I wish people understood how Chelsea Handler is secretly one of the most generous human beings out there. Her family and friends are her world and she'll move mountains for them. Her humor and growth are on full display in her latest title.

My only wish was a more linear timeline for the stories shared and one or two chapters trimmed at the end, because the more vacations described the less relatable Chelsea becomes.

Exceptionally written and captivating throughout. Thoroughly enjoyed reading her life lessons and how she applied them to life.

This is a little outside what I was expecting and is less comedy (like Handler's other books) and more about self-discovery and finding your voice/power as a woman. Still a fun read!
Thank you, NetGalley and the publisher, for access to this eARC.

This was honestly such a bizzare read. I understand she is feeling very proud of her emotional growth and commitment to relationships - fair enough. But so many of the passages felt self congratulatory in a way that had me wanting to skim ahead to actual action, rather that repetitive reflection. The weird self reflection quotes (if that's what to call them?), further pulled me out of her narration.

I like Handler and have been a big fan of her other works, but this one just didn't land for me.

Chelsea Handler had me at the dedication page! As a former Flight Attendant, I have read most of her books mid-flight in my jumpseat and received some questionable stares from passengers as I tried to control my laughter about her skid marks (details in My Horizontal Life- if you have read it, you know what I’m referring to). With that, I went into this one with a blind eye expecting her same fiery, sassy, and tell all moments about life and those who have came into her path. Instead, it was a more toned down version of her experiences with therapy and her journey of self-reflection/change.

If you are used to her previous books and looking for that laugh out loud comedy, this is not the one for you. It would be perfect for an audience who is looking for relatable moments about personal growth as there are some uplifting moments of self-acceptance and kindness with a strong emphasis on female empowerment. Personally, this one wasn’t for me because it lacked cohesion and was hard to follow with the jumping around of places and timelines. I would have preferred a more chronological order for each chapter as it read almost like a diary of her thoughts. However, this is not the final print so these are my own opinions at the time of reading.

Thank you NetGalley and Random House Publishing Group for the opportunity to read a digital ARC in exchange for an honest review!

*Book publication date: February 25, 2025*
*Reviewed January 17, 2025*

During the second or third season of Chelsea lately, my wife and I went to a taping of the show. My wife brough Chelsea Handler's first book with her because Handler was known for signing books at the end of an episode. Unfortunately, we got seats in the back and we were specifically told that only people in the first row would be able to get their books signed. The ending came and my wife knew it was her only chance so she walked down the steps to where Chelsea was signing. I knew I'd be a lifelong fan when Chelsea saw her and walked up the steps to meet her, and then commended her on not listening to the security guards.

This is a book I wish Chelsea could have written when I was a preteen and trying to figure out where I fit in the world, and I think this is a perfect book for young adults. It's clear she's strongly and admirably pro-woman and puts her words into action. Hearing her experiences with therapy adds depth to the book and in typical Chelsea Handler fashion, there's a very healthy dose of humor.

I'm glad I read this. It made me admire CH even more than I had before.

Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for an advance copy. I was so excited to get an early copy of this one. I have loved Chelsea Handler since the early days of Chelsea Lately. This is her 6th book and I've read all of them. As another childfree, single woman in her 40s with a dash of childhood trauma, I have always felt like Chelsea and I could be friends. Whether or not you enjoy this book will depend on whether or not you're a fan. If you're a fan, it feels like catching up with an old friend. There's introspection, advice and laughter. I appreciate her openness about her life and experiences. There have been a lot of versions of Chelsea, but this one just might be her best.

Loved this book! It was a breeze to get through because felt like a series of short stories but it laddered up to a larger message. Already recommended it to friends. It was also nice to learn more about Chelsea Handler. The stories about Oopsie, Woopsie and Poopsie were particularly endearing.

If you are looking for a hilarious, laugh until you cry biography like Chelsea's previous books, then unfortunately this isn't it. I went into this book thinking that's what this was and was sadly mistaken. It's a good book, don't get me wrong. It just reads more like a "self help" than a side splitting comedy about her life. I've been a huge Chelsea fan for years and I am just as much now as ever. I enjoyed this, just not what I was expecting.

I received an Advanced Readers Copy of this book from Netgalley. This review is honest, unbiased, and completely my own.

I always love reading about Chelsea's adventures and life journey! This book focuses more on her progress through therapy and personal growth rather than travel, but is still an interesting read.

No one makes me laugh quite like Chelsea Handler. I absolutely love all of her books and her latest book is no exception. I find her stories to be totally relatable. I love that she will talk openly about therapy (while adding humor of course). She isn't afraid to put her own faults out there. Her stories about Covid and meeting the Bush family showed the sweeter side of Chelsea as she touched on friendships and family. Just like Chelsea's other books; these books are stories about her own life and her own self reflection. If you aren't familiar with Chelsea and her humor, this book might not be for you. I loved it and it was a 5 star quick read for me!

Thank you so much to NetGallery and Random House for allowing me to read the ARC!

