This one is a keeper. Definitely most down-to-earth, approachable and practical book on the subject I have ever read, while feeling like having an honest talk with the best friend (with emphasis on the honest - this book hits home more often that I care to admit!).

You might be the "good girl" caring to impress as her mimicry of choice or the “never good enough girl" hiding her feelings of inadequacy behind the mask - but both of these are just the coping mechanisms of sorts and they might stop us from having real, personal relationship with God and with the others we are sent here on Earth to love.
This authoress gets the struggle more than any and shares her way, her knowledge (and even the mess made on the way).

Read this. There is no sugar-coating, but a lot of warmth and a lot of truth.
Recommended read.