
Deviced!
Balancing Life and Technology in a Digital World
by Doreen Dodgen-Magee
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Pub Date Oct 08 2018 | Archive Date Oct 14 2018
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Description
With current statistics suggesting that the average American over
the age of 14 engages with screens upwards of 10 hours a day, the topic
of our growing dependence upon technology applies to nearly everyone.
While the effects differ at each point of development, real changes to
the brain, relationships, and personal lives are well documented.
Deviced! explores these alterations and offers a realistic look at how
we can better use technology and break away from the bad habits we’ve
formed.
Using personal stories,
cutting edge research, and anecdotes from youth, parents, and
professionals, Dodgen-Magee highlights the brain changes that result
from excessive technology use and offers an approach to the digital
world that enables more informed and lasting change and a healthier
long-term perspective. Given that the reader is living within a culture
of ever-changing and advancing technologies, Deviced!
is written in such a way that its contents can weather the constantly
changing digital landscape by focusing on the concepts of honest
assessment and healthy boundary setting rather than on specific
technologies or platforms.
Deviced!
offers a mindful approach to assessing current technology use, breaking
bad habits, setting new norms, and re-engaging with life with renewed
richness and awareness.
A Note From the Publisher
Advance Praise
A spot-on analysis of screen dilemmas with a fascinating
psychological spin and focus on solutions. An important read for
everyone concerned about helping our screenagers, specifically, and our
society in general.
— Delaney Ruston, MD, Pediatrician, Creator and Director of SCREENAGERS: Growing up in the Digital Age
For
everyone feeling saturated, seduced, or assaulted by the constant
stream of electronic content available at the touch of a button, or
finding that they care a little too much how many likes, followers, and
comments they garner online, Deviced!
is a welcome antidote. Smart, thoughtful, well-researched and
practical, Doreen Dodgen-Magee makes a compelling case for learning how
to integrate technology wisely into our lives, rather than drown in it.
So turn off notifications, shut down the computer and silence your
smartphone long enough to read this book.
— Brigid
Schulte, Author of the New York Times bestselling Overwhelmed: Work,
Love, and Play When No One Has the Time, Director of The Better Life Lab
at New America
If you want to take responsibility for your screen time, Deviced! is the roadmap! It shows you how to build an internal locus of control—the most valuable asset you can have.
— Loretta
G. Breuning, PhD, author, Habits of a Happy Brain: Retrain Your Brain
to Boost Serotonin, Dopamine, Oxytocin, and Endorphin Levels
As
technology advances at breakneck speed and we, with our fitness
trackers and smart watches, measure and record every step of its
progress, Doreen Dodgen-Magee is paying careful attention to the deeper
ramifications. With the keen eye of a researcher and the warm heart of a
friend, parent, and teacher, Doreen shares invaluable insight into life
in the tech age. Doreen is no Luddite. Her goal in this book is not to
call us back to calculators and rotary phones, but rather to remind us
of the value of "fiery, embodied lives"—lives that use technology for
our benefit without stunting our own relational and developmental
growth. This book is an invaluable tool as all of us wrestle for control
over the most important spaces in our lives, the spaces we share with
each other.
— Tracy Balzer, Author of Permission to Ponder: Contemplative Wisdom for the Spiritually Distracted
Doreen
Dodgen-Magee does what most who have written about the impact of
technology on youth and adults haven't been able to do—recognize and
help us sort out the complexity that technology has introduced into our
lives. Rather than build a case for the "evils" or the "gifts," she
acknowledges and explains that what we do with technology in our lives
is complex and cannot be simply designated as good or bad. Using solid
psychological theory and research, she skillfully helps us sort through
the results and encourages and helps us understand what it all means to
us. While many will talk about the importance of moderation in using
technology (or anything really), Dodgen-Magee provides compelling and
useful ways to think about how we might more consciously engage or not
engage with technology. This, however, is not a simple self-help book.
It goes much deeper than, "Try these few ideas and it will all be good."
You will finish the book understanding yourself better because you have
explored the intricacies of what you value and what makes you human.
— Candyce
Reynolds, PhD, Chair, Educational Leadership and Policy; Professor,
Postsecondary, Adult and Continuing Education, Portland State University
This
is a much-needed book for our time. Doreen Dodgen-Magee presents a
balanced, nuanced, and compassionate view of the impact devices have on
our development. The book is not only about our use of devices; it is
about our shared humanity. Doreen calls all of us to engage technology
thoughtfully and reflectively so we become more relationally connected
and more human. You will come away challenged and enriched.
— Todd W. Hall, PhD, Chief Scientist, The Connection Culture Group
Dodgen-Magee
extensively explores the impact of digital culture on individual lives
in a compassionate and humble way. She approaches the subject with a
genuine care for her reader while remaining honest to the real dangers
of losing one’s embodied self to digital spaces. I love this book
because it focuses on mending, not condemning, the technology user to
regain an authentic and relational experience in today’s society.
