Evie’s journey of trying to become someone “cool” feels authentic and messy in the best way, and Salem, annoyingly perfect in all the ways she isn’t, complements her beautifully. But what really stands out is how they both grow, not by changing who they are, but by embracing who they already are. Adler’s writing is witty, sharp, and emotionally resonant, and the romance isn’t just about chemistry, it’s about two people learning to love themselves before they can love each other. If you’re looking for a feel-good, heartfelt story about finding happiness on your own terms, this one’s definitely a keeper.

"Come As You Are" is another enjoyable book by Ms. Adler. Having Everett (Evie) Owen Riley, the main character, assigned to an all-male dorm at the boarding school to which she has transferred, on the assumption that she is a guy because of her name, makes for an amusing start to the story, especially when it turns out there are no vacancies in the girls' dorms. She is not required to stay with her roommate, who is a pretentious jerk, but she is required to live in the dorm, in the handicap accessible single room on the first floor. Evie's presence in a boy's dorm quickly becomes a hot topic on campus, much to her dismay, and sets the scene for other humorous moments later. However, it is also how she meets Salem (and his sister Sabrina), with whom she develops a much-needed friendship.

The story is full of colorful, creative characters. I enjoyed the dynamic between Evie and Salem, as well as the brother-sister teasing, squabbling relationship of Salem and Sabrina, and the friendship between Evie and Sabrina. One thing that I particularly liked is that initial assumptions about some of the major characters proved not to be true; most obviously with Salem, who appears to be a grungy dope-smoking slacker, but also his roommate, Matt (with a reputation for a new girl in his room each night), Sabrina, and Isobel (one of the popular girls).

Dahlia Adler’s "Come As You Are" is a compelling and thought-provoking novel that deftly explores themes of identity, acceptance, and the transformative power of friendship. With its engaging characters, poignant narrative, and authentic portrayal of contemporary issues, this novel is a must-read for fans of young adult literature and anyone seeking a deeper understanding of the complexities of personal growth.

The story centres around Ash, a high school student grappling with the pressures of adolescence while navigating the intricate landscape of self-discovery. Ash has always felt different, struggling to fit into the mold that society expects. The novel kicks off with Ash’s journey to understand their gender identity and sexuality, a path filled with both internal and external challenges. Through Ash’s eyes, readers experience the highs and lows of this deeply personal exploration, gaining insight into the struggles and triumphs that come with embracing one’s true self.

Adler excels at creating multi-dimensional characters that resonate with readers. Ash is a relatable and sympathetic protagonist whose journey is both inspiring and heart-wrenching. Their vulnerability and resilience are portrayed with nuance and depth, making Ash a character that readers can both empathize with and root for. The narrative is enriched by the presence of Ash’s friends and family, each adding their own unique perspectives and dynamics to the story.

The supporting characters in "Come As You Are" are equally well-developed and contribute significantly to the overall narrative. From Ash’s supportive best friend who offers unwavering encouragement, to the various individuals they encounter who challenge and expand their understanding of identity, each character plays a crucial role in Ash’s journey. Adler skillfully weaves their backstories and motivations into the plot, creating a tapestry of interconnected lives that enhances the depth and complexity of the story.

Adler’s writing style is both evocative and engaging. Her prose is crisp and clear, capturing the raw emotions and experiences of the characters with precision and empathy. The dialogue is natural and reflective of the characters’ personalities, adding authenticity to their interactions. Adler’s ability to convey complex emotions through her writing is particularly noteworthy, making the novel’s most poignant moments resonate deeply with readers.

The plot of "Come As You Are" is well-paced and intricately woven. Adler balances moments of high tension and emotional intensity with quieter, introspective scenes that delve into the characters’ inner lives. Each chapter ends with a hook that propels readers forward, creating a narrative that is both gripping and emotionally resonant. The progression of Ash’s journey is handled with care, allowing their growth and self-acceptance to unfold naturally over the course of the novel.

"Come As You Are" also explores themes of friendship and the importance of a supportive community. Ash’s relationships with their friends and family are central to their journey, highlighting the impact that understanding and acceptance can have on personal growth. The novel’s exploration of these themes is both uplifting and thought-provoking, offering readers a message of hope and the power of genuine connections.

A beautifully written and emotionally resonant novel, it offers a powerful exploration of identity, acceptance, and personal growth. With its well-developed characters, engaging plot, and thoughtful portrayal of contemporary issues, it is a must-read for fans of young adult literature and anyone seeking a deeper understanding of the complexities of self-discovery. Adler has crafted a story that is both entertaining and deeply moving, making "Come As You Are" a standout addition to her body of work.

Thank you to NetGalley, St. Martin's Press, and Wednesday Books for a temporary e-ARC in exchange for my honest review.