
Missing Persons
or, My Grandmother's Secrets
by Clair Wills
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Pub Date Apr 02 2024 | Archive Date Apr 16 2024
Description
How far would you go for the missing?
Blending private and public history, cultural analysis, family memoir, and autobiography, Clair Wills explores profound questions about memory, loss, motherhood, and emigration. She traces a history of sexual secrecy through four generations of unplanned pregnancies in her own family, stretching from the 1890s to the 1980s and from the West of Ireland to Massachusetts, London, and the English countryside, dramatizing the power of secret-keeping as a form of care, but also as a form of violence and exclusion.
At the heart of her search is a cousin who went missing from her own family, born in a mother-and-baby home in the 1950s, and brought up in an institution. Wills asks not only what happened, but why? Why did families consent to the institutional care and control of unmarried mothers and their children? Why did the system make sense to ordinary families, and how can we make sense of it now? What questions should we be asking about guilt, blame, and responsibility?
In order to uncover how people thought about illicit sex, illegitimacy, and institutions, Wills follows the tracks laid down in family stories and anecdotes. She interprets the gaps as places where the past was both preserved and disavowed. We are all born into families, regardless of whether we are allowed to belong to them. In Missing Persons, Wills asks us to undertake a radical reshaping of our idea of the family. We are all part of the historical archive—the remembering and forgetting is in us, whether we like it or not.
A Note From the Publisher
Advance Praise
"An expertly crafted work, at once vigorous and subtle, which manages its effects and conserves its revelations with all the skill of a master novelist." —John Banville, The Guardian
"The stories [Wills] uncovers are remarkable: touching, tragic, terribly human . . . Her book, written with care, wit and vulnerability, shows that ordinary tragedies deserve our anger and attention too." —Laura Hackett, The Times (UK)
"Not just a vivid, compelling account of Clair’s family and ancestry, but an intriguing snapshot of Ireland’s social history . . . Rigorously researched . . . Empathetic." —Tanya Sweeney, Irish Independent
★ "A searing yet nuanced investigation into the lives of complicit relatives, such as her mother, as well as tender portraits of those affected. The author’s prose is stellar; her cadence complements this compelling tale, which grew increasingly complex over years of meticulous research . . . Fascinatingly, viscerally haunting." —Kirkus Reviews (starred review)
"Clair Wills shines a brilliant, unsparing light into the dark recesses of her family’s history—and the history of Ireland. Missing Persons is a stunningly eloquent exploration of how truth-telling, secret-keeping, and outright lies are part of all family stories—indeed, the stories that unite all communities—and how truths, secrets and lies can both protect and destroy us." —Jeannette Walls, author of The Glass Castle and Hang the Moon
"Clair Wills retrieves from time’s abyss a speculative history of universal import. This is a penetrating and affecting study, essential reading for anyone who seeks to understand the profound contradictions, the secrets and lies that define post-famine Ireland." —Paul Lynch, author of the Booker Prize-winning Prophet Song
"This extraordinary, utterly gripping book reads like a thriller and offers the satisfactions of a mutigenerational novel. Memoir, social history, detective story, ghost story: the singular weave of Missing Persons is brilliantly animated throughout by Wills’ distinctive ethos, a kind of impassioned, rigorous, open-hearted attentiveness. Wills reads for the gaps in official stories—familial, social, institutional—and feels out the palpable absences and semi-buried violence in her family’s history. The book tracks a complex transgenerational haunting—institutionalized mothers and children, dead babies, migrant laborers, wayward men and women, land-hungry farmers, unspoken yet momentous decisions, those who left and those who stayed. Alert to the vibrations moving through her family over two centuries, Wills refuses the 'enormous condescension of posterity' (as E.P. Thompson put it) and turns the white heat of her moral intelligence toward this rich and vexed inheritance." —Maureen N. McLane, author of What You Want
"In its account of one family's history of silence and secrecy, Clair Wills has written a compelling book which demonstrates the uncanny universality of even the most personal stories. Attending to the ways that the past ruptures and grows through the present, this is a history shaken by intimacy—a brave and rigorously humane book." —Seán Hewitt, author of Rapture's Road
"If the past is a mass of tangled wool, Clair Wills frees a long strand and knits it into clarity, line by line, inviting the reader to see the complexity of the pattern she reveals. Written with elegance and erudition, Missing Persons is an extraordinary, moving achievement." —Doireann Ní Ghríofa, author of To Star the Dark
Available Editions
EDITION | Other Format |
ISBN | 9780374611866 |
PRICE | $27.00 (USD) |
PAGES | 208 |
Available on NetGalley
Featured Reviews

When considering the atrocities that occurred in Ireland's infamous Magdalene laundries and mother and baby homes, one can't help feeling a sense of the incomprehensibility of such monstrousness on an institutional level: How could this have happened? In her new book, "Missing Persons, or My Grandmother's Secrets," Clair Wills makes this public question personal, as she investigates the dark secrets her own family kept for generations, and unearths the mothers and babies that are missing from her family's sanctioned story.
Wills, who grew up in England as the daughter of an English father and an Irish mother, spent what she remembers as halcyon summers at her Irish grandmother's dilapidated farm in County Cork. But years later, when Wills discovers that her Uncle Jackie had fathered Mary, the child of his teenage neighbor Lily, in the 1950s, and that this child and her mother were exiled to a mother and baby home and later abandoned to an orphanage, Wills sees these long-ago summers in a new and much more unflattering light. A further chance revelation about her grandmother Molly complicates Wills' memories even more, leaving her with the sense that her family's secretive history, far from being unique, was merely one of many similar stories all over Ireland that reflected the country's troubled institutional history writ small.
"Missing Persons" is hard to categorize--part memoir, part social history, part investigative account--and is at times difficult to read, but the story Willis tells deserves to find an audience, not only because she tells it so well, but because these missing persons deserve to have it told. Thank you to NetGalley and to Farrar, Straus and Giroux for providing me with an ARC of this title in return for my honest review.
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