Quiet Girl in a Noisy World

An Introvert's Story

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Pub Date Nov 07 2017 | Archive Date Jan 08 2018

Description

Sweet, funny, and quietly poignant, Debbie Tung’s comics reveal the ups and downs of coming of age as an introvert.

This illustrated gift book of short comics illuminates author Debbie Tung's experience as an introvert in an extrovert’s world. Presented in a loose narrative style that can be read front to back or dipped into at one’s leisure, the book spans three years of Debbie's life, from the end of college to the present day. In these early years of adulthood, Debbie slowly but finally discovers there is a name for her lifelong need to be alone: she’s an introvert.

The first half of the book traces Debbie’s final year in college: socializing with peers, dating, falling in love (with an extrovert!), moving in, getting married, meeting new people, and simply trying to fit in. The second half looks at her life after graduation: finding a job, learning to live with her new husband, trying to understand social obligations when it comes to the in-laws, and navigating office life. Ultimately, Quiet Girl sends a positive, pro-introvert message: our heroine learns to embrace her introversion and finds ways to thrive in the world while fulfilling her need for quiet. 
 
Sweet, funny, and quietly poignant, Debbie Tung’s comics reveal the ups and downs of coming of age as an introvert.

This illustrated gift book of short comics illuminates author Debbie Tung's...

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As someone who needs at least 2 days to get over social events, I connected with this book a lot more than I thought I would. I'm not an introvert by any means but I found I had a lot in common with the character. This is not a funny book but for me, it is a comforting one. I can see myself buying it when it comes out and referring to it quite often.

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Introverts of the world unite! In your home... on your couch or in bed... alone... Just the way we like it!

Debbie Tung has done a brilliant job of turning my biography into a graphic novel. Sure, she got my name wrong and I'm not married to a wonderful extrovert called Jason, but she got everything else spot on so who am I to quibble? Okay, so maybe Quiet Girl in a Noisy World wasn't written with me specifically in mind, but it could have been! Debbie has totally nailed what being an introvert looks and feels like.

In this graphic novel, we follow Debbie through her final year of college, meeting and marrying an extrovert, navigating the workplace and surviving the nightmare of social interactions, often by using her husband as a social shield. From experiencing doubt about who she is and feeling different from the extroverts surrounding her who thrive on small talk, we see Debbie's transformation upon learning there's a word that describes her - introvert. Upon learning more about her tribe, Debbie learns to accept herself as she is and begins to embrace her dreams and passions rather than trying to fit into the extrovert shaped box she's been struggling to fill.

In a world that seems to be filled with extroverts (probably because all of the introverts are at home or in hiding) introverts outside of their natural habitat can be made to feel like they're from another planet when forced to interact with more than one person at a time and from another galaxy if even one of those people are a stranger. A stranger in the Dictionary of Introverts could be defined as 'a person who isn't a family member, partner or closest friend'.

Debbie is a very talented illustrator and captures the worldview of introverts so well that there will be people safely tucked away in their homes quietly murmuring, "Me, too" as they wander with hope through this graphic novel. I loved that you can just as easily enjoy this book in snippets as you can reading from cover to cover. I adored the use of a battery percentage above Debbie's head showing how long she has to go before she needs a recharge. Should extroverts want to discover why we introverts act so weird in social situations (and let's face it, we do!) this is the perfect way to find out because we'll most likely be too shy to tell you face to face.

Through the wonder of internet anonymity, those who have read a couple of my book reviews most likely already know me better than some people who have been in my life for decades. I know the pain of feeling alone in a roomful of people who are happily making small talk and the comfort of not feeling lonely at all when I get to recharge by myself. My fellow introverts and I must have forgotten to register for Small Talk 101.

If you don't know me you could be forgiven for wondering if I was born without a voice box. If you've managed to find your way through the labyrinth and cracked the code at the end to become a trusted friend then you may wonder if I'll ever shut up! I guess that's just one of the many paradoxes of introversion.

I received an ARC of this graphic novel from NetGalley (thank you very much to NetGalley and Andrews McMeel Publishing for the opportunity) in exchange for honest feedback. I love this graphic novel and will be rereading it whenever I need to remind myself that being an introvert can be a strength, not a character flaw.

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I identified with this read in every way possible. I found it uplifting as well as had some giggles from almost exact interactions. Great little read for the more introverted "shy" type. I will be picking up a physical copy I enjoyed it so much and the illustrations were great. Thank you Netgalley for the chance to read Quiet Girl in a Noisy World.

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I enjoyed this lovely graphic book about how introvert's interact with an extroverted world. Not just a series of comic strips, this lightly and delightfully follows the author on her journey as she learns to accept and honor her needs. This is a great book for introverts wanting to find acceptance as well as some great pointers. My favorite parts of the book highlighted her relationship with her extroverted partner and how he honors who she is and helps to give her what she needs while being able to socialize himself. A wonderful book for anyone who is introverted or who is in a relationship with an introvert. In other words, anyone!

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Relatable and insightful! This book delved into brilliant examples of unrealistic expectations placed on introverts. The dialogue and images complemented each other very well.

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I loved this book so much! The artwork is fairly simple and cute. It's never overwhelming.

And the story...it's more of a journey. She's a quiet girl in a noisy world. She shares how she feels anxious. How there's all this pressure from outside and inside to socialize more.

I've been there. People telling me to not be so quiet. Or teasing me for reading a book. My mom used to take us to parties and her friend's house. They aren't my friends. Not to be anti-social, but yes I'd rather read my book than socialize.

I love my friends, and I like to see them. But I also need that quiet time to recharge. It was a wonderful story that made me feel like I found a little piece of my tribe.

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Being an introvert isn't easy in a world that's so connected. However, there are ways that introverts can find their space and use their unique strengths to do some good in the world. Quiet Girl in a Noisy World is the story of an introvert transitioning from the end of school to the beginning of a career and adulthood in general. And it's a extroverted minefield out there.

The drawings are cute and relatable without being overly weighed down with emotion. In terms of the content, I think that every introvert will find a bit of comfort in reading about how someone else is dealing with the same issues, because it isn't always easy to connect with other introverts out in the real world. It was so relatable to me personally that I just want to go out and buy a copy to carry with me, and when the next person says, "Hey, why are you always so quiet?" I can hand them the book and tell them to read it.

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I think these might work better as stand-alone piece on Tumblr as there's no strong narrative or character development, but there's still a lot to enjoy. Although Tung seems to be even more of an introvert than me, I still found a lot to connect with here, and it justified my desire to stay in and read rather than go out and socialise every weekend. A good companion to Sarah Andersen's 'Adulthood is a Myth'.

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I loved this book! Debbie's character is so relatable and I found her quite inspirational. I feel like I've been on a bit of a similar journey, it is only recently that introverts have been able to really come out... without coming out at all. Where were these comics when I was younger? I could have used her disappearing trick a few times and it would be great if people could see when your battery is just running to low for socialising.

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The title of this book of short comics and the adorable cover illustration drew me in the moment I saw it. "Quiet Girl in a Noisy World" - now that's a title and a concept I can relate to.

As a child I constantly heard about how shy and quiet I was and how I always had my nose in a book. (Clearly, nobody considered this a good thing, on the contrary, it was seen as a definite character flaw.) As an adult I have struggled with introversion and social anxiety, although as I've got older I've learned to deal with it better. I've always needed large amounts of time on my own to enable me to cope with the rest of life, though, and I'm sure I always will.

If you've ever eaten lunch at your desk to avoid socialising with colleagues; pretended not to see an acquaintance on the street to avoid having to make embarrassing small talk; or used the self service checkouts to avoid interacting with an actual person, this book is for you. (I have done all of these things, and felt bad about them.)

Debbie's drawings are charming and engaging, deceptively simple: chronicling her life from postgraduate studies through relationships, marriage and first employment. I related so strongly to her feelings and experiences. It's incredibly heartening to know I'm not the only person to feel secretly relieved when social events are cancelled, or to overthink previous conversations, or to dread making a work phone call in a room full of people.

After reading the section where Debbie takes an online personality test, I was inspired to take one myself. (I came out as an INFP, if anyone's interested, which rings fairly true.)

