Off the Hook

"The realities of today’s hook-up culture are as undeniable as they are destructive. Timothy O’Malley sees the sacrament of marriage as a remedy to this sickness of self-serving romance. Off the Hook helps us dive into the marital vocation, which calls us to follow Christ’s example of self-giving love for the sake of the other. Whether you are twenty-five years married or discerning the vocation, this book will help you love more deeply and lead to a richer understanding of how marriage sanctifies a couple – and, in turn, the culture."

Jason A. Kidd
Marriage & Family Director,
Archdiocese of Portland in Oregon

“Experience is an important teacher for most of us, shaping what we do and who we become. Today,  young adults are taught important lessons about sex, love, and relationships by the hookup culture. But these lessons are false. As Timothy O’Malley explains in Off the Hook, the practices learned at the foot of hookup culture encourage young people to become more self-centered, more anxious, and more alienated from genuine love. Thankfully, in this important book O’Malley points young adults and those you guide them to better practices and to an identity that is much more likely to lead them to genuine love."

W. Bradford Wilcox, PhD
Director, National Marriage Project and Professor of Sociology
University of Virginia




"It's rare to find a book that mentions a booty call alongside the thought of von Hildebrand, among other theologians. Timothy O'Malley manages to explain the seriousness of today's hookup culture while never abandoning the hope of the nuptial mystery. With down-to-earth language and practical reflection exercises for anyone's vocational journey, Off the Hook needs to be on your reading list!"

Michael St. Pierre, Ed.D.
Executive Director,
Catholic Campus Ministry Association

"In Off the Hook: God, Love, Dating, and Marriage in a Hookup World, Timothy O’Malley confronts squarely the seamy reality of the hookup culture. He offers alternative pathways filled with appreciation of God-given sexuality, well lived in unselfish, faithful, and joyous love. This book provides a treasure trove for all affected by the hookup culture and those who minister to them."

Most Reverend Joseph E. Kurtz, D.D.
Archbishop of Louisville

"Off the Hook takes a raw and eye-opening look at the current state of dating and marriage in our world and shows how the beauty, goodness, and truth of the Church’s teachings provide the answers to what we are really looking for. Tim O’Malley authentically proclaims a stunning and hopeful message—the Church has the answer to what ails us."

Kevin and Lisa Cotter
Authors of Dating Detox, FOCUS Missionaries



Student Comments: What Are They Saying about Off the Hook:

** I'm providing three pieces of bio info for each student, use what make sense. My preference is simply name and class year because they're all theo majors and I'm not sure how much that helps move the book to a broader audience. 

"This book revolutionized the way I imagine my future, and it has been incredibly edifying for my family life today. Professor O’Malley’s work is clear, engaging, and full of beauty. He left me wholly convinced that the sacramentality of Christian marriage is underappreciated even among Catholics, and he has given me the tools to articulate to my own family and friends what we believe about married life signing God's love in the world." 
Maureen Schweninger

Class of 2019 (Theology and Sociology, Junior)

“Professor Timothy O’Malley offers a rare blend of shrewd insight and practical wisdom on marriage, invaluable for persons of any age or vocation. As a young Catholic, I love how he is able to articulate the beauty of marriage and its meaning as a sacrament in ways that are profoundly relevant to me.  He has an uncanny ability to concretize lofty theology into something accessible for the average person.” 
Michael Singleton
Class of 2018 (Finance Major and Theology Minor, Senior)

"Professor O'Malley shows a deep understanding of his students' lives, engaging us with compassion and humor. Refreshingly frank, O'Malley seamlessly integrates rigorous theology with personal testimony and critical research to provide a clear and accessible answer to our confusion and longing. O'Malley's countercultural insights not only provoke me to examine the way I live, but invite me to enter into a more fulfilling way to love. His class was life changing and this book is too. I can't recommend it enough!"

Sofia Carozza
Class of 2019 (Neuroscience and Theology, Junior) 

"Powerful and wonderfully real, Off the Hook honestly and personally relays the reality of love in a way that challenges us to recommit, renew, and reconceive our relationships with our loved ones, families, the world, and above all with God. This is a beautiful and extraordinary book."

Katherine Sisk
Class of 2018 (Theology, Senior)