Oh this book…it’ll stick with me for a long time. This was actually the first book by Backman I became absorbed with. I was torn between reading it quickly but needing breaks. It’s one of those books that make you feel so much and at times, I feared it would hurt too much to continue the story. It touches on the highs and lows of life but the power of friendship, but more importantly belonging. Every character comes to life and their mannerisms stick with you. I find myself yelling, “Tomorrow!” at people now. Thank you to the publisher and NetGalley for allowing me to read this book early. It’s truly a special story.

Undoubtedly, this is Fredrik Bachman's finest work to date! It evoked both laughter and tears from me. The characters deeply resonated with my heart and soul. The narrative unfolds across two distinct timelines, centering around four teenagers: Ted, who is shy and nerdy; Joar, who is boisterous and tough yet possesses a kind heart; Ali, who is intelligent and fiercely independent; and finally, The Artist, who communicates more through painting than words. Each of them faces home lives that are imperfect in uniquely challenging ways. From this backdrop emerges a poignant story and art that will linger with me for a long time. The writing is exquisite, and the characters are incredibly authentic, allowing me to connect with their emotions profoundly. This book is poised to become a bestseller in 2025. I urge you to run, not walk, to pick up "My Friends"!

Rating: 4.75☆

My Friends by Frederik Backman is a story about loss, hope, friendship, and childhood. It follows a group of friends who I cannot get my head off of. The story is beautifully written, and the way the author describes and narrates the story made it impossible for me to put it down until I knew what happened. This book made me laugh, and it also made me cry. It is very rare when a book gets me to experience polar opposite emotions.
I would like to see this adapted into a movie in the future (fingers crossed). If I could describe this book with only one word I would say it's nostalgic. I can feel the nostalgia through the pages as Louisa hears the story unfold.

Would definitely recommend!

This book is about an endless sea, a profound friendship, and a true love story. It delves into grief, sacrifice, fart jokes, uproarious laughter, spontaneous adventures, learning to trust, and protecting loved ones at all costs. It’s about the serendipity of art. It’s about finding your own pearl in an oyster shell and learning to let go, even when it feels like shards of glass stabbing your heart.

I may be in the minority because this is my first book by this author. It definitely won’t be my last. This story was such a journey about love and friendship and relationships. It left me in tears and hasn’t left my mind since I finished it. I will admit that the writing style was a little hard for me and I almost gave up, but I am so glad that I didn’t. Once I got into the rhythm of the story it flowed so well.

This isn’t merely a book. This is a memory.

You have art, you have friends, you have good and bad memories, and you have yourself. My Friends is what it is—it’s about friends. But they’re not just ordinary people, nor is their friendship. Or was. This book starts strong, kind of a rough patch in the middle for me, but overall ends well. Maybe. Depends on your interpretation. You know when words are tangled in someone’s insides and they come out raw, transparent, and powerful? That’s exactly what Backman’s tone is in this book. I’ve only read one of his previous books (Anxious People), and I read that one at the wrong time, so I was hoping that this book would make me appreciate Backman even better. It did.

So life in this book is this: death is bullshit and grieving is an act of love but loving is suicidal because you’re always met by the horrors of abandonment, and nobody wants to be abandoned. At least Louisa doesn’t (the main character). But it’s not just that—it makes art a fleeting experience, one where it demands you to see the world differently to view something as art and, perhaps, create art. In this, you experience some sort of rush inside of you—it will take you back to all the lives you’ve lived, all the humans you’ve called your own, and all the art that has made you long for something. It is both depressing and a pleasure to have read this novel.

Louisa and Ted’s relationship was amazing to read. Their rendezvous made me feel a lot of emotions—good and bad—but it was probably worth it. Again, this isn’t just a book, it tells us so well of a story (a fictional one, you must remember) that it almost feels like it’s telling history. Phenomenal. This is a memory—a memory of the lives lived, and those not lived, but, perhaps, will be lived in time.

Absolutely loved this novel! From the moment you meet Louisa you can’t help but fall in love with her . Then you embark on a journey that’s is told so beautifully that you become friends with the rest! It made me laugh and cry! I can still remember the friends I had the summer I was 14! Thank you so much for allowing me to receive an advanced copy!

