The Examined Life
How We Lose and Find Ourselves
by Stephen Grosz
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Pub Date Jan 03 2013 | Archive Date Aug 05 2014
Random House UK, Vintage Publishing | Vintage Digital
Description
**SUNDAY TIMES BESTELLER**
This book is about learning to live.
Echoing Socrates’ statement that the unexamined life not worth living, psychoanalyst Stephen Grosz draws on his twenty-five years of work and more than 50,000 hours of conversations to form a collection of beautifully rendered tales that illuminate the human experience.
These are stories about everyday lives: from a woman who finds herself daydreaming as she returns home from a business trip to a young man loses his wallet, to the more extreme examples: the patient who points an unloaded gun at a police officer and the compulsive liar who convinces his wife he's dying of cancer. The resulting journey will spark new ideas about who we are and why we do what we do.
‘This moving book will make the reader think of Freud’s keenly observed and literary-minded case studies…piercing chapters that read like a combination of Chekhov and Oliver Sacks’ New York Times
‘Grosz is a superb storyteller and tells lots of his patients' stories with sensitivity, but also with great acuity. You might keep thinking you recognise things about people you know’ Evening Standard.
A Note From the Publisher
UK edition - available for readers in the UK, Commonwealth (excluding Canada) and Europe only.
Advance Praise
Grosz’s
vignettes are so brilliantly put together that they read like pieces of
bare, illuminating fiction. . . utterly captivating - Sunday Times
Marvellous… After reading [Grosz’s] absorbing accounts of his patients’ journeys you might feel that The Examined Life ought to be given out free at birth - The Times
Crystal-clear and completely magical…The Examined Life is a book full of troubles, but also of wonders - Mail on Sunday
Engaging,
frank, and with many penetrating insights. His short, succinct chapters
have both the tension and the satisfaction of miniature detective or
mystery stories - The Spectator
By turns edifying and moving…Grosz offers astute insights into the perplexities of everyday life - Financial Times
[Grosz's
accounts] are shaped like short stories, but true and moving in ways
that fiction cannot be […] distilled through long examination into
finely crafted literary form… - Observer
Grosz’s message is always affirming…it is possible to change - The Scotsman
Excellent… Every one of these case histories bears repeating. All offer worthwhile insights - Guardian
Intelligent, human and deeply moving - Sunday Express
'Grosz] writes lucidly and with sensitivity… sprinkled with wise reflections… A gem… highly recommended - The Independent
[A] fine and moving book… It is a true literary work and a very modern one… - Jewish Chronicle
That rarest of pleasures: a book I loved, and could recommend to almost anyone - Asylum blog
Enlightening…full of wisdom and insight - Metro
Beautifully unadorned writing... He paints a vivid portrait of his patients - Sunday Business Post
A rare insight into the life of the psychoanalyst… succeeds in making complex behavioural issues accessible for any reader - Irish Times
Exquisitely written casebook - Vantage NW Magazine
The
suspense in each chapter is so expert that I had to double check that
this wasn’t a work of fiction. Best of all, Grosz manages to give a
jargon-free account of how psychoanalysis works - The Week
By turns edifying and moving… Grosz offers astute insights into the perplexities of everyday life - Financial Times
Grosz's
vignettes are so brilliantly put together that they read like pieces of
bare illuminating fiction... It is this combination of tenacious
detective work, remarkable compassion and sheer, unending curiosity for
the oddities of the human heart that makes these stories utterly
captivating. - Sunday Times
Brilliant….
