Bonded to the Abuser
How Victims Make Sense of Childhood Abuse
by Amy J.L. Baker and Mel Schneiderman
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Pub Date May 19 2015 | Archive Date Jul 03 2015
Rowman & Littlefield | Rowman & Littlefield (Academic)
Description
This book will provide the reader with the essential experience of understanding how children make meaning of being maltreated by a parent, and how these traumatic bonds form and last. Through an examination of published memoirs of abuse, the authors analyze and reveal the commonalities in the stories to uncover the ways in which adult victims of childhood abuse understand and digest the traumatic experiences of their childhoods. This understanding can inform interventions and treatments designed for this vulnerable population and can help family and friends of victims understand more fully the maltreatment experience “from the inside out.”
Amy J.L. Baker, PhD, is a nationally recognized leader and expert in the field of parental alienation and loyalty conflicts. She is the author of Adult Children of Parental Alienation Syndrome: Breaking the Ties That Bind (2007) and Working with Alienated Children and Families: A Clinical Guidebook (2012). Baker has published numerous academic articles on the topic of parental alienation and writes a blog for Psychology Today on the topic. She also has an active coaching practice for targeted parents and serves as an expert witness in custody disputes around the country. She is the author of the forthcoming Surviving Parental Alienation.
Mel Schneiderman is senior vice president, mental health services at the New York Foundling and is cofounder and senior advisor and chair of the research advisory committee at the Vincent J. Fontana Center for Child Protection. Dr. Schneiderman founded the first child sexual abuse treatment program located within a child welfare agency in 1986. Dr. Schneiderman has been a leader in the field of child welfare for the past thirty years. He was one of the founders and first chair of the Committee of Mental Health and Healthcare Professionals in New York City. Dr. Schneiderman introduced the first agency-wide universal mental health screening program for children entering foster care in New York City. He is currently the President of the American Professional Society on the Abuse of Children, New York. He has served on several boards and presented at over fifty conferences and workshops, he is the recipient of numerous grants and has published several articles in peer reviewed journals.
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Advance Praise
Bonded to the Abuser
is a wise and helpful approach to a painful subject. It gives voice to
an often neglected and under-served population. It will be an extremely
helpful resource for professionals and for those who are living with the
legacy of abuse.
— Joshua Coleman, Ph.D., author of When Parents Hurt: Compassionate Strategies When You and Your Grown Child Get Along
Amy
J. L. Baker and Mel Schneiderman have synthesized a mountain of
qualitative data from the first-hand accounts of individuals who
experienced abuse and neglect as children. They reviewed 45 books, which
relate in painstaking and heartbreaking detail how the writers lived
through and managed to survive physical, sexual, and emotional abuse and
neglect. The primary theme of the book is the remarkable and
counterintuitive observation that abused children remain attached to
their abusive parents, whom they might perceive as charming and
charismatic. Children who are physically or emotionally neglected remain
loyal to their parents, who rarely acknowledged the children's presense
or personhood. Readers of Bonded to the Abuser will learn various mechanisms by which maltreated children fear, love, hate, and long for their moms and dads.
— William
Bernet, M.D., professor emeritus, Department of Psychiatry, Vanderbilt
University School of Medicine, Nashville, Tennessee
Bonded to the Abuser
is compelling for both lay people and for professionals who deal with
child maltreatment on a daily basis. By presenting the voices of adults
abused as children as they narrate, in their memoirs, their early life
experiences, and then identifying the themes that arise by form(s) of
abuse, Baker and Schneiderman capture the essence of the human
experience. This includes our extreme vulnerability as children, our
complete dependence on our parents for care and provisioning, the
enormous responsibility of that care, the tragedy that occurs when
parents refuse to accept responsibility/are not up to the task, the
lasting consequences of abuse and neglect for individuals, the role of
forgiveness, and the importance of other caring adults and institutions
(particularly schools) in partially compensating for parental deficits. I
cannot think of another book that illuminates the experience of
maltreatment more clearly than Bonded to the Abuser.
— Marla R. Brassard, Ph.D., Professor of Psychology and Education, Teachers College, Columbia University
Bonded to the Abuser
is a compelling read. Baker and Schneiderman have captured the power of
individual experiences and have knit them together in a way that
reveals patterns and contextualizes them in current psychological theory
and research. This is a great resource on maltreatment for anyone
seeking to understand what it is like to be a victimized child.
— Amy M. Smith Slep, Ph.D., Professor, Family Translational Research Group, New York University
Available Editions
EDITION | Hardcover |
ISBN | 9781442236905 |
PRICE | $34.00 (USD) |