Ultimately there is a very affirming message here of "it's OK to be you". It's OK to be quiet. It's OK to need (lots of) time alone to rest and recharge. It doesn't make you an inadequate human being. Even if that's what you've always thought.

Introverts of the world - unite! (Oh, wait.)

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Being an introvert, I was definitely looking forward to this read. I loved the insight into the mind of someone who, much like me, would prefer to stay home on a Saturday night and read rather than to go out to a bar or party. At times it may have been a little too real and not quite as funny as it was thought-provoking. Other times, I giggled to myself. Regardless, the author is hilarious while being unassuming, just like most introverts. I thoroughly enjoyed it.

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I would recommend Quiet Girl in a Noisy World to many of my friends around. It's a wonderful graphic novel that connecting us to our daily life. From the mundane routines, people actually could realise that they are maybe introvert like this girl in the book. The society should never put so many pressure and social stress on people. Quiet does not mean not normal. The normality is simply a definition. This world needs a way more understanding and diversified environment for every kind of person.

I respect the husband in the book, as an extrovert character, he understands his wife, supports her, and that's the simple and true love close to one's heart.

No doubt that this book, similar to the adulthood graphic book, would soon win people's heart using its simple storyline. Simple but not shallow. Thumbs up !

Thank you for bringing such a nice work to the public.

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I haven't read a graphic novel or illustrated book for a while and this one was a great refreshing read! I would definitely categorise myself as an introvert and so much of this book was relatable to me and I think it would for many other people too. I liked the illustrations and the topics as well as how thoughtful it was; however I did find it a little repetitive but that's the only negative.

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This book is the perfect portrayal of the life of an introvert, 100%. I related so freaking hard to every single thing that Debbie said, and I found myself snickering and nodding along to pretty much every other page. If you're an introvert - especially one who doesn't frequently find books you can relate to very well - I highly recommend picking up a copy of this when it releases!

Thank you to NetGalley and Andrews McMeel Publishing for the ARC in exchange for an honest review!

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This books speaks to all the book loving, waiting to read, thank you, people out there that just want to have a little quiet time, and not socialize all the time.

I love how she has her battery that wears down the more she socializes, and how she feels she has to go home to get any work done, because working in an office if filled with people talking and not working. I remember that well.

It is a fun series of cartoons, that actually have individual meaning, as well as a narrative of her final year at grad school, getting married, and working her first full time job.

Apparently this is an online comic, and it is a cool collection, good for the introvert in your life, especially if that introvert is you.

Thanks to Netgalley for making this book available for an honest review.

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I loved this graphic novel which I think is really about me. A spot on look at the world of an introvert.

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Thanks to Netgalley for the free advanced copy of this book.
I'll start off by saying this book is just wonderful. Extra wonderful for book worms.
I'm not exactly an introvert myself, but I do enjoy time alone once in a while. And I do feel awkward in some social contexts.
There are moments in this book that made me feel it's my life. But of course, I don't have an amazing partner as Debbie does. That's another aspect of the book that just warms my heart. The romance is cute and actually gives me hope that there are still loving relationships out there.
All in all, perfect for anyone who loves books and enjoys time alone.

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The publisher provided me with the opportunity to read this in exchange for providing feedback. (via NetGalley)

3.75 stars. Interesting read that I could relate to at times. Illustrations were well done.

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As an introvert this book was very appealing to me. It was a bit grueling going through the first pages hoping the author and illustrator would perfectly capture the essence of introversion. Page after page she hit introversion on the spot and conveyed her autobiographical story in a way that made me both smile, laugh and cringe, because I could absolutely understand where she was coming from.
Even though some of the quick comics were a little exaggerated, I believe that Debbie Tung managed to show the life of an introvert and the challenges introversion pushes upon introverts.



The illustrations are simplistic and grey scale which adds to a nostalgic feeling where we follow Debbie Tung from childhood to adulthood, from a miserable working to an artistic success.

The story she illustrates shows how society highly prefers extroverts over introverts, and how introverts need to early create survival mechanisms, because the introverted steel focus or researcher mastermind is not appreciated before we are far into adulthood.   

The book centralises the need both extroverts and introverts, and how these two conflicting personality types can work perfectly together by showing each other mutual respect and understanding. 

I thoroughly enjoyed this book from finish to end.

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This is a lovely graphic novel about a quiet girl who finds a way of living in a noisy world. It is probably the story of introverts everywhere but this one is brilliant because it tells her story through pictures.

The simple black and white drawings tell the true story of Debbie Tung, an introvert, and how she copes with living in an extrovert world. We see glimpses from her childhood and growing up, her Uni days, her marriage and her first job. We get to see her life and as she navigates through the demands of a noisy world her story will resonate with many.

Why is our world so noisy and demanding and how can we create the alone time we need in this world of noise and competing demands?

I really enjoyed this. Obviously being an introvert myself there were some of the pictures and parts of the story that resonated with me. I loved the way that this book conveys a sense that not everybody wants to be sociable and noisy, and not everybody wants to be part of the crowd. That we don't all want to be chatty or friendly at work or have to go to those never ending work social events.

I have an extrovert job and my times of aloneness are just so precious to me. The best part of the book is where Debbie shows how her batteries lose power and how she recharges them again and the ghastly times when she is really peopled out. She also come to terms with herself and recognises that it isn't wrong to be an introvert. We don't all need to be in a crowd 24/7. Sometimes we need the quiet and we thrive on it.

The artwork is lovely and quite simple but able to convey the story through the drawings. The artwork is also beautifully accompanied by a simple text and so the story isn't too wordy which is just as well give the story is about an introvert.

This would make a lovely gift for all the introverts and extroverts out there!

Copy provided via Netgalley in exchange for an unbiased review.

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I think Debbie just illustrated my life. I could relate to her so much that I wish I had a copy of this book for everyone I know. This book will be a favourite among us introverts who have often felt left out and judged for out quiet nature. It's a book you'll often point to and say "that's me!" because it accurately captures multiple moments we all know too well and understand. Delightful from start to finish and one of my treasured favourites.

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I honestly though the cover was a baby dragon, chilling with his favorite book a cup of tea that he had heated himself by blowing on it. I was not far off. The story is about an introverted woman that comes into her own and realizes that she is not wrong or broken for being introverted. She learns to put herself first and allow herself the time she needs to recharge instead of killing herself for others. So, in my eyes the woman is in fact a dragon. She is powerful, brave, and should hoard more books and tea.

The book itself followed a very loose plot. I kept expecting there to be a real plot, but every time it started to get there, there were just random pages of one shot comics. The comics did give depth to the characters, but it felt a bit out of place. I loved the book and the one shot comics, don't get me wrong, but I kept getting pulled out by those pages.

I identified so much with both Debbie and her partner, depending on the scene. I am introverted to some extent (it is more like selective extroversion or an extrovert who can't stand being around people for long periods of time). My best friend from high school up to now is an introvert. I often had to navigate the social world for her. The dates that Debbie's partner plans were the same ones I planned for my best friend for our "parties". The anxiety Debbie faced at her wedding was the same anxiety that my best friend was facing and I was trying to save her from.

The art was cute and it fit the story very well. The physical representation of recharging her social batteries was perfect. I am a sucker for a physical manifestation or a physical representation of mental illness and emotions in general. So this book hit that button for me.

I highly recommend this book for introverted people. I already sent about a dozen texts to my best friend trying to get her to read the book. I think it will help her.

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This was honest and relatable and so brilliant. I enjoyed it massively. The illustrations that went with it were great too.

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This is a simple, but very relatable, story for anyone who is an introvert. The simplicity of the illustrations add to it and make it an enjoyable read. While it certainly can't speak for all introverts, it is a good place to start.

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This book is essentially ME in graphic novel form. I found it so incredibly relatable. It was a great representation of what it is truly like to be an introvert.

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I loved this graphic novel so much, as an introvert myself, I could relate to every situation Debbie faced throughout her life, especially the one about discovery you are a normal person, you are just an introvert and being one is pretty awesome. The drawings were quite simple but nice and it fits the story pretty well.