Grosz is a superb writer, yes, but it is the stories his patients tell
him that really make you marvel. An elegant, jargon-free expedition into
the secret business of our minds written with such wisdom and kindness…
After reading [Grosz’s] absorbing accounts of his patients’ journeys
you might feel that The Examined Life out to be given out free at birth - The Times
A
fine and moving book... The tact, patience and understatement, which
are particular components of Grosz’s wisdom, remind the reader that this
writer’s insights and empathy result from thousand of hours with
patients. This book is not polemical literature… nor is it an academic
work or a popular self-help book. It is a true literary work and a very
modern one. - Jewish Chronicle
Crystal-clear and completely magical...The Examined Life
is a book full of troubles, but also of wonders: it shows people
trapped by their own mysterious impulses, searching for an escape hatch,
and often finding it - Daily Mail
Five
star review - an intelligent, human and deeply moving book… Grosz is
listening for the unspoken and the gaps in between. His book celebrates
change and the triumphs and tragedies of humanity - Sunday Express
Excellent…
this book arrives like a box of chocolates. Thirty-one elegantly
presented chapters which, when you bite into them, each reveals
something sweet, rich or crunchy. Every one of these case histories
bears repeating. All offer worthwhile insights. - The Guardian
Engaging,
frank, and with many penetrating insights. His short, succinct chapters
have both the tension and the satisfaction of miniature detective or
mystery stories… A stimulating book. - The Spectator
Grosz
writes lucidly and with sensitivity, treating his patients with
respect. The cases are sprinkled with wise reflections... highly
recommended - Independent
There
are many sage lessons here, backed up by research where
necessary…fascinating… Grosz writes lucidly and with sensitivity,
treating his patients with respect. The cases are sprinkled with wise
reflections…highly recommended - Independent
Intensely
readable… As a reminder of the strangeness of human existence, the
myriad ways we find of making ourselves unhappy and the perplexing
resourcefulness of the unconscious mind, Grosz’s book is a worthwhile
addition to the literature of the examined life. - New Statesman
Written with real elegance and a strong sense of structure… several chapters read like powerful short stories - Readers Digest
Elegantly structured and written… Grosz’s book is intensely readable - New Statesmen
That rarest of pleasures: a book I loved, and could recommend to almost anyone - Asylum
Shaped
like short stories, but true and moving in ways that fiction cannot
be... Gradually accumulating through his book, Grosz provides, not a
definition, but an enactment of the purpose of psychoanalysis, which is
both modest and profound. - Observer
Grosz
is an able writer, engaging, frank and with many penetrating insights.
His short, succinct chapters have both the tension and the satisfaction
of miniature detective or mystery stories… a stimulating book - Spectator
[These]
interpretations make fascinating reading, leave you marvelling at the
ingenuity of the human subconscious. Grosz’s message is always
affirming: if a person can work out what it is that’s driving them, it
is possible to change - The Scotsman
Grosz’s narrative is by turns edifying and moving...tempered by his engaging prose and moments of humour - The Financial Times
I
couldn't put this down—I read about other people, but learned about
myself at the same time. Real stories can be so much more fascinating
than fictional ones, especially with Stephen Grosz. No preaching, no
clichés—just wisdom.
Modest and profound - Observer
Marketing Plan
A Sunday Times bestseller
Longlisted for the Guardian first book award
A Radio 4 Book of the Week
The hardback has so far sold over 30,000 copies
Paperback will be published on 'Black Monday' and will be backed by a twelve month digital campaign called 'Shelf Help' designed to keep The Examined Life in the public eye throughout 2014
Eloquent and exquisitely written,
these psychoanalytical case studies guide us through some of the big
questions and conundrums of everyday life: but in a style that is
inviting and compelling -- think Calvino and Carver, not Lacan and Freud
These are perfectly honed stories about people, not psychoanalysis, and that is what makes this book different from other psychoanalytic books. The Examined Life tells stories – not theory.
As enlightening as Sarah Bakewell's How to Live: this is perfect for readers of Oliver Sacks, Alain de Botton, Adam Philips and Andrew Solomon
How can a lost wallet be a unconscious attempt at self-sabotage? How can a fear of loss cause us to lose everything? The Examined Life reveals how the art of insight can illuminate the most complicated, confounding, and human of experiences.
Available Editions
EDITION | Ebook |
ISBN | 9781448162413 |
PRICE | £9.98 (GBP) |