— James Haendiges, PhD, Associate Professor, Dixie State College
Deviced!
is an essential book for all of us navigating the world of technology.
Doreen carefully guides the reader to look at the research, the wonders,
the dangers, and the opportunities that exist in the digital world.
Through storytelling, research findings, and personal experiences, the
book unfolds the story of the digital age and gives us information on
how technology has impacted all aspects of our lives including our
personal relationships, our ways of entertaining and soothing ourselves,
and the way our brains receive information. But this is not a
doom-and-gloom book. Doreen celebrates the things that technology is
bringing us, and she invites us to embrace technology with moderation.
Each chapter has a section on taking action--things we can all do to be
informed consumers of this wonderful tool. I will be recommending this
book to my clients who are all struggling to find balance for themselves
and their children in this digital age.
— Lynea Gillen, Co-Founder, Yoga Calm for Kids; Award-Winning Author of Yoga Calm for Kids and Good People Everywhere
Deviced!
is a work of hope and compassion. In this rare book, Doreen
Dodgen-Magee asks us to notice the altered aliveness devices offer and
to consider wholesome alternatives, breaking ground for a middle path
many of us seek. Beginning with an exploration of the seeds of self, the
emotional regulation of attachment and separation, and the nurturing
role of boredom in the birth of agency, Doreen reminds us that we’re
humans and articulates our innate yearning for play, wonder, love,
longing, and a delight in the experience of being alive. This work is
unique in not just cataloging tech disruptors but in offering a hand and
guidance toward the healing needed to set and monitor attachment
boundaries between tech and self. I recommend Deviced!
to those working with families experiencing device-induced
dysregulation—and to anyone seeking compassionate alternatives to their
own patterns of tech use.
— Jon Male, Founder, Mindfuls
Doreen
Dodgen-Magee, a world authority on the topic of the rational and safe
use of the Internet, gracefully reminds us that technology can serve
rather than enslave us, that we need to be mindful not to let engagement
with devices steal the richness and joy of life from us and our loved
ones. Through her creative Take Action sections in the book, she teaches
us that an act as simple as eye contact, safe touch, or respectful
dialogue can ground us, open channels of communication, and build
bridges of trust, so we can continue to remain human even when deviced.
In other words, we don’t have to turn into machines or check out when we
log in! It is indeed a choice to be human. Deviced! serves as a much-needed and timely guide as to how to do just that in our increasingly digital world.
— Omar
Reda, MD, Psychiatrist and Trauma Expert, Founder of the Untangled
Model of Psycho-Social Care for Refugees and Trauma Survivors
In a world of conflicting reports telling us technology is either wonderful or wicked, healthy or harmful, Deviced!
is a total game changer. Especially for parents. How do we help our
kids—and ourselves—use devices to harness all the advantages technology
has to offer our modern lives, while also being savvy and wise about the
pitfalls and long-term effects? Using the latest research and her
decades as both a practicing psychologist and captivating speaker,
Doreen Dodgen-Magee banishes our media-related guilt in favor of
teaching intentional and actionable practices that enhance our
relationships with each other to carry us through this era and beyond.
Highly recommend!”
— Beth Woolsey, Writer and Popular Parening Blogger of Five Kids Is A Lot Of Kids
Oh, my goodness! Grab this book now! The introduction alone will inspire you to want to share Deviced!
with everyone you care about. Although I’ve studied media’s influence
on our lives for my entire career over nearly forty years, this is the
first book to profoundly transform my understanding of Big Tech’s deep
impact on a brain-changing, cellular level, to offer practical
assessments of what’s healthy and what’s not when it comes to device
engagement, and to propose mindful solutions to tech overuse. As
Dodgen-Magee describes, we have come to rely so much on our devices to
entertain, soothe, stimulate, and distract us that we miss out on
opportunities for deep, authentic, face-to-face connection and for
building and strengthening life skills—something critical to consider
especially when it comes to our precious children.
— Kathy Masarie, MD, Life Coach, Author of Face to Face: Cultivating Kids' Social Lives in Today's Digital World
Dodgen-Magee offers a studied response to our digitized lives. Researched and thorough, Deviced!
examines both the benefits and challenges of device-filled living,
taking a close, hard look at the costs of technology on both our
internal and relational lives. Doreen's secret sauce in Deviced! is sharing a brilliant array of action steps for turning inward and feeding our embodied selves.
— Elsbeth Martindale, PsyD, Clinical Psychologist, author of Things to Know Before You Say "Go"
It has never been harder to be a young person and it has never been harder to be an engaged parent. Deviced!
offers research, and expert help to technologically lost parents,
youth, and communities across the globe, but even more Doreen offers
hope. Hope that there is a chance at a healthier future.
— Kristen Sandoz, Mother to Middle School, Primary, and Pre-School Aged Children
Available Editions
EDITION | Hardcover |
ISBN | 9781538115848 |
PRICE | $30.00 (USD) |