First off, thank you to NetGalley and Atria Books for the opportunity to read this ARC. As I finish this book, I’m sitting alone in my room crying and crying and crying. I’m almost in a state of shock about the masterpiece I just read. I wonder how a book could be so well-written. The bond you, as a reader, create with these characters is unexplainable. I truly felt like I was in their world being told this story. The highs and lows, up and downs are what make this story. I don’t want to give much away, but just know that this book will consume you in the best way possible. I truly know that this will be one of the best books I’ll read in my entire life. I would give this book a million stars if I could. Thank you Fredrik for sharing your art with us.

This book was so freaking addictive, I stayed up till 4 am reading it! It clearly didn’t disappoint.

I'm calling it now: this is the best book of 2025. Fredrik Backman has written yet another emotional, laugh-out-loud book that is utterly human. I highlighted so many passages that were impactful and resonated in my soul. It is a commentary on grief, community, belonging, art... the list goes on. I've never met a Fredrik Backman book I haven't loved, and this one was fantastic as expected.

maybe it's best that i don't reveal much because the journey that ted and louisa go on as ted recounts the history of the people who make up the the painting is worth every page. every character feels so lived in in a way that only fredrik backman can do. however, sometimes it feels unnecessarily traumatic in a way to add meat which yes made me cry very hard, but didn't give enough grace to one female character in particular (some tighter editing would've helped). i had to take a pause and finished in three days which is unheard of for me with backman, but i loved the characters so much more because of it. everyone will be in for a treat come release in may!

10⭐️. One of the most beautiful books I’ve ever read. Did I just finish my top book of 2025 on January 1st? It’s very possible.
Louisa finds refuge from a painful life in two things: a single person and a world famous painting. She’s determined to get to the bottom of this painting, she knows there’s a deeper story in the three figures painted at the bottom corner of the piece. And then God laughs and suddenly she finds herself on a cross country adventure to do just that. But she will find out a lot more than who these three figures in the painting are. She’s going to find out who she is too and how to keep living despite all of the pain. Oh.. and which one farted.



*Will post + publish again week of release as well as make a TikTok video

Thanks NetGallery for this Arc.


I absolutely loved this book! The story of friendship is so touching and makes you feel like you are apart of the stories being told. I felt this was a quick read and I'll definitely be recommending it!!

Fredrik Backman writes like nobody else. His style is poetic but yet simple and powerful. He creates characters and stories that are simply timeless and My Friends is no exception.

Another easy five stars for a story and cast of characters that will steal your heart. I thoroughly enjoyed following Louisa, the artist, and his friends on every single page. Moments you will laugh out loud, get choked up, be angry, and so much more.

Thank you Fredrik for also sharing your art and talent with us all.

Thank you to #NetGalley and #Atriabooks for an ARC in exchange for my honest review.

I hope Backman never stops sharing his stories with us, we are so lucky! I couldn’t resist starting this one immediately after receiving and it did not disappoint. As usual, Backman writes beautiful characters with brilliant insights, in his unique style that i could spot anywhere. all the stars!

As I sit here writing this review, tears are continuing to stream down my face. This book was a story within a story. A story about friendship. A story about loving others and loving yourself. A story about acceptance. A story about loss. I laughed, I cried, and I gained as much as I lost through these pages. These characters were vulnerable beyond belief and also so lost that you could not help but wish to be the light that guided them.

Fredrik Backman is always exquisite when it comes to writing human emotions and making you feel as though he pulled your thoughts right from your head. He is such an incredible writer, writing about a realistic world and characters that are unlike anything you’ve read before. I loved everything about this book. I loved watching the characters grow and the raw humanity evident in the pages.

There are many people who are not a fan of his writing style, but I am not one of them. There is a realness within his words that is hard to find with other authors. You can feel that he puts every ounce of himself into the story he creates. There is never a moment where you should question where the story is going. Just trust the process. In the end, you will love these characters and the world more than anything else.

