelt wisdom, offering readers a candid look at what it means to survive, thrive, and stay true to yourself. Whether navigating psychedelic trips, awkward dinners with Woody Allen, or reflecting on love and loss, Handler’s no-holds-barred approach makes her relatable and aspirational.

Before reading, I assumed her tough exterior was just who she was (sharp, irreverent, and maybe a little intimidating). But this book reveals a nurturing, loyal side that feels deeply maternal (or perhaps paternal, as she might say). It’s part diary, part self-help guide, and entirely captivating.

Handler made me laugh aloud while inspiring me to keep learning and growing, no matter where life takes me. If you love unapologetic storytelling and crave the kind of book that makes you feel like you are chatting with a wise, wild friend over cocktails, this one is for you.

I can’t wait to devour the rest of her books. I’ll Have What She’s Having hits shelves on February 25th, so mark your calendar.

I’ve been a fan of Chelsea Handler since her early days on comedy television and I have enjoyed each of her books. If you’re also a fan of her’s, I’ll Have What She’s Having was no exception. I’ve always enjoyed Chelsea’s honesty, storytelling and comedic ability mixed with her discussions of important topics. This book is a compilation of essays from events throughout her life that led her to become person she is today. It was a quick, enjoyable read for fans of Chelsea Handler.

This was an enjoyable read! It’s true that this isn’t as messy and full of gossip as much as Chelsea Handler’s previous books may have been, but I think that just shows where she’s at in her life now. As someone who has read other books of hers and used to love her tv show, this felt a lot like hearing about what an old friend is up to.

Chelsea’s comedy has always been a sort of medicine to me. When I was going through some bad years, I could always count on an episode of Chelsea Lately, or seeing her live when she’d roll through my city, to make me laugh and forget what or who was trying to break me. She is truly living out her middle name purpose in life. Just like Chelsea put it out in the universe about a certain former governor, I’m putting it out in the universe that she might see this review, that she might comment no, I’m not delusional and yes, we would be friends in real life and we’d discuss the sun and the moon (completely separate entities) while feasting on plant-based chicken nuggets and drinking from glasses filled with a metric ton of ice. And for what it’s worth, I wouldn’t be caught dead without lip balm on me. From one Oopsie to another, Congratulations on the future New York Times bestseller and Happy 50th Birthday, Chelsea! Thank you Chelsea Handler, The Dial Press and NetGalley for the opportunity to read this ARC of I’ll Have What She’s Having.

Another wonderful book by Chelsea Handler.Open honest funny and thoughtful I enjoyed from first to last page.#netgalley #randomhouse.

I like that she took her therapy from her last book and dove back into it with this new book.

Self reflection is hard, but when you see other people doing it; sharing their struggles and successes with it; it makes it easier to know you aren’t alone.

In typical Chelsea fashion you’re going to cackle out loud while also looking and reflecting within.

Loving this new and improved Chelsea Handler.

I went into this expecting a funny, lighthearted read, but it turned out to be much more emotional in nature. Chelsea Handler reflects on the years of therapy she’s undergone, but rather than coming across as introspective, she often feels self-congratulatory and even a bit superior.

If you’re interested in hearing about her love of skiing and dogs, you’ll get plenty of that. However, some of her reflections felt jarringly judgmental of others, especially considering the way she presents herself as enlightened. That contrast made parts of the book frustrating.

Overall, this was a mixed bag for me. There were moments I enjoyed, but others rubbed me the wrong way. If you’re a longtime fan of Handler, you might appreciate her perspective, but if you’re expecting pure comedy, this leans more toward personal reflection—with a fair amount of self-satisfaction along the way.

I would like to thank NetGalley, the publisher, and the author for this ARC in exchange for my honest review.

Thanks to Random House and NetGalley for the ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review. I’ve read many of Handler’s books in the past but it’s been many years. I’ll Have What She’s Having is a classic set of stories that have a more mature but still hilarious vibe from Handler.

As a fellow childless woman it’s nice to see her message and point of view in mainstream media. You can still live a fulfilling and fun life without wanting children if it’s not your cup of tea. Our girl has been in therapy and is ready to chat about it.

I did also find the ARC to be a bit abrupt at times in the writing. The chapters/stories vary in length and pacing, some very fleshed out while others provide very little depth. Obviously it’s Handler’s life and she can choose how much to share but then I ask why include certain stories at all?

I look forward to every new Chelsea Handler book, and this one was no exception. I really enjoyed it. I will definitely recommend it to friends.

60/100 or 3.0 stars

This was better than I was expecting, and I know that is a backhanded compliment, but it's true. The writing is solid and I have learned a lot about Chelsea. There are some important topics that she brings up and that overall are handled well. I lost interest in it at 52% because it really started leaning towards self-help over memoir, and that is when I decided to stop reading. It is good, and I would recommend it to people still, but I didn;t feel like continuing on with this one, unfortunately.

