Many thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for providing me with an advanced copy. ♥️

This novel is a truly sweet and heartwarming read. It’s one of those stories that focuses more on the emotional journey of the characters than on a traditional plot. While there are smaller storylines throughout, the main focus is on the protagonist, Gemma, as she rebuilds her life after experiencing significant trauma. Witnessing her transformation is both deeply moving and inspiring.

The novel delves into heavy topics, yet it maintains a lighthearted and often humorous tone. Gemma’s character is refreshingly honest, with a sharp wit that brings plenty of laughs along the way. There’s a particularly funny scene involving a yoga class that had me genuinely laughing out loud—something that doesn’t happen often when I read. The humor in this book is so well-crafted that I found myself sharing the moment with my parents, who enjoyed it just as much.

Gemma’s journey is enriched by the wonderful people who come into her life, each of whom plays a crucial role in her healing process. Characters like Margie, Erin, Katie, and Karim are incredibly endearing, and their interactions with Gemma bring warmth and love to the story. Despite her initial resistance, Gemma finds herself surrounded by a supportive group of friends who help her navigate her challenges.

The portrayal of mental health in this novel is particularly noteworthy. It’s handled with a raw honesty that doesn’t shy away from the realities of living with anxiety and depression. Gemma’s struggles are presented in a way that feels authentic and relatable, making her journey all the more powerful. As someone who has faced similar challenges, I found this aspect of the story especially impactful.

While the novel may not have a traditional, engaging plot, its strength lies in its emotional depth and the beautifully written characters. The author’s writing is filled with warmth and insight, reminding us that even in the midst of life’s difficulties, there is beauty to be found. For this reason, I’m giving this book 4 stars. It may lack a strong narrative structure, but its heartfelt exploration of life’s ups and downs makes it a touching and worthwhile read.

The heart of the story is Gemma's struggle to reconcile with her decision to give up her child for adoption as a teenager, a choice that continues to haunt her as she approaches her daughter's 18th birthday. Gemma's character development is the novel's strongest asset. Her journey from a woman paralysed by "what-ifs" to someone who begins to embrace life's uncertainties is portrayed with nuance and authenticity. The novel also excels in its exploration of different types of families. Through Gemma's relationships with her neighbour Margie, her students, and her potential birth daughter, the author presents a nuanced view of how family can be both biological and chosen. It is a compelling read. I do think the beginning could have been stronger to grip the reader, it was a bit slow.

Thank you so much to NetGalley, Harper Muse, and the author, Debbie Johnson, for a copy of this book in exchange for a fair and honest review.

I am glad I got to read this novel thru NetGalley. It hooked me from the beginning as the main character gives birth and thru her journey after giving up her child for adoption, Lots of issues covered in an insightful way and it was wonderful to witness her growth. I loved the part about her “chosen family”. Great characters, interesting situations in a unique location make this a great read!

Thank you to NetGalley & the publisher for an advanced copy ♥️

This novel is as sweet as can be. It’s kind of a “no plot, just vibes” type of book. I mean, there are mini plots, but they aren’t overarching, we’re really watching Gemma come into her own after a lifetime of trauma and it’s beautiful to witness.

Watching Gemma build her life up after she’s endured so much pain is VERY emotional, so be prepared! But don’t be fooled, though this story tackles some heavy topics, it’s pretty lighthearted and hilarious. Gemma is blunt, honest, and witty beyond belief, so her narration is riddled with nuggets of comedy gold. There’s this one scene where someone farts extremely loudly in Yoga class and the way Gemma explains it had me actually laughing out loud. Huuuugeee congrats to Debbie Johnson, it takes A LOT to make me laugh out loud at a book. I literally had to read it to my parents to explain my random laughter. They also thought it was hilarious since I inherited my 12 year old boy adjacent sense of humor from them <3

Gemma (begrudgingly) lets a lot of epic people into her life in this story, so we meet some epically sweet characters. We have Margie and her dog Bill, Erin, Katie, and Karim. These people make my heart melt. They are so magically human and they are everything Gemma needs. No matter how hard she tries to shut them out, they stay, and that’s beautiful. That’s LOVE.

Some character notes…

Margie: Total icon around the age of seventy. Has a cutie dog named Bill who I kept thinking was a person. Loves wine. Total flirt. Scandalous. Gives the best advice and gives Gemma tough love.
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Erin: Katie’s mom. Recently widowed. Strong as hell. Hilarious. She was the offender in the aforementioned Yoga class, bahaha. Quirky. Amazing mom. Icon.
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Katie: Redhead. Wise beyond her years. Madly intelligent. Emotional maturity of the highest degree. Epic sense of humor. Wears tutus bc why not. History nerd.
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Karim: Trying to win Gemma’s heart. Hot. Incredibly thoughtful. How is he real (ok he’s not but you know what I mean). PE teacher. Amazing one liners. Unbelievably patient. Unafraid of authenticity. Sweetest sweetheart to ever sweetheart. Did I say hot?

I looooove these characters. They make my heart so full.

Something I really appreciated in this novel is the representation of mental illness. It wasn’t glamorized, commodified, or sugarcoated, it was raw. Gemma doesn’t exactly admit she has severe anxieties and most likely high functioning depression, but it’s very loud on the page since it hijacks her life. As someone with the same issues, I deeply empathized with her and it actually helped me recognize some of my own patterns. Gemma is a total warrior who has handled her adversity amazingly, I was repeatedly left in awe of her.

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Yes, this novel lacked a concrete plot and was hard to get through at times, but it was beautiful. Johnson is an incredibly skilled writer who infuses soul into every sentence. There were so many lines that tugged at my heart strings and reminded me that in spite of all of the sadness and pain, there’s so much beauty and warmth to life, we must have the courage to seek it (for some of us, like Gemma, that’s a lot easier said than done). That’s why I gave this novel 4 stars, though it could use more of an engaging plot, it offers such a soulful and honest look at life