5 ⭐️

Thank you to netgalley and the publisher for allowing me access to this book in exchange of an honest review.

Whew.. this book! 🥺
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Side note, I’ve read most of Chelsea’s (6 published books) and this is my favorite. It’s honest, hilarious, captivating, intriguing, transformative and it makes you ask yourself questions about how to better yourself while also reiterating how beautiful and powerful you are. It’s almost like Chelsea is “fathering” you as the reader (read to book for clarity).
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This book made me want to be Chelsea’s bff or in the very least one of the very blessed children who get to be loved by such a kind woman.
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She is powerful, she is compassionate, she is ever evolving, she’s a parent of thousands, she’s honest.
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This book was very easy to read and it read as Chelsea is telling you stories while you are sitting on her balcony in Mallorca.

I couldn’t love it more!

3 stars.

Your enjoyment of this book may depend on how interested you are in Chelsea Handler. I’ve read a couple of her earlier published books and this is not the Chelsea of old, careening drunkenly into failed relationships and laughing at her own selfishness. New Chelsea has been through a lot of therapy and has decided to change her life (in some ways. She is still pretty self-indulgent and self-congratulatory) and it appears she has succeeded.

However, the book is simply part of her ongoing biography. It isn’t funny and I don’t know that it’s meant to be. It seems as if Chelsea wants to show everyone how much she has evolved and be lauded for it, because self-contentment doesn’t really seem to be her thing, she wants everyone to be seeing her; she is always performing, even here. Not that I doubt her sincerity about wanting to make changes to her life; I don’t, and she really seems to be wonderful to her family and those closest to her.

So, for me, this was a clear 3 star read because I was here for the irreverent funny and that was missing here. But The can’t hate on a book about a woman who is on a well-meant journey.

An excellent read for any and all readers! Author comes at you with both barrels and knocks you out of your shoes! Great job fleshing out all the characters. I give this book FIVE stars! Definitely recommend!

Chelsea Handler was MY GIRL ~15 years ago when I was in high school. I thought she was so funny and loved that she was from NJ. Then, life happened and I kind of forgot about her. During COVID, I saw her on Tiktok talking about being childfree and thought to myself, “yep. she’s still my girl.”

This book is laugh out loud funny. I was belly laughing during the parts about her cross country roadtrip, the Kennedy’s and the Bush’s. I love that her dogs are her kids, shes a girls girl, and that she’d do anything for her nieces and nephews. I truly aspire to be like her, minus some of the chaos. I guess it’s time to reignite my love for her and deep dive into everything I’ve missed this past decade!

i am definitely not the target audience for this book, as i do not know much about chelsea handler. still had some funny stories! sometimes was a little hard to follow the timeline. it seemed generally linear, but sometimes had some random outliers?

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Thank you to NetGally, Random House, & The Dial Press for my advance copy.

I have been a Chelsea Handler fan since Chelsea Lately debuted in 2007. I adore her humor, honesty, childfree passion, love for doggos, and always admire with a strong, badass woman who isn’t afraid to speak her mind.

I enjoyed this book from the dedication page to the last chapter. Chelsea’s stories will crack you up & give you the feels at the same time. I laughed out loud throughout the entire book, but hearing how she met George W. Bush for the first time, was the highlight for me.

If you need a bright spot in your reading list, this is a gem of a book!

I’ll Have What She’s Having
Chelsea Handler
Pub date: 25 February 2025

This was a great book to begin 2025 with! Chelsea radiates fierce Queen energy, and I found myself highlighting quotes throughout my reading (not something I typically do). As someone who has never read one of Chelsea's books, I expected this to be a recollection of humorous stories and experiences, but this was much deeper than that. I found myself reflecting on and internalizing many of her words and also wanting to share them with others. This was much more than a retelling of funny stories. This was a collection of meaningful life advice from a highly successful woman to her readers. Many thanks to Random House Publishing and Netgalley for the ARC copy of this inspiring work! I will be sure to re-share my review on or after the publication date.

This is by far her best book: honest, refreshing, inspiring, confident, and funny. I couldn’t put it down. It’s a blend of the humorous outlandish stories of her earlier books with the wisdom she’s started outputting in the last decade after therapy. The chapters about the three children were my favorite. I’ve rethought different parts of my own life after reading. I probably will read this book again or look back on the many parts I highlighted that I want to sit with this year. Just really well done.

Thanks NetGalley and Random House Publishing for the ARC!

I really really enjoyed reading this book! I'd read Chelsea's earlier books and really enjoyed them at the time, but fell of with the more recent ones. I saw the title and cover for this one and had seen one of her recent stand-up specials and figured I should give it a try. I'm so glad I did! It's really a shame this book isn't being published in January as it really is the perfect, motivational new year new me read. It was super inspiring and made me want to finally do what I've procrastinated doing for so long. So funny! I actually laughed out loud at so many things and even screen grabbed a couple funny lines to send to my mom who I hope will read this when it does get published. I'll definitely be recommending this to anyone as I do think it has something for everyone.