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This is the coming of age story of a young woman struggling to fit in and be like everyone else, until she discovers a personality test that accurately describes her. Realizing she's not alone, that she's normal after all, gives her the courage to be true to herself. Charming drawings accompany these sweet and funny vignettes. Debbie Tung so accurately captures the inner monologues and life of an introvert - I have never felt so understood by a complete stranger. Reading this book was as revelatory as Myers-Briggs was to Debbie. An excellent book for all - extroverts can consider this a field guide to introverts, and introverts will feel they have a kindred spirit out there in the world.

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Being a quiet person can feel really lonely, because some people feel comfortable pointing out our “flaws” or see our quietness as a problem that needs to be fixed. It can make you feel really guilty for being yourself! This book of short black and white comics reminded me of how many kindred souls are out there, even though we may never meet each other because we prefer being cozy at home! Through her art, Debbie Tung recounts various milestones and experiences in her life from the end of college through the beginning of her career: navigating the social sphere, college (group projects!), dating, marriage, and starting a career.

I loved the moments of recognition! I related to so many of the author's life experiences:
• The small reliefs of dating/being married to an extrovert.
• Speaking up at strategic moments to earn more quiet time.
• Obsessing over embarrassing moments from 2+ decades ago.
• Being able to write complex thoughts down in excessive detail, but not being able to articulate my thoughts out loud. I write crazy long book reviews, but if someone asked me about the book in real life they'd probably get a four-word sentence!

“When I think about it, everything I am and everything I’ve achieved I owe to my introverted nature and all its little eccentricities."

Not only is this book filled with relatable moments, but it also shows that it’s okay to be an introvert. One of my favorite parts is when the author tells her boyfriend that she wishes she could socialize more like him. Later, he tells her that he wishes he could have “intense powers of concentration" like she does. We all have something to offer! Make the most of your assets. An introvert may not be comfortable with small talk, but they're able to contribute in other valuable ways. The author realizes how many of her unique traits actually contributed to her success. She learns to stop being so hard on herself and to stop pretending so much. There’s more than one way to live a life and it’s okay to forge your own path!

You can view Debbie Tung's artwork at her blog Where's My Bubble, website, and Instagram.

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So many of these comics were recognisable, especially for the younger me. And that is exactly why this is such lovely thing. Many people will know the feelings and thoughts that comics portray. I just screamed ‘so true!’ at way too many of them. I too have a social limit. After a few social occasions I need recharging time. Meeting and greeting people is hard work! And I love how Debbie Tung manages to portray that, especially in the latter half.

I love the drawings, I love the subject matter, I simply love!

I will be getting a print copy of this for sure and I recommend this to anyone who has a bit of the introvert in them!

PS I keep thinking there’s a big fat lizard on the cover…

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've enjoyed reading this graphic novel primarily because I could relate to this so much. I am introvert and I saw myself probably on every page. The artwork is on the simpler side yet quite nice and with muted colour tones goes well together.

There are pages that depict struggles of an introvert separately but all together create a story too. I was surprised that the story is quite dark at some places which isn’t bad thing and it gives the book depth. I relate to the whole story so much that it is impossible for me to not like this book.

Highly recommend to every introvert!

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So interesting - being a life-long introvert, it’s fascinating seeing so many aspects of my personality tied together so well.

I don’t know that I ever thought of over-thinking and regret of not doing what I think I should have tied to being introverted. And how social anxiety translates to life anxiety - wondering if I’m good at anything at all.

And I guess I’m not the only one who goes to the bathroom for a little relief from the crowd.

"I hate it when people invalidate my feelings and anxieties. It just makes me feel worse about myself. As if what I’m feeling isn’t normal."

Yes! I love it when a book - even better a comic book - puts into words things that have rolled around in my brain.

"I always doubt that I’m living up to my full potential. I feel like I should constantly be doing something to improve myself, learning new things, and growing as a person."

Get out of my head, Debbie!!

Also interesting - we score the same way on the Myers-Briggs (INFJ). No wonder I relate.

(I think INFJs get excited about finding out about INFJs - because they spend so long wondering why they are the way they are; often confirmed by others that their personality isn’t valid; yet when they find out that this is a personality type, they feel vindicated. I am this way and it’s ok!)

Highly recommended - if you’re an introvert, you can relate; if you’re an extrovert, you can see how the other half lives!

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As soon as I saw the title and cover of this book, I felt drawn to it. I knew that this was one I would deeply enjoy and connect to.

The official description of this book is really good so I won’t repeat what it is already saying about the way this book is structured, since it’s all up there!

This book has comic strips that will make introverts go “I do that too!” or “THIS!” and “so that explains it…” and feel accepted, understood. I would greatly recommend to gift this book to the introverts in your life, but to also let extroverts read this and understand how introvert people work. Especially introverted bookworms! So yeah, this was very relatable to me.

I loved that she had a very supportive partner, that she could find relief in stories and how she represented her unease when confronted with crowded places.
This is a breath of fresh air, especially since the author learns to accept her introversion and learns to say no, to not push herself to do things that make her uncomfortable or feel bad.

Highly recommended. Plus you might have seen some of these comic strips already going viral on twitter since so many people relate to this!

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I read this book in one sitting and I loved it!! It's extremely relatable and validating for introvert people like me. And the drawings are super cute.

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*Thank you to NetGalley for a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review*

20 million stars! (Ok, so the max I can give on here is 5, but in my mind and heart, its 20 million)

Omg. Omg... THIS BOOK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ahhhh!!!!! This was SOOOOOOOO GOOD! I cant believe that I have to wait until November the 7th to buy it! Ohhh ok. *deep breath......*

Ok. So. This book was so so good! I loved everything about it! The drawings, the story, the characters. Its just AMAZING. I could really relate to it. Except she is quite alot more social than I am, I still found this to be hilarious and relatable. So many of the pages I was like, 'Yep!' and 'YES!!' and just simply laughing in agreement and totally understanding. This book is so accurate and her love for books just adds more love to it (although I would swap the 'tea' for coffee but thats a slight detail). I know alot of people will be able to identify with Debbie and it doesnt matter if your an introvert or and extrovert, there will be something about her you relate to. Shes also adorable and her husband (turns out is actually like her real husband - lucky girl) is pretty perfect for her. Shes trying to find her way in this world and I reckon shes doing pretty well. One other thing I love about this, is the positive message it sends about how 'you're perfect just the way you are'.

Ohh this was a breathe of fresh air. Im still really bummed out that I cant have my very own actual copy right now but hopefully soon. Ahhh....its over a month away, hurry up already.

I need, physically NEED, this book!!

Ok, ill wait...

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This was so entirely RELATABLE for introverts everywhere. I basically flipped through the pages just going "yep same same same me...very me...same..." continually so you know the book is a winner there. It's kind of like an autobiography comic of an artist just trying to cope in a world full of very loud extroverts.

I also think the art was so so cute!! It felt so expressive even though it was really simple. And Debbie was obviously the cutest ever, although I kind of feel like she had it way more together than she thought she did!?? Mate. You take a weekend to recharge after socialising? I take 17 years.

The comics include stuff like:
• how it feels to go to a party
• introvert habits
• anxieties over the smol things
• that moment when you adopt an extrovert friend to do all the talking for you
• why books are better than people

And the only thing I didn't really like? There are quite a few comics about her life in an office and I was like: CANNOT RELATE. As well as feeling like she had it a lot more together than she said...

But it was still so CUTE and RELATABLE and FUNNY. And I totally loved the artwork and ate it in about 20mins because obviously that's what you do with books. You eat them.

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I loved this book so much. Not only did parts of it truly speak to me as a fellow introvert, but it was also just a really enjoyable read in general. Quick and well-told, this story is one I'd recommend for introverts, extroverts and everyone in between.
So, curl up with a cozy blanket, a large cup of coffee and devour this amazing graphic novel in one sitting, just like I did.

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I found most of the book very relatable, both in a good and in a bad way. I am still not completely comfortable by being an introvert, as I sometimes find everyday activities a little difficult and draining. Still I am getting better at it, just as this book explains taking time to recharge the battery is necessary and completely ok.

The drawings in the book are about everyday life, and are so cute. The auteur capture life in a beautiful way, not over or down playing the things that happens.

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This book is charming, heart-warming, and hopeful. I, myself, am a quiet girl and I could see myself in nearly every page.

