A collection of short stories, Difficult Women exactly what it promises. Stories about difficult women. Varying socio-economic statuses and difficulties, all these women live rare (I hope), quirky, disturbing lives.

There's the woman who goes to a fight-club in her off time, with a co-worker who is the only person who understands her. There are the sisters who were abducted as children, and now, as grown women, are inseparable, although one is married. There is the black engineer who moves to Northern Michigan in an attempt to put her past behind her. There is a couple who deal with their infertility during hunting season.

A couple of times in Difficult Women Gay creates mini-collections, using the same setting to tell readers stories of the women who live there. She uses the small, Upper Michigan town to tell a variety of stories of women trapped in a smallish northern town. She also uses a gated community (I think it's gated; it's that type of community, at any rate) to tell a variety of stories from that community.

This group of stories are sometimes difficult and some of the women are a little off-kilter (again, I hope), but they're enlightening, and my favorite kind of stories. Because, as crazy and difficult as these women are, Gay does a great job of explaining them a bit. By going to the dark corners of her character's minds, she often tells us why some these women are so difficult (although some of them are just crazy, tbh).

I say this every time I read a collection of stories, but short stories aren't my favorite. But somehow this one really connected with me. Maybe because I'm a woman and I can be difficult. Maybe because it does tell stories of women doing slightly (and some not-so-slightly) crazy things because its the only way their lives can work and make sense. And because it's so different.

It's beautiful and raw and dark and real. I cannot imagine living some (most) of these lives, but Gay helps me understand them. At times these stories made me down-right uncomfortable (as the mother of daughters, especially), but that's what good fiction does sometimes. It takes you to places you don't go in everyday life, opening up new and different views.

Difficult Women was a wonderful start to my reading life in 2017. Quick, different, and interesting. I highly recommend it!

***I received an advanced digital copy of this book in exchange for an honest review***

I loved Bad Feminist when I read it a few months ago, and when I heard that Gay's collection of short stories was being published, I knew I had to read it.

Difficult Women is a collection of short stories, ranging from realistic fiction to magical realism and even to dystopia. Based on the title, it's easy to realize that the short stories all feature unique and strong women. The stories all ranged and I enjoyed most of them. A few were hard to read (as they dealt with dark and sometimes distressing topics) but Gay's distinct writing style made each short story unique and worth the read. The stories ranged in length, but ultimately they were each extraordinary.

Overall, Difficult Women was a wonderfully written short story collection with a unique voice and characters that readers will definitely be invested in!

excellent story collection. varied characters, POV, themes.

I have a confession: I've never read any Roxane Gay before I read this collection of short stories. Bad Feminist has been on my TBR for a long time...and I'm eagerly anticipating her memoir Hunger that is coming out later this year. I'm so glad I was finally able to inhale some of her writing, and I know this will be the first of many of her books I will read.

Difficult Women is a short story collection about women. Even the stories that follow a man are about the women that man interacts with more than the man himself. These stories aren't generally happy, and there's a quiet, pervading sense of tragedy in each. It wasn't an easy read, by any means, but it was an important one. As it followed many different kinds of women, their stories were laced with society's expectations for them and men's feelings towards them, what they wanted for themselves, and how past tragedies shape their bodies and their lives (ALL trigger warnings here).

That isn't to say, however, that there aren't bright spots in some of the stories. Some of the men know how to love women without hurting them. Even those tender moments are laced with the tragedy that has come before that man, or the assumptions that even good men make about women, particularly when white men make assumptions about women of color. In this way, it's not just about women, but about other complex social issues, including racism. One character is asked repeatedly if she's from Detroit, simply because she's a black woman teaching in a Michigan university. One character who is biracial thinks her boyfriend looks at her as brown enough to be exotic, but white enough to be acceptable. In this way, less physically violent tragedies in women's lives are also highlighted.

I'll be honest that I am a woman, but haven't had to deal with many of the issues presented here. I'm a white woman, so I am privileged in the assumptions others will make about me. I have never been abused or raped, but this collection makes my heart ache for those of us who have. These fictional short stories are all too real in our world today, and I'm afraid that it isn't going to change anytime soon. I think everyone should read this collection, men and women alike. We all need to begin to understand that sexism is still very real and prevalent in our society, and even moreso for women of color. When major countries can still elect misogynistic leaders, it's important for us to be aware of experiences still happening far too often in our society, and to use that awareness to combat sexism and racism and the treating of women and people of color as less than. Please read this book. Embrace its stories, and understand it's not all gloom and doom, but there's still a lot of work to be done.

There's no doubt about it: Roxane Gay is the name in creative writing classes. I wish the collection was about more than relationships, but what it is about is about how women respond to men in various relationships, which will provide readers with much to ponder, and students to discuss.

I read Roxane Gay’s new collection of short fiction: Difficult Women. At first I wasn’t sure I was in the right reading mood for this collection (there are some heavy topics in here for holiday reading), but she quickly pulled me in — by the second story I was completely hooked on these vivid portraits of women that feature insight into race, class, abuse, love, and strength. It’s a beautiful collection of short fiction by an awesome Bad Feminist.

Women are beautiful strong humans. In Roxane Gay's new release, Difficult Women, there are stories that focus on women from all walks of life and circumstance. Some are privileged; some are of poverty. Some are leaders; some are better as followers. Some are smarter than they let on while others conform easily. Some are sad and others just ignore the pain. Some live in glass houses while others live in shadows. But one common fact is apparent: women are molded by their experiences.

