Great book. I lived The thought provoking questions and activities. Highly recommend!!!!!…………I would read another book by this author.

I didn't like that there wasn't a physical practice in each one (ie journaling). Many days were just theory and advice. The only issue is that the book is subtitled "365 Relational Self-Awarnsss Practices to Help Your Relationship Heal, Grow and Thrive. The author even sees the problem and instead of fixing it tells readers to meditate on a certain part of the entry.
Otherwise, this is a pretty good book. No day is ever too long and subjects include your relationship, yourself as well as your relationships with your family.
My favorite entry is December 31 as the author turns the idea of resolutions on its head. I also like that there is an index that organizes the book themes. This way you can go to certain days and work on subjects that are the most pressing for you.

I am re-reading this book for the second year now. I love the way it’s structured to be just one page a day so you can really take your time to analyze the passage, reflect, and act on it throughout the rest of the day. This book has made me re-evaluate the lens through which I look at ALL of my relationships and I notice the improvement in the dynamic between my partner and I. Regardless if you’re interested in couples therapy or not, everyone can benefit from reading this thought-provoking book to better their relationships with their loved ones.

"Love has the power to wound us … and the power to heal us. And modern love is complicated. Which is why the ability to cultivate healthy relationships is the key to joy, peace, and a meaningful life." This is the introduction to this book in the description and if it isn't true I don't know what is. As someone who was traumatized by dating and relationships because of a romantic partnership I decided I needed this book and I was incredibly correct.

Love Every Day by Dr. Alexandra Solomon offers 365 daily practices to cultivate in introspective and compassionate approach to relationships with others and with one self. This is a book I have needed for over a decade.

The book includes 365 daily practices to put in place in ones relationships. Each practice will help you better understand how the past impacts your relationship, will help with you/your partners needs/wants, improve communication and help with romance and intimacy.

As a single person of over a decade (by choice due to fear and trauma) this book and each tip was insightful, meaningful, and incredibly helpful in facing my fears and traumas. It helped me build strength and has opened my mind to dating again. I am going to start implementing a daily task in my life to help continue the growth that I have started and I will share this guide with everyone I know because it is incredibly helpful regardless of dating trauma or not.

I was discussing some practices with my sister and she has started implementing them and her marriage has gotten stronger as well. This guide can be helpful to anyone, regardless of relationship status as it helps one develop an awareness about themselves, their partner, a future partner and honestly even non dating relationships (siblings, parent-child), friendships and more.

As someone who admittedly needs all the relationship help I can get this guide has been phenomenal. I will be using these practices for years to come and will be sharing some with future partners to help them understand my past better (if they are willing to put in the work).

"Love Every Day: 365 Relational Self-Awareness Practices to Help Your Relationship Heal, Grow, and Thrive" by Alexandra H. Solomon is a valuable guide for anyone seeking to foster healthier and more meaningful relationships. Dr. Solomon's expertise shines through as she offers 365 daily practices grounded in Relational Self-Awareness, making this book a four-star resource for those on a journey of self-discovery and improved relationships.

The strength of this book lies in its practical and accessible approach to relationship-building. Dr. Solomon's daily practices, inspired by her popular Instagram feed, provide readers with a manageable and intentional way to cultivate curiosity and compassion in their relationships. The Relational Self-Awareness framework is a key element, encouraging readers to explore the impact of their past and their partner's past, enabling a deeper understanding of themselves and their relationships.

The book's organization, offering a daily practice for each day of the year, allows readers to engage with the content at their own pace. The practices cover a wide range of topics, including understanding the influence of past experiences, meeting personal needs, enhancing intimacy, improving communication, and addressing relationship challenges. This comprehensive approach ensures that readers can address various aspects of their relationships, making the book relevant for individuals at different stages of their romantic journey.

Dr. Solomon's writing style is clear, empathetic, and encouraging. Her guidance is infused with a sense of warmth and understanding, creating a supportive space for readers to explore their emotions and experiences. The inclusion of real-life examples adds authenticity to the advice, making it relatable and applicable.

While the daily practices offer valuable insights, some readers may find the format overwhelming or challenging to incorporate into their daily routines. Additionally, the effectiveness of the practices may vary depending on individual preferences and relationship dynamics.

In conclusion, "Love Every Day" is a commendable resource for individuals seeking to enhance their relational self-awareness and foster healthier connections. Alexandra H. Solomon's daily practices provide a structured and thoughtful approach to self-discovery and relationship improvement. Whether single, in a relationship, or navigating the spaces in between, this book invites readers to develop awareness, curiosity, and empowerment, fostering a journey toward more authentic and fulfilling connections. With its practical guidance and relatable insights, "Love Every Day" earns a solid four-star rating as a valuable companion for those dedicated to the ongoing work of cultivating love and understanding in their lives.

"Love Every Day" by Alexandra Solomon is an absolute treasure that left me feeling all warm and fuzzy inside. This insightful book is a heartfelt guide to cultivating love and connection in our everyday lives - something we could all use a little more of.

Alexandra's wisdom shines through as she navigates us through the complex terrain of relationships, offering practical advice and heartfelt anecdotes that resonate deeply. Her compassionate tone and relatable storytelling make this book not just a guide, but a companion on the journey towards love and fulfillment.

"Love Every Day" reminds us of the power of vulnerability, the importance of self-reflection, and the beauty of showing up authentically in our relationships. Alexandra's guidance is rooted in research and psychological expertise, yet her words are accessible and relatable.

"Love Every Day" by Alexandra Solomon, PhD, is a compassionate and insightful guide that navigates the complexities of love and relationships. Solomon, a licensed clinical psychologist, blends academic wisdom with real-world anecdotes, providing practical advice for cultivating lasting and meaningful connections. The book addresses issues of communication, vulnerability, and personal growth within relationships. Solomon's writing is both accessible and empathetic, offering readers a roadmap to navigate the challenges of love. "Love Every Day" is a valuable resource for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of themselves and their partners, fostering a more fulfilling and connected romantic journey.

I really wish I would have received this book when I was much younger, and with that I must say I will be gifting this book to my young adult daughters. Very insightful, everyday might not fit for every relationship, but I have added as a quick daily read with as part of my morning routine.

This was such a beautiful and heart warming collection. I think that Alexandra Solomon did an amazing job in thrusting the reader forth in love, convincing them and reminding them that it's there and to soak it in. I thought at times it was a little repetitive, but I know these types of books can definitely be that way when trying to get a point across. I loved Love Every Day - it inspired me in ways I didn't think it would and I appreciate it's existence.

Love Every Day is a great book for those looking to grow their love, in any way that looks for individuals. I think it's important to look back to the root of where our loves comes from (both self and relationships) and I appreciated that this book highlights not just the positivity, but the hard work that needs to happen as well to have a better relationship with ourselves and others.

I can’t wait to start this over on January 1st and work it everyday throughout the year. I think if you don’t actively work on your relationships they can go stagnant. This book is the prescription to help prevent that.

I plan to start reading this book is a 2024 and doing an activity or part every single day. I know it’s gonna be good, and I am really looking forward to reading it.

This is a great book of 365 love practices. I’m pledging to start it again on January 1 and read it daily in 2024.

These short practices for developing healthier relationships don’t take long to read, but their impact can last much longer if we’ll put them into use.

Here are some of my favorite quotes.

“Instead of asking, ‘Why didn’t you do X?’ try asking, ‘What kept you from doing X?’”

“You and your partner will stand again and again at decision points that require asking three questions: What do I need? What do you need? What do we need?”

“Our relationships tend to need less problem-solving and advice and more space-holding and empathy.”

“Just because something is hard does not mean you’re doing it wrong.”

This book is an excellent resource to empower us with the right tools to love better every day.

My thanks to NetGalley and PESI Publishing for the review copy of this book.

This book helps you live with intention. It's a guided daily introspection.
Great read if you are starting the new year looking to make a change within yourself or your relationships.
The questions asked helps to give a sense of self awareness.

The day-by-day format of Love Every Day is genius and reading it has become part of my everyday mental wellness routine. Read it from first page to last or start on any given calendar date, Love Every Day is a choose-your-own adventure of topics ranging from self-care to relationships and intimacy. The author presents the material in an accessible way and provides a ton of great tips for awareness and self-improvement. Thank you to NetGalley, the publisher, and the author for the ARC of this wonderful and insightful self-help book.

Love the daily entries of tidbits and advice to assist with learning to love yourself even more. Looking forward to each daily entry. Would definitely recommend. Thanks #NetGalley.

I’m a therapist and really enjoyed this book. I will use this with clients as many struggle with self-love.. Recommended to others!

This book is just what I needed. Bite-sized food for thought around how to best improve my relationship with myself and others, how to give myself grace during tough times, how to recognize my own triggers, how to give my childhood self the love and care she wanted, and more. I took away so much from this book - and it is one I will definitely be re-reading, and gifting to people I love. Everyone can benefit from the wisdom in these pages. Thank you NetGalley and the publishers for the Advanced Review Copy.

A bit cheesy at times. I do like that the introduction recommends starting on whatever day you pick the book up (opposed to starting on January 1) and that it also labels entries by theme so you can skip around if there’s something you particularly want to read or address.

The sections don’t appear clearly in the kindle/off format. There’s also no table of contents to allow you to skip to the appropriate date. I imagine these may be ARC problems and did not deduct stars for it. However, it is always frustrating to come across formatting issues when you are reading and giving feedback at no cost to the author/publisher.

I love the gentleness the author encourages the reader to practice with themselves, such as: “Healing is not an on/off switch. The human condition demands a part of profound gentleness.” As a therapist, some of the advice felt a bit obvious or like what you’d be told early on in couple’s therapy, but I think that’s appropriate and helpful for most people that don’t have a career in counseling. It does feel a bit overly clinical or clunky at times, but often with reasons for that (such as trying to avoid binary words or keep scenarios hypothetical and gender free). I also feel some concern over her stating how important honesty is but also passing on her friend and colleague’s advice to not disclose that you’ve been faking orgasms. A sensitive topic and a hard one to walk back if the lie has been started… but continuing to lie doesn’t seem like the answer either.

All in all, I think the good advice and ability to start conversations with your partner mean that the good outranks the bad. If you’re only going to buy one relationship book, I wouldn’t put this in the top spot, but if you’ll buy and use a few, this feels like an addition to most couples.

I received an ARC in exchange for my honest review.

Love Every Day by Alexandra H. Solomon, PhD, 300 pages. NONFICTION. PESI Publishing Inc, 2023. $25.
Language: PG13 (22 swears, 0 “f”); Mature Content: R; Violence: PG
BUYING ADVISORY: ADULT - GIFT
AUDIENCE APPEAL: AVERAGE
We all need a little reminder of the worth of our relationships—that they are worth putting hard work into. Solomon encourages readers with a short tip to read each day of the year about love, connection, and relationships. These tips cover a range of love: loving yourself, loving your family, and loving your partner.
Solomon shares some of her personal experiences as well as practical examples from what she’s seen in her practice as a clinical psychologist, and I found the examples to be the most interesting parts. Most of the examples are much shorter than I would have expected; Solomon points out the little things we tell ourselves and each other that make big differences.
Solomon is clear that these daily tips are not only for heterosexual couples and most of the examples are given without pronouns. Note that uses of “eff” and “effing” are not uncommon. The mature content rating is for mentions of alcohol, drugs, and pornography; implied masturbation; and for discussions of sex, orgasm, foreplay, and genitalia. The violence rating is for brief discussions of abusive relationships, including sexual abuse.
Reviewer: Carolina Herdegen