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Debbie Tung is my introvert soul sister! Good writers allow you windows into their world while great writers provide mirrors as well. Tung clearly describes what life has been like as a young introvert moving through the everyday complications of social life. Her illustrations simply and beautifully express the tension, exhaustion, and bliss that can come from regular societal expectations. Quiet Girl in a Noisy world is a most entertaining "could-be manual" on the mind of introverts.

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If you're an introvert like me, you will love this book. I went through almost every page of this and thought to myself, "This is me!" I've been following Debbie's work online for a while now and her book does not disappoint. The illustrations are cute and quaint, and Debbie's thoughts and feelings are so relatable! I highly recommend this.

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I wish I could make this book required reading for anyone who I interact with so they could just "get me". It is nice to read something that makes you feel less alone. The characters are adorable. I want the author to be my best friend, as long as we don't have to go out anywhere. I highly recommend it to all the other introverts who want to know that other people struggle with the same things.

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I love this book because of how relatable it is. It's 100% what an introvert is always thinking when they're around people they don't know. The portrayal is very accurate and hilarious. I love the fact that it was the process of Debbie coming to accept her introverted self because it shows everyone that being introverted is normal. It's not weird or crazy for you to shy away from social events. This is a beautiful book.

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I love Debbie Tung and her drawings, because I feel exactly like she does most of the times, but I'm not able to express my feelings, and I would love to. the life of an introvert is not easy even if we spent time trying to adapt, so I appreciate the levity with which she handles the topic.

Mi piace molto Debbie Tung, sia per quello che descrive sia per come lo fa attraverso i suoi disegni, specialmente perché la maggior parte delle volte mi sento come lei, ma non riesco ad esprimerlo, anche perché la vita degli introversi non é semplice anche se passiamo la maggior parte del tempo ad adattarci, quindi ho apprezzato molto la levitá con cui tratta l'argomento.

THANKS TO NETGALLEY FOR THE PREVIEW!

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First of all, I want to thank the publishers and Netgalley for providing me with an arc copy of Quiet Girl in a Noisy World.

I identify myself as an introvert and that's the main reason I wanted to pick this book up. My uncle recently said at a family gathering that his daughter is an introvert and he wishes she weren't. That rubbed me the wrong way. Being an introvert is in no way inferior to being extravert. That's the other reason I read this graphic novel.

Quiet Girl in a Noisy World reads like a graphic novel memoir about Debbie Tung's experiences as an introvert. Her illustrations of a "social battery" perfectly portray how I feel about socializing and needing some alone time. Tung is able to explain how introverts experience things in a simple way while still keeping this a personal account of own.

I really liked Debbie Tung's art style, it's simple with mostly grey colours and the illustrations are beautiful.

The comic is made up of short chapters which are only a page or two long. I didn't mind this as it did follow a complete storyline throughout the comic.

I gave Quiet Girl in a Noisy World 4 stars! I identified with a couple of things but definitely not everything. I think this gives a well-rounded view on being an introvert and I highly recommend it to everyone!

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It's crazy how I was able to relate to every single page of this book. I had either experienced the same things or could picture myself behaving the same way in the given situation. I love how the author neither glorifies introversion nor says its a huge pain. She expresses the pros and cons in a realistic way.

Not sure if all introverts can relate to this book completely, but I'm guessing a lot of INFJs can. Highly recommended for introverts and people who have an introvert friend.

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The internet has done wonders to allow introverts to connect without connecting, and also to remind us that we are not "abnormal" because we don't readily connect with others. This book illustrated the struggles that introverts face on a daily basis, but also shows the things that make introverts feel more comfortable.

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Quiet girl in a noisy world follows the life of Debbie Tung as she experiences the highs and lows of an introverted life.

The book beautifully shows the experiences of an introvert struggling with social commitments and managing to work in a social workplace all while juggling friendships and relationships.

The graphic novel compiles many short biographical stories over the range of three years in a loose narrative which leaves the reader relating with the writer as she exposes her perspective to these situations.

As I read this I found myself in love with the story and relating to many experiences as everything went on and had to disturb my partner many times to show her what was happening.

I would highly recommend this as it was such a pleasure to read and I think many people will relate to Debbie and her stories.

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Quiet girl in a noisy world is a cute collection of comics about introverts and our life struggles. The whole collection is very relatable to introverts, even though it is really a one big comic memoir about Debbie Tung's life, and I recognized myself in about 90% of it. Most of these situations were already seen and done by other artists, but I guess our lives, views and feelings are just that similar so it can't be told any other way. The illustrations are simple and cute, and I liked the way they're done, in ink and watercolor. I guess the thing that differentiates this comic from the other, cute ones about introverts is the message that some people just don't get us. They view our silence, loneliness and reclusiveness as "not normal" and bad. They basically tell you you shouldn't act or feel or be "that way", but "that way" is just the way we are, it's normal. It always makes me sad and incomplete and defective, but then it makes me better reading stuff like this and knowing I'm not alone in this way of life, that I'm not an extinct animal. And of course the message at the end, that you shouldn't be so apologetic with people who don't understand you, that you need to find a way to be happy and free and just the way you are.

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A wonderfully insightful comic about the pitfalls and struggles of being an introvert in an extrovert-centered world. Each page has a comic with a sometimes funny/ sometimes poignant punchline. The blue/grey artwork shows all the myriad of emotions that an introvert experiences each day, and the writing cuts right to the heart of what makes introverts special.

I loved this comic! I love how the main character in this comic, Debbie, goes through a spiritual and creative journey to realize that being an introvert is okay and normal and a wonderful strength. (It took me a couple of decades to realize that I'm actually an introvert. I like to talk, so I assumed I was an extrovert, but I'm actually not. ) Once Debbie understands her own personality better, she begins to embrace her introverted tendencies, takes better care of herself, and stops trying to "fit in" with all the extroverts. She appreciates her extroverted friends as they are, and they learn to appreciate her as she is.

I love how this book blends the beautiful wisdom of knowing and accepting yourself with hilarious situations and jokes that give a lighthearted color to the sometimes difficult truth of how hard it is to find your place in society. Delightful fun!

Disclaimer: I received an ecopy of this book from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for a free and honest review. All the opinions stated here are my own true thoughts and are not influenced by anyone.

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This book is incredibly relatable in some bit of my character and inner introvert (partially). Too much hilarious scene I found myself I'm just looking right in front of the mirror as it fits my life. I'm socially awkward sometimes that some page of this book suitably describes the feeling and how weird or awkward it is that time.

Bookworm alike will find this amusing and I'm sure you're going to Ah's, and Oh's in every flip as you may be experienced the same circumstances. Well, every damn turn I always can't believe how it is so much in comparison, the events, the scenario or even that awkward talks (surprise encounter with your long-time-no-see friend or classmate). The love of books is the center of my attention here, too. I love how the main character, Debbie, always keeps on reading or drinking tea or loving the coziness the couch and bed give on the rainy days or not (but rainy days are the best when you last long indoor).

Full review on my blog https://descendantofposeidonreads.wordpress.com/2017/09/23/arc-review-quiet-girl-in-a-noisy-world-by-debbie-tung/

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This was a delightful read. In the vein of Hyperbole & a Half or Sarah's Scribbles, Quiet Girl in a Noisy World explores in short vignettes how is is to feel like an awkward introvert surrounded by a mostly unaccommodating world of casual social encounters, friendship, life experiences and work expectations.

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I really enjoyed this book. The illustration style is cute and the author's struggle with trying to fit in with a world which expects her to be something she's not is very relatable.

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This is another graphic novel I got via NetGalley and enjoyed reading.

I felt heavy at the start of the book because I felt the weight carried by Debbie the introvert seemed too much to be relatable. Parts of it made sense to the introvert in me ( I would assume most people who enjoy the book have to have some aspect or understanding of what it means to be an introvert) but I felt like the burdens depicted seemed entirely tragic. But as all good heroic stories of survival and understanding go , there may be a rainbow in the horizon. I loved the feeling of the sketches , some depicting pleasure even without involving colours in the picture. 

I feel like the book could also be motivational to those in the doldrums trying to question if a way of life needs to be defended to at every turn.