If you are familiar with Roxane Gay's writing from her previous book An Untamed State and essay collection Bad Feminist, then you know the good quality you'll get from reading her work. You'll also understand how challenging it is to describe her books without completely giving away the story. So trust me; Difficult Women is no exception.

A title means everything. It is my very first impression of a book. Sometimes it catches my attention and sometimes I skim over it on a bookshelf because of the title. For authors that I trust and will read whatever new work published, titles give me a hint of the book's content. Difficult Women is a title that is straight-forward. I assume it is about women that are difficult to get along with or full of drama. But as I read the stories, I never came across any difficult women. It was more women in difficult situations or women with difficulties. But the women themselves were not difficult, if that makes sense. Nonetheless, I am here to tell bookhearts do not get discouraged or bypass this book just because of its title. There is a story—or two or three or five—that you are sure to relate to. But there are also a couple stories that threw me way off and didn't seem to belong. They didn't quite carry the same voice of the author.

Roxane Gay is and remains one of the realest writers out here. Her tweets are entertaining and thought-provoking. Her books always leave a lasting impression. Roxane Gay has a way with words! This new collection of stories show her talent and vision of modern women.

So Happy Pub Day! Difficult Women is available as of today (January 3, 2017).. Oh, and take a moment to admire the book cover!

LiteraryMarie

After reading the first story, I had to take a long break. It was hard to read. I am glad that I was able to come back to the other stories. They are at times difficult to read, but oh so honest.

Some of these stories were previously published, and there's certainly recurring themes, but for the most part the stories knit together very well. A few of the shorter pieces felt a little out-of-place but the overall impact is strong.

I've read a number of Roxane Gay's books, I especially loved Hunger & Bad Feminist. Difficult Women picks up where she left off with her previous book of essays, Bad Feminist, and gives you more detailed short stories that address every woman. A good woman, a bad woman... every woman.

That is WHAT Ms. Gay does, she doesn't just give you her point of view but rather gives you various points of view that cause you to take a step back and really think about that person based on that situation rather than throwing yourself in said person's situation. This is what makes Ms. Gay a writer that everyone flocks to and will continue to.

I can not recommend this book enough. Thank you for another kickass book.

I've wanted to read something written by Roxanne Gay for a while, and when I was presented with the opportunity to review this book I took it. Unfortunately, most of the stories were unnecessary crude to me, some aspects even seeming overly exaggerated to cause a harsher impact on the reader.
I am sorry to say that this book was not for me. However, those few stories I DID like kept my interest on Gay's work because I enjoyed the writing style and tone, so I'll probably give her another chance.

This is a collection of rather strange stories - - actually more snippets of life than stories. The writing is good and the author has a theme going to make all of the selections tie in together. The subject matter is dark and pretty depressing, but thought-provoking.

I didn't hate the stories - but didn't love them either. It was just an okay read for me.

At some point in time in her life, every woman will be called difficult. As we all know, this is a euphemism for being emotional, opinionated, pushy, bitchy, and sometimes just for being alive. In Roxane Gay's latest collection of short stories, she highlights the many reasons why we may indeed be difficult. These reasons are every bit as emotional, disturbing, and honest as you would think.

Each story is powerful in its own right and demands careful reflection upon finishing it. Some are so upsetting that you cannot move forward with digesting what you just read. However, the collection is so compelling that you find yourself reading the stories one after the other. There is merit in either approach to the book. Both approaches will ultimately lead you to the same conclusions about women's place in society.

In each short story Ms. Gay provides an unflinching look at just a few of the issues women deal with on a daily basis. Even more impressively, she creates characters that are more than just caricatures. You know these women. They are your girlfriends, your sisters, mothers, daughters; they are you. This fact, along with her sensitive, almost poetic, approach to very difficult topics, makes this collection a must-read for feminists.

Ms. Gay reminds all readers that if someone insists on calling us difficult, we are so because of the challenges we face in a male-dominated society. Our unique roles as mothers and caregivers brings its own challenges that men will never understand. Ms. Gay does understand and it shows in every word in each of her short stories. Coming off of the craptastic 2016 and the disturbing revelations the presidential election revealed about society, Difficult Women is an essential read for 2017.

The first short story was chosen very well. It sets the atmosphere as somewhat dark and twisted, sad and difficult. Because of this interesting first story I was unable to put the book down at this point. Gay's writing is highly enjoyable and somewhat different from most authors I read. At least this is the feeling it conveys. The wording is simple, but also effective and strong.

Difficult Women, the short story that gave Gay's book its name, is in contrast to the stories leading to it written differently and has a different vibe to it. In its prominent state, it connected to the other stories very well. All of the stories were unique and written distinctly. The diversity in these short stories was refreshing and gave this book a more profound vibe.

Two or three of the short stories were not interesting to me at all. I wanted to skip these, but didn't. Awaiting a turn in events, which did happen at some point, saved them somehow.

Short stories about many different women, whom I would have liked to read more about. Nearly all of them kept my undivided attention, with most of them leaving me heartbroken at least in some way. I would recommend to anyone not being bothered with subtly being called out for sexist and racist behavior and explicit sex scenes.

A tough and uncompromising collection of stories from an author I have come to admire greatly. As with all short story collections some will have greater appeal than others, but this collection is diverse enough to provide something for everyone. As the title suggests it's about difficult women, often strong, tough women, in all their guises, wife, friend, lover, sibling, parent. My particular favourites were I will follow you and The Sacrifice of darkness, but each of the stories was well written and packed a punch.