"I'll Have What She's Having" by Chelsea Handler was not what I expected. Unlike her signature dark and suggestive humour, this book feels more like an honest journal—an exploration of letting go and allowing love to lead. It’s both admirable and, depending on where you are in life, deeply relatable. To me, this book humanizes Chelsea in a way I hadn’t seen before. It’s raw, vulnerable, and a testament to the fact that she is more than just a stand-up comedian.

This was my first Chelsea Handler book, and it unfolds as a collection of vignettes from her life. She shares heartfelt and humorous stories about her two dogs, her passion for skiing, navigating the COVID lockdown with unexpected family, vacationing on Martha’s Vineyard, and how therapy has helped her become less critical and more self-aware. I wasn’t sure what to expect going in, but I found myself genuinely enjoying the read.

I sincerely thank Chelsea Handler, Random House, and NetGalley for the advanced copy of “I'll Have What She's Having.” I'm excited for its release on February 25th, 2025!

Having been a fan of Chelsea Handler for the last 17 years (!!), I've witnessed the highs and lows of her career in that span of time. I've read a majority of her other books and have even seen her on tour. I'LL HAVE WHAT SHE'S HAVING is Handler's most reflective book yet; it's a testament to her growth as a person, wanting to be the best version of herself that she can be. If you read this book and then go back and read her first, it's even clearer how much growth she's had. A wonderful read, full of anecdotes from all aspects of her life.

Chelsea returns, sharing her candid and unflinching journey through therapy, sobriety, navigating the challenges of COVID-19 lockdowns, and exploring the complexities of love.

Thank you to Random House, Dial Press and Net Galley for this advanced copy in exchange for my honest opinion.

I have read almost all of Chelsea Handlers books and this one is my favorite so far. She shows a special skill of being inspiring and still funny as hell. Thanks NetGallery!

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 4.5 Loved it, might read it again

Chelsea is WILD. I sit in awe of her life. I loved this book. There were so many hilarious, touching, and insightful moments. This book was filled with so much wisdom, including an amazing letter she sent to her family about how to be good, respectful, and grateful people.

Chelsea’s book is filled with essays that take us along her journey to become the woman she always wanted to be. She becomes a Father, skis, goes on trips, and laughs everywhere she goes. While there are laughs, there is a lot of tender and smart wisdom.

What I loved:

Her stories

The way she writes

Her wisdom

I rated it 4.5 stars because I don’t know if I would read it again knowing what happens!

Overall, this was a very fun book to read. Each chapter is different, the characters in her life weave in and out, and she lives and loves in beautiful places. I would love to listen to this book on audiobook with her narrating!

Releases February 25, 2025

Thanks to NetGalley for the ARC!

While I admittedly may not be up to date on Chelsea's books or standup specials - this was such a refreshing read and wish I've kept along with her throughout these years. This allowed me to see Chelsea in a new light from the hard exterior we've known her to have, and I truly can't wait to stay more up to date with her in the future!

Thank you Chelsea Handler, Random House Publishing Group & The Dial Press for the opportunity!

As a librarian, I love recommending books that make people laugh, and Chelsea Handler’s I'll Have What She's Having is exactly that—but with a little extra heart this time. If you’ve read her before, you know she’s all about wild stories and brutal honesty, and this book delivers. She talks about everything from spiking lemonade as a kid to accidentally having dinner with Woody Allen (and making sure to ask him that question). But what I really loved was how she balances the humor with some real, personal growth.

Chelsea opens up about learning to spend time with herself, how she’s grown emotionally, and what it means to truly show up for the people (and dogs!) she loves. It’s still hilarious and outrageous, but there’s a vulnerability here that makes it stand out from her other books.

If you need a book that’ll make you laugh out loud but also surprise you with some genuine insight, this is a great pick. Highly recommend for fans of comedy, memoirs, or anyone who just needs a fun, bold, and surprisingly relatable read!

Absolutely fantastic book! Could not put the book down once I began reading it. Cannot wait for it to be released. I will recommend it to everyone.

Ive been a fan of Chelsea Handler in the past and have read a few of her books. This one was only ok. She is trying to impart wisdom, and lacks more of the humour were used to. I don't doubt or diminish her experience and her hardships, and I have seen over the years her commitment to growth and healing while also not giving a f--k about others opinions, however, she is still a celebrity and has lived an out of touch life and this book highlights that more than her others.

Thank you so much for this ARC I really do appreciate the opportunity.

very interetsing memoir with some definite comedic aspects and some aspects of turning life the right way. 5 stars. tysm for the arc.