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This is easily one of my most favorite reads of this year and possibly ever. The subtle yet nuanced way that Tung describes the struggle of the conflicting energy of being an introvert was so masterful and beautifully drawn.

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I liked this book. I'm also an introvert, so most of things Debbie Tung touched on I have felt myself once or a thousand times in my life. She did a decent job on "explaining" how we work on a basic level. Hopefully, the people who read it either realise something about themselves that will help them in the future.

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I would like to thank NetGalley and Debbie Tung for accepting my request for this book.

This book is, obviously, about Debbie, an introvert who is trying to fit in this world. She meets an extrovert guy who understands her, she graduate college, she gets married, and geting a job. But on the way there, a lot of complicated things happen to her. And she discovers if she can finally cope with people or not.

I really love this book, so I give it 5 stars. Even though the story is skipping moments of the day or little other events, I still feel close to the main character. Besides, this book has a lot of funny moments where I laughed with joy. There were moments when Debbie went through some things that happened to me too. And I was like: "Hey, that happens to me as well!" So reading this book made me come to a conclusion about myself: I am something between introvert and extrovert. Sometimes I like being alone and do my own artsy things like reading good books, staying on Goodreads or watching booktubers. Other times I hate being alone; it makes me sad. In some days I laugh and talk open with people, giving them advice and make them laugh too. But other days I don't know what so say and I feel uncomfortable around others and feel the need to go somewhere else and listen to music in my earphones.

Life is complicated for introverts and it's sad that some extroverts don't accept them and the way they are. Since I was little I fell that I don't belong to this world. But as it is in the book, I, too, learned how to live with others, no matter how different they are. Because we all live together on this planet, so we can learn to at least accept each other exactly as we are. Of course, not accepting bad behavior that they do on purpose, but accepting the flaws we all have and learn to live with.

Finally, this book has beautiful animation, cute characters, and funny dialogue. I give it 5 stars and I would definitely want to buy it and give it to my future children and to go generation by generation.

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4.5 This was just so relatable and I fully immersed myself into this. I know these sketches will be my companion, and I will return to them often. It perfectly showed some of my inner questionings, nightmares and dreams and gave them a new life. And it is just so comforting to know there's more INFJs outside ready to share their story. I know it takes some courage to put your thoughts onto paper, but Debbie Tung did just that. And I'd like to thank her for that.

Not much more to say - I'm left a little speechless, but I've enjoyed this little book fully, related to many of the comics included inside and was left feeling inspired and fine, and that after a long and exhausting day.

ARC from NetGalley, thank you kindly.

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I found Quiet Girl in a Noisy World to be a very relatable book. There were quite a few pages here I absolutely could have written (if I had this kind of artistic talent, that is). This is the perfect book of comics for an introvert, and would especially appeal to introverts who struggle (or have struggled) with shyness and social anxiety too.

There is a loose narrative here that follows the author through finishing college, getting married, and getting (and leaving) a job, but it doesn't have to be read in chronological order to be enjoyed. I wasn't intending to rip right through this, but I found myself losing track of how much I was reading, because it's an easy read, and each vignette of introvert life made me want the next one.

I liked the "battery indicator" that showed up sometimes as a visual for how social activity can exhaust introverts. Other topics include: self-doubt and overthinking, love of books, love of solitude, and coming to terms with being who you are. And the artwork was beautiful too.

I also loved the comics that showed how she and her extroverted husband balance each other out -- it's a lovely visual about appreciating different people's strengths and weaknesses.

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I've never related to a book like this and I loved it so much. I was like "same girl" everytime. This was really nice to have a positive message about introvert people and I've loved how the character grow up through the pages.
This book truly spoke to me as an awkward and quiet girl. So relatable.

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If this book wasn’t written for people like me in mind, then I don’t want to be on this planet anymore. I honestly could relate to almost every page of Quiet Girl in a Noisy World, An Introvert’s Story by Debbie Tung. This cute illustrated book shows just what it’s like to be an introvert, and how hard it can be for some of us to interact, relate, and deal with others.
The style of the drawings is just super adorable as well, but the message of the book is what really got to me. What I understood is that it’s okay to need space, to need quiet, and to need to be by yourself. We all have our own ways to recharge, and for us introverts, that means finding a certain safe place, enjoying a nice cup of coffee, and tuning out the world.I love that there are other people out there like me, who just don’t know how or really feel a desire to go out and do things with other people, and that find it way more fun to sit at home and read a book. A lot of us book bloggers are the same way, and I think that this would be an enjoyable read for you guys too! It’s really cute, and it makes me feel better about myself. I give this book 5 out of 5 stars, so fun to look at, and the message is perfect. Thank you to Netgalley for letting me read this book.

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The creator's character in this book is a successful student, and attractive enough to find a decent man who wants to marry her, but she finds her own company by far the best. Stick her with an Apple laptop (boo), a bundle of books or a canvas - just don't assume she can chit-chat and waffle, and don't take it the wrong way when she clams up in a crowd. It's not for lack of intelligence that she chooses not to open her mouth. And I can certainly identify with a lot of that - I'm forever castigating my partner and other people for their constant yacking. So while I don't go the whole hog of having the character's huge self-doubt, and self-pitying seeking for some responsible meaning in everything she does, and while I'm a coffee guy to her tea gal, I was right on board for this book. It's sketchy - subtitling it a 'story' is a bit rich, when you can follow one thread for at most three or four pages - but it's very, very good, with fine ink and paint artwork. A real water-cooler volume, then.

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I was not expecting to connect with this book of introverted comics when I picked it out. I'd seen some of the panels before on places like Facebook and Tumblr, but I think this is just the best collection that tells a great story that I very much relate to. I, myself, am an introvert and it was strange and cathartic to see that someone else has felt the way that I do about being social, having my place of solitude, reverting to books and tea as friendly faces... I definitely would like to find a physical copy of this book to have on hand when I start to feel down. I absolutely loved it!

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I'm not sure that I've ever connected with a book as much as I have this one. Debbie's illustrations are subtly brilliant, perfectly detailing the everyday struggles of introverts everywhere.

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Debbie Tung's autobiographical tale will resonate with introverts and ambiverts alike. Her stories about finding a partner, maneuvering social gatherings, and dealing with coworkers were very relatable.

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This book is so important.

I identify more as an ambivert than an introvert, and while usually I lean more towards introvert than extrovert, everything about this book felt like something I could relate. My social batteries may need recharging after two hours of hanging out with friends, and often those same friends don't understand that and think I'm blowing them off and then I immediately feel bad and completely overwhelm myself with more socialising before I'm ready. This book felt like a warm hug that just swooped in with a cup of tea and a blanket, telling me that it's okay to need to unplug. It made me a bit emotional.

Accessible reads about life as an introvert are so important. Not only to those of us who live with it, but also for the people who don't and may have a hard time understanding why we may not want to talk.

This book, you guys. So important. So wonderful and important.

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As a fellow INFJ, I absolutely fell in love with everything this book had to offer. It was a spectacular portrayal of exactly what it is like to live as an introvert and I really appreciated it. I found the book while playing in Netgalley and am SO HAPPY that I did.

Debbie does a wonderful job explaining herself through these comics in a way that is understandable and very relatable even if you are no introverted, but it resonates even more because I am. The comics the book contains are short ones so it is easy to start and stop where ever you are or read it all in one glorious sitting like I did. We follow Debbie through the years and into becoming an adult, I call it being a 'real adult' sometimes because even though I am in my 30s I still don't think of myself as an adult. Much like the author and these comics, I love a day in, with a blanket fort and tea or cocoa and a good book or binging a show. I love doing nothing and being alone, but sometimes feel obligated to do adult things like go out and socialize.

I loved everything about this comic compilation and appreciate this author for putting it all out there, as an introvert - I know how very hard that can be, but it really is appreciated and I loved it all.

Review on Cover2CoverBlog coming soon.

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Because a Talking Hangover is a Real Thing (5 stars)

The world belongs to the extroverts. I learned that pretty quickly in primary school. But where does that leave everyone else? In my experience, it leaves most introverts feeling like they don't belong anywhere.