Thank you to the publisher for an ARC of this book in exchange for my honest review.

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If you’re a Backman lover like I am, this book will not disappoint. I’m so thankful I made this my first read of 2025 because the beauty of this story and the life lessons it offers will stay with me for years to come. This book was gut-wrenching yet magnificently breathtaking.
Backman has an incredible gift for bringing his characters to life. You truly feel every ounce of their pain and happiness. I can’t even pick a favorite character because I loved them all so much. Their friendship is a beautiful experience for the reader, showcasing a raw and realistic portrayal of life’s blessings and brutalities.
When you are ready for a life changing journey filled with laughter and sadness and prepared to highlight the heck out of your book or Kindle, pick this one up. Backman will forever be one of my all time favorite authors. We are so lucky to get to read about life’s ups and downs through his remarkable lens.

📚 𝚁𝚎𝚊𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚋𝚘𝚘𝚔 𝚒𝚏 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚕𝚒𝚔𝚎:
💙Human connection
🎨Beauty of art
🤝Friendship and love
💡Self discovery
🥹Emotional and hopeful
🏠Found family
📈Coming of age
💭Beautiful quotes
🤣Funny
✌🏽Dual timelines

⚠️ 𝙏𝙧𝙞𝙜𝙜𝙚𝙧 𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨: child abuse, toxic relationships, death, grief.

🎨𝕄𝕐 ℝ𝔸𝕋𝕀ℕ𝔾🎨
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💕Q U O T E: “𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝓌𝑜𝓇𝓁𝒹 𝒾𝓈 𝒻𝓊𝓁𝓁 𝑜𝒻 𝓂𝒾𝓇𝒶𝒸𝓁𝑒𝓈, 𝒷𝓊𝓉 𝓃𝑜𝓃𝑒 𝑔𝓇𝑒𝒶𝓉𝑒𝓇 𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓃 𝒽𝑜𝓌 𝒻𝒶𝓇 𝒶 𝓎𝑜𝓊𝓃𝑔 𝓅𝑒𝓇𝓈𝑜𝓃 𝒸𝒶𝓃 𝒷𝑒 𝒸𝒶𝓇𝓇𝒾𝑒𝒹 𝒷𝓎 𝓈𝑜𝓂𝑒𝑜𝓃𝑒 𝑒𝓁𝓈𝑒’𝓈 𝒷𝑒𝓁𝒾𝑒𝒻 𝒾𝓃 𝓉𝒽𝑒𝓂.”

🙏 Thank you NetGalley, Atria Books, and Fredrik Backman for this ARC in exchange for my honest thoughts. 💕

I LOVED EVERY ASPECT OF THIS BOOK!!! I didn’t want the story to end. I loved the story, the characters, and the location! This book is going to be hard to beat! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Amazing

“Art is what we leave of ourselves in other people.”

Eighteen year old Louisa’s greatest desire is to see a painting with her best friend. Not just any painting, but one depicted on a worn postcard she’s kept with her as she’s transverse multiple foster homes. On the night she breaks in to see it, she gets way more than she expected. After a series of wild events Louisa could not have began to imagine, she finds herself with the priceless painting in her custody and with the artist’s friend as her companion. She’s determined to find out the story of the friends on the pier in the painting - and in turn, she gets an emotional tale of a group of friends formed 25 years in the past.

Backman has done it again. Every time I read his work, I think to myself “how does his writing come out so beautifully?” And this book is no exception. There’s such an amazing way these characters are portrayed and the stories that are told that you can’t help but be completely sucked in from the beginning. I completely devoured this book in a single day, I could not stay away. Each character feels so alive and personal, you’d swear they are living and breathing out here in the real world. There are some difficult topics approached so be prepared to have your heart pulled out and stomped on a few times.

Recommended if you like: books about friends, books that make you cry, any other Backman novel

As always, Backman knows how to tug on the heartstrings through poignant writing and heartbreaking situations. Along the lines of the Beartown series, My Friends is a heavier book with moments of light, especially at the end. Through characters your heart aches for, Backman highlights the life saving love of friendship. It was a nice read but almost felt as if he was trying too hard.