Let me just say this, even if you aren't a parent, this is a must read. If you are a parent, and haven't read this...shame on you. Wow. It both hurts and heals at the same time which makes Paul Tripp a master at what he does. Every book I have read of his, I am already hurting before I get to it and find healing or it causes me to hurt but he also brings healing with his thoughts. I love sitting under this man's teaching from his books and I have a healthy understanding of grace because of Paul. To say I love this book, is not the best choice of words, because it really hurt me in some sections, but it is making me a healthier dad and that is what I want to be for the Glory of His Kingdom.