Quiet Girl in a Noisy World is a remarkably smart, funny look at how one person has made peace with her introversion. I've known many fellow introverts over the years and while Tung's level of introversion is a bit deeper than my own I found it so very relatable. It was nice to find that many of her experiences were quite universal for introverts (and often their extrovert partners, too).

If you've ever declined an invitation or made a weak excuse to get out of a social event there's humor for you. Found yourself feeling majorly hungover after attending a mandatory work function or family gathering even though you didn't touch the booze? Yep, Tung covers the introvert hangover perfectly. If you sometimes find yourself huddled behind a big book or wearing headphones even when you've got no music on in public spaces chances are you'll feel comforted to discover you're far from alone.

With lovely illustrations, warm wit, and the courage to share all of the awkwardness that comes with being introverted Tung has written a tome I'm likely to read anytime I'm feeling down about my failings at extraversion. I also think it would be a great gift to give the introverts in your life to show them that you're cool with who they are. Maybe you'll even get lucky and they'll decide to sit next to you while they read it and you do something else—a high sign that an introvert likes you.

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I am a huge fan of Debbie Tung's Tumblr, Wheresmybubble. I've reblogged countless comics from her, to both my personal blog and my Booklr. So, when I found out she had put together a book, I tripped over both feet and slammed into a wall in my rush to request the ARC of it.

These comics are so relatable. You may think, "Well, I'm not an introvert, so I couldn't relate." But no. Don't be fooled, these comics are scary sneaky. All those little quirks you think are solely your eccentricities, she has put ink to paper and called you out.

Plus, she focuses so much on book love, it makes me ridiculously warm and fuzzy inside.

Everyone should read these comics. Whether you're introvert or extrovert, this gives you that Not Alone feeling, plus also gives insights into that friend who, when you call uber apologetic because you have to cancel plans, they sound far too excited and it makes you uncomfortable.

So good. So, so good.

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Oh how I loved reading and admiring Every. Single. Panel. in this book.

This is every introvert's life on pages. Definitely going to buy this one for my collection on its release.

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New people overwhelm her but her current friends and family give her comfort. She would prefer to be alone but she agrees to the plans that others have arranged as she doesn’t want to hurt their feelings by turning them down. She would prefer to have an empty calendar than a full one. As I read through this novel, I found myself agreeing with some of the feelings that she was acknowledging, could it be that I had some traits of an introvert?

As a young child, Debbie was quiet and preferred to be alone so this is not something that has just occurred. Debbie had been struggling with social anxiety for a few years now and she keeps her guard up. As she starts to becomes an adult, she begins to rethink how she handles her social situations.

One of the reasons that I enjoyed this graphic novel was because of the messages it was sending its readers. Debbie liked being by herself and what she was doing was fine but how she felt was causing her conflict. Debbie felt that she needed to conform, to please others but she doesn’t. Debbie needs to only please herself. Debbie also doesn’t need to be upset with herself for not fitting in with other individuals in her life, she needs to do what makes her happy. I liked the way this graphic novel presents this. I also liked the illustrations, I thought these helped fuel the energy towards the messages inside the novel. I think that many readers will be able to relate to Debbie as they read this graphic novel.

This was an arc and I hope that they keep this one page as it made me smile and it is one that I know many people will be able to relate to. This page had two sections, one section was labeled “How Other People Party” and it had individuals dancing with drinks in their hands and they were all laughing and smiling. There were streamers and a banner decorating the room. In the second section of the page, it said, “How I Party” and it had Debbie in her bed with a hot drink on her nightstand. She was sitting up with a book in her hands and she was getting excited as the plot in her book thickened. I loved this.

I received a copy of this novel from NetGalley and Andrews McMeel Publishing in exchange for an honest review.

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Started reading this on a rainy Saturday night. When I was flipping through the pages, I realised how much I understand and the know the exact feeling of not being sociable. It’s tiring and I always have to rush home to recharge.

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This is going to be one of those reviews where my review is so much shorter than the blurb of the book.

Oh, God! Where do I even start????

Quiet Girl in a Noisy World: An Introvert’s Story is a collection of short segments that follow a timeline that begins from being a college student, to falling in love, to getting married, to having a job. I feel like Debbie was able to capture snippets of her life as an introvert, and share it with us through this Graphic Novel.

It was 101% relatable. I was all over the moon when I saw how the character thought and acted similarly to me. Usually, when I say something like ” I need to stay home today to recharge”, people are usually giving me the “WTF are you talking about” look.

Some people gave this book 4 stars instead of 5 because there was a thing or 2 that they couldn’t relate with. This sounds a bit ridiculous to me cause not everyone will have exactly the same experience. We, more or less, share a similar experience.

I believe that this book could also be a great portal for extroverts to explore. Through reading this, they can learn a bit more about introverts and understand why we do the things we do.

I really liked the illustrations. They were very simple, and crafted in black, grey, and white. It is the “you get what you see” kind of Graphic Novels, and I highly respect that. I really hate when the art on the cover of the book is something ( usually better) different from the illustrations inside the book.

I really, really, really want to have my own hardcover/ paperback version of this on my shelf, sitting so close and in my reach to grab whenever I need a little boost of self-esteem. That would never happen though because I am INTL reader, ugh.

I received an eARC in exchange with an honest review.

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Debbie’s illustration takes us through a journey of self-discovery, as she questions who she was and what her life’s purpose was. Her book illustrates our life-long need to identity ourselves so we can feel happier and less constrained by society’s expectations of what we should be and how we should act. In a predominantly extroverted world, it can be daunting and a little intimidating to be the exact opposite of an extrovert – quiet, intense, absorbed, anti-social (and I use the latter term loosely). You feel the need to ask ‘what is wrong with me, and why am I this way’? Well, after some research and getting answers to life-long questions, Debbie finally realizes the truth about her personality type. Her realization leads to self-discovery and acceptance, which eventually leads to self-love.

Needless to say, this graphic book spoke my whole life story. I could relate to so many aspects of Debbie’s life as an introvert, aspects like not knowing who you really are or why you do and feel things a certain way; that feeling of awkwardness when meeting new people, or the overwhelming urge to hide when surrounded by unknown faces. As an extroverted introvert who's highly sensitive to others, I could totally relate to being able to feel exactly what others are feeling and experiencing as they verbalize their feelings to you. I could relate to the desperate need to have a few days to myself to recharge after attending a social event or even a simple hangout with friends. And yes, I could totally relate to looking at your phone with dread whenever it rings! It may all sound weird to some, but it’s completely real and true.

I love the part in the book where Debbie mentions self-love; the moment you begin to understand yourself in a deeper level, is the moment you begin to accept yourself as you are - hence the beginning of the journey towards self-love and utter liberation. I also love the part where she says there is a lot of beauty in quiet strength. I couldn't have worded that any better.

Very enlightening graphic book with beautiful and accurate illustrations – no prose could've adequately described the illustrations as they were presented. Highly recommended to anyone of any personality type. If an introvert, you'll relate and understand a lot more about yourself with this book, and if an extrovert, you'll understand a lot more about introverts. For all introverts out there, don't be apologetic for who you are. Embrace it fully; you're unique just the way you are!

I received a copy of this novel from the Publisher via NetGalley, in exchange for an honest review.

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I'm an introvert so I could relate to a lot of the situations in this book. There is minimal dialogue but Tung gets the point across clearly. The minimal text actually underlines the introversion of the main character.

The art was awesome. It was simple in that it was black and white, but the facial expressions and shading add a lot of depth to it.

Very charming!

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Page after page, all I did was nodding, mmmming and relating to almost all the situations. I've found the art to be simple and highly enjoyable, it was a fun read.

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I can hardly put into words just how much this book touched me but I'll try my best! It's like Ms. Tung read the heart of every introvert and bravely illustrated it in a relatable, sweet, open minded way. It's like belonging to a tribe of like minded people and Debbie Tung is the thread that weaves it all together. If it's ever difficult for an introvert to use their voice then I would point them to this book because it speaks life! There's a gentle, loving quality to the writing and illustrations. They're simple but filled with so much tenderness. I'm not going to lie, there were some comics that made me tear up. But there were more that made me smile and laugh and see the humor in our funny little introvert brains. This is ultimately a love letter to the introvert. It's about loving yourself, embracing your differences, and finding freedom when you do. It's also deeply human and capable of making an impact on all people; introverts, extroverts, and any combination in between. Did I mention how brave this work is? It was not only brave to put this into the vast, loud world but it also made me feel brave too. Thank you Debbie Tung.

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If someone was to ask me to name 1 book that I relate to the most to, it would be this one.

Quiet Girl I a Noisy World: An Introvert's Story was the story I never knew I needed in my life until now. Honestly, I can't wait to get my hands on a physical copy so I can tab the heck out of it and keep it at my bedside. I don't think I've ever connected with a character as much as I connected with Debbie. At some point while I was reading this I completely forgot that the character's name was Debbie as I just kept seeing myself.

For all my introverts out there, this story is for you.

Would I recommend Quiet Girl in a Noisy World? YES!!! Absolutely!! DUH. I strongly feel that this is an absolute must read.

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This is a treasure of a book for people who are shy and a great opportunity for discussion about shyness/introversion. There's so much insight offered, acceptance, and understanding. Set up in a cartoon style, the illustrations are engaging and beautifully done. It's almost like advice from a friend or a good listening ear from someone who has been there, someone who truly understands introversion.

Thank you to Debbie Tung, the publisher, and Netgalley for the complimentary copy to read and review.

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Such an enjoyable and fun read! As an introvert myself I found myself feeling relatable to almost every scenario. I also really liked the art style. :)

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Based on her actual experiences, Debbie Tung's Quiet Girl In A Noisy World was tranquil but entertaining. Accompanied by her adorable illustrations, Tung penned a good book to read for every occasion. It understands the silence that is not only desired by introverts but also by the exhausted wishing to lull the noise around us even just for a moment.

What I enjoyed best in this book was how she and her husband adapted to each other. He was an extrovert but he invariably understood her. He knew when she needed her own time and space and when to get out of a crowd. It’s really nice to see them fit with one another perfectly.

I think this would be best read during a rainy day or when cuddling is needed. I recommend it!

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This book got me nodding like if I was listening to my favorite song. It is so relatable that it is scary! Most of my "weird" traits are nothing but normal characteristics of being an introvert: the most typical is that we need time to recharge after social interactions (messaging counts as well, but not as tolling as face to face interaction...usually). What surprised me was how many of Debbie's everyday actions were similar to mine, it made me laugh and feel connected.

The stories Debbie tells are mostly 1 page long divided in panels and show all kinds of "introvert struggles" she has faced along the years; as a college student, working adult, girlfriend and then wife of an extrovert, plus all the hassles of adulting while trying to fit in the world. Even though each mini story is individual, there is a chronological order and her shift in perspective is noticeable. At first everything feels like a struggle and she pushes herself to fit in and act extroverted while feeling alienated from the world. Then, as she discovers she is an introvert and that there is nothing wrong with her, she starts to accept herself. By the end of the book, it is clear that the struggles will continue, but she no longer tries to be someone she is not and embraces her true introverted self. The illustrations are monochromatic and really cute. I like Debbie's drawing style, it is pleasing to the eye, without too much detail but enough to catch the expressions and the general mood of each story.

I cant recommended this enough for all introverts; you will find yourself in most, if not all, pages of this book. For those with an introvert partner, friend or family member, before gifting this book to your loved one, read it first! and then, let them know you read it, or better yet, read it together. I believe there is no greater gift than knowing that there is someone out there who truly understands and accepts you as you are.

Thank you to NetGalley and Andrews McMeel Publishing for providing me an eARC in exchange for an fair review.

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This is the book I wish existed 20 years ago as I began to navigate the beginnings of adult life!

I related very strongly to introverted life of a young adult that Debbie portrays. Her drawings capture the mood and the dialog is perfect. She also captures the arc of college, to young adult navigating the extroverted (and open business plan) office world, to self employment contentment very well. I think with a few minor changes, it's as if she drew 15 years of my life.

Tea really does make everything better!

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this book says exactly what ever introvert is thinking with lovely illustrations.

this tells how you want to hang out.. but you actually don't
this talks about how you really want to be left alone.. and being alone isn't lonely at all!!!
and it talks about how you get "people" and being with that person or people is plenty and you have no desire for more.
I am one of those weird extroverts who is an introvert in my spare time which means at work I'm a social butterfly but once closing time happens i just want to be with my 2 people and my dog in silence and relaxation.

received from net galley for an honest review.

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It is so cute. I loved the illustration style. And it was a reflection of myself in so many ways. The habits and all.
Truly adorable.

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Debbie Tung is a classic introvert who only discovers this about herself about 3/4 of the way through this particular book. If you're a fan of Sarah Andersen/Sarah's Scribbles, this graphic novel has largely the same feel - with the added bonus of art that looks a lot like Kate Beaton's. This is all high praise. I thought reading yet another comic about introversion might wear me down, but Tung's take on it is unique and nicely supported by her pretty grayscale artwork.

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Quiet Girl in a Noisy World from Debbie Tung is a wonderful positive book that will bring a knowing smile to the face of any introvert. In fact, anyone who has had to learn how to interact with us (I am one) will also find a lot to appreciate as well.

While there is a general chronology this can also be thought of as a collection of related comics. Either way works just fine. If you happen to be introverted and have been made to feel that there is something wrong with you, this book will remind you that you are fine. This is positive without being antagonistic toward extroverts. We are who we are, embrace it and help each other any way we can.

Reviewed from a copy made available by the publisher via NetGalley.

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Quiet Girl in a Noisy World: An Introvert’s Story is exactly what it says, in comic strip form. It’s charming and insightful and adorable.

Debbie Tung’s comics are deceptively simple, mostly one-pagers of standard panels, but her self-figure is so cute and relatable. She uses dot eyes and a few lines for features, but I both know what she’s feeling and want to hug and protect her. I like that she has friends and later, a perfect-sounding boyfriend she appreciates for complementing her; she’s not a friendless loner. She just knows herself and what she needs and likes.

The comics are grouped into rough time periods. The first section covers going to grad school, followed by her developing relationship with the boyfriend, their wedding, starting a job, and making career choices.

Everyone can likely relate to some of the incidents shown here, because everyone has times when they need to be by themselves. Put together, though, this becomes an educational portrait of what it’s like to live this kind of life. Tung isn’t apologetic or embarrassed that she is how she is. Instead, she values the comfort of coziness and solitude, accompanied sometimes by a good book or a cup of tea.

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This book was amazing! It was a brilliant portrayal of life with social anxiety. It allows those who suffer it to feel like they are reading the story of their life and makes it seem more manageable as you’re not alone! This is one of the best books I’ve read all year!

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Wow! What a wonderful book!
Quiet Girl in a Noisy World by Debbie Tung is a must read , its a beautifully illustrated and highly personal work that is certain to speak to a wide number of people. It truly does give an introvert's perspective on life, as we follow Debbie through her final year of college, getting married and starting work. I found so many moments so easy to relate to as I paged through this beautiful book, from the struggle to be confident in class to the fear of being the centre of attention for any reason, be it a work presentation or your wedding day. I also found that while the book detailed the struggles of being an introvert in a world of extroverts, it also cleverly gave good advice on dealing with it when it all gets too much, and more importantly on how necessary it is to learn to be comfortable in your own skin, and be able to be yourself. I am always a sucker for a well illustrated book, and the monochromatic palette used here is particularly striking, but also seems to fit the tones and themes of the book incredibly well.. This moving and memorable book is one of the best I have read in some time, and one that I know I will dip into over and over again when I need a break from a noisy world, simply put, it speaks to my inner Quiet Girl.

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A quiet, humorous autobiographical graphic novel that looks at the life of an introvert. This book focuses on early adulthood: college, falling in love, marriage, finding a job, and fitting in during social situations and at work.

An easy to read comic strip style book with black and white artwork. This simple and cute book was very relatable. I kept nodding my head thinking: I’ve done that, said that, or thought that.

Favorite quote:
Guy at party: You’re kind of quiet, aren’t you?
Quiet girl thinking: Just smile. Don’t strangle him.

I can’t even count the number of times people have commented on how quiet I am. 100% relatable.

While most of this book depicts a humorous look at an introvert’s life, some things are a little more serious, like the anxiety and self-doubt that a lot of introverts deal with.

Quote from the book:
My outer self: Calm, cheerful, friendly, and easygoing.
My inner self: A mixture of frustration, insanity, and dying on the inside.

An insightful look into an introvert’s life that is a wonderful read for introverts, and the extroverts who love them.

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Quiet Girl in a Noisy World is a quirky illustrated tribute to what it means to be an introvert.

This charming collection of comics follows author/illustrator Debbie Tung in her journey of self discovery, learning that she is perfectly normal as is. These comics look at Tung’s life as she wraps up college and joins the ranks of the working world, gets married, and stumbles upon the key to her seemingly odd lifelong behaviours, complete with flashbacks to childhood that any severe introvert is sure to recognise (I know I did…).

The title is what drew me to this book, and I wasn't disappointed. Being a severe introvert myself, so much of this resonated on a deep level. Social interaction does me in, quite rapidly, and I most appreciated the 'battery’ comics. Combined with spoon theory of hidden autoimmune conditions, I’ve long felt like a battery that not only drains fast, but can't charge properly in the first place. I have the same rare Myers-Brigg rating Tung does, and get highly irritated with overstimulation.

A great gift for the introverts in your life, and who knows, it may even help them understand better what they are and why they are that way.

***Dos mere to Andrews McMeel/ Netgalley for providing a free copy of this book in exchange for a fair and honest review!

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Actual rating: 3.5 stars, rounded up because I liked the ending a lot.

The second half of the book was definitely more my cup of tea than the first, but this was a thoroughly enjoyable read.
I would classify myself as an extroverted introvert. People do drain me, but I enjoy socializing to a certain extend. I do however have anxiety and reading someone else's anxious thoughts just isn't really for me I guess. I loved the second half of the story. The built in confidence and determination really made me excited for the narrator and made me want to be her friend so much :)

This is a quick read, so definitely check it out if you need a little pick me up.

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Debbie Tung, how did you get inside my head?

This book needs to be handed out to all extroverts who can never quite grasp what it's like to be an introvert. And it needs to be handed out to all introverts to know that we're not alone and that we're okay.

Wonderful graphics and an even better message.

I received this ebook through netgalley in exchange for an honest review. I'm so thankful that I was able to read it and know quite a few people who will receive it from me as a gift.

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I loved this graphic novel. I wish I could have read this about ten years ago when I was struggling with getting to know my introvert self. I will be recommending this to people I think could benefit from seeing an example of someone learning more about herself and coming to appreciate and love who she is. My favorite aspect of the story is Debbie's relationship with Jason and seeing how their opposite natures allowed them to balance one another out.

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This one is so beautiful, accurate and gorgeous

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A digital copy of this book was provided by NetGalley

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Thanks to Andrews McMeel Publishing for the ARC!

This book made me laugh a lot. It's definitely very relatable. Awesome read!

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In this book the author, Debbie Tung who is also an introvert tells her experiences in every situations such as meeting new people, office life and social obligations.

It was a sweet book and I loved it while reading it. Even though I define myself as an ambivert (mixture of introvert and extrovert), I can understand how it feels like to be obliged to do such things that you really don't want to. I enjoyed her book a lot, in every page. ❤❤❤❤❤

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Quiet Girl in a Noisy World: An Introvert’s Story is really a memoir in graphic novel form by author/illustrator Debbie Tung. It follows her trials and tribulations as a shy socially anxious introvert trying to navigate her way through an extrovert’s world. It starts when she’s a graduate student feeling as if she needs to try harder to socialize even if it makes her uncomfortable; recounts her marriage to an extrovert who, at least in this case, proves that opposites not only attract, they are perfectly suited; her first job where she suffers the same need to try to fit in with her noisy coworkers and to overcome the stress of it; how a quiet night alone with a book helps her to recharge after a fast, loud day; and finally, the chance to escape the noise and follow her dream to be a writer with the support of her husband.

Quiet Girl in a Noisy World is a quiet, positive, even gentle read. Tung tells her story with charming black and white illustrations that perfectly convey her feelings. She manages to show how difficult it is for people like her to navigate this noisy world and she does it without criticizing the extrovert. And, as a shy introvert, I couldn’t help but feel like she was telling my story too. She understands first hand the struggles of being shy while trying to navigate a noisy sociable world and any shy, socially anxious, and self-doubting introvert will be able to appreciate and relate to her story.

Thanks to Netgalley and Andrews McMeel Publishing for the opportunity to read this book in exchange for an honest review

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Quick book with short illustrated comics about an introvert in an extrovert world.
I would definitely recommend to all introverts, and even extrovert because I laughed and related and sympathised: all the things that we hope that a book can do: make us feel. Beautifully crafted with the style definitely fitting the context.

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This was such a sweet graphic novel! While I don’t consider myself an introvert at all, I still found a lot of the panels extremely relevant as a book lover. This would be a great gift for someone (or yourself!)

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This graphic novel left me with the warm fuzzies. I’ve been trying to look for books about QuietGirlInANoisyWorldintroversion versus extroversion, both for reference in caring for introverted children and those that can help them better understand themselves. As the author alludes, most social institutions favor extroverts over introverts. This book falls into the “understand yourself” category.

Tung’s experience in school, where the teacher insists that she need to “come out of her shell” is one I experienced in my own childhood. Even now, while I’m in the classroom, I worry more about the quiet students. It isn’t a bad thing to worry about them, but I should be more aware of how I am making them feel about their personalities and social tendencies.

The actual content of the novel illustrated different social tendencies and insecurities the author has had over her introverted nature. By the end of the novel, the author has illustrated how she learned more about her personality type and “took a stand” to accept herself and carve her own path in a career that worked for her. I also liked how she talked about her self-care practices to let her “recharge her batteries”.

This is a book I would like to include in my classroom library, and maybe if we had a unit that focused on finding yourself or celebrating differences.

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I  recieved a free digital copy of this book from Netgalley for an honest review.

I grew up introverted in a mostly extroverted family. This book is me. Every time I turn the page, its "yep, me." Whether its being in crowds, study group or volunteering in class this book hits the nail on the head!
The illustrations are simple but the point comes across perfectly. I loved it and I can't wait for more.

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This is a wonderfully written and illustrated graphic novel that gets right to the heart of what it is like to be an introvert. Highly recommended!

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I received an arc of Quiet Girl in a Noisy World by Debbie Tung, so a big thank you to Andrew McMeel Publishing and to Netgalley, however this book IS already published, and I knew I was going to love it – so I went ahead and ordered my own print copy, as well.

This graphic novel was an absolute joy! The art was adorable and every single frame had me going “Oh! Same!!” I had incredibly high expectations, and I don’t feel let down in the slightest! Everyone would benefit from reading this book! If you aren’t an introvert, then you know one, and so if you don’t personally identify with it, then you could still learn a lot about how to handle your hermit. Debbie Tung perfectly depicted so many things, that I just didn’t have words to describe, and I could not be happier with this read.

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Such a cute read! And have to say I really found a lot of me between those pages <3 I was smiling the whole time because I know exactly what Debbie feels :)

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I loved this book so much that I immediately mailed the author after reading it. I must admit it was a mushy email, but worth it.
I have read a lot of comic books, but none has been so close to my heart as this one.
Debbie has represented, with an accuracy that is simultaneously heartbreaking and heartwarming, the introverts and what goes on in their mind. The accuracy is biting, and that is no exaggeration. For fans of her comic o social media, this book is going to be a treat. For the others it is a great read to gain an insight into the introvert's mind.
The whole depiction is realistic and so ordinary, I am surprised at how much it has a recall value!
My favorite bit is how her journey gives an account of how she figured it out. It gives out hope! (and so does her relationship with Jason)
I couldn't have kicked off my year with a better book!

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This book is a brilliant, insightful and relatable illustration of an introverts life. So much of this was a representation of my own university and young adult experience. I found myself nodding or laughing along and showing various illustrations to my husband, saying "Remind you of anyone?" or "Look, this one sums me up perfectly!". This is a great tool for teaching others what's going on in our minds behind our quiet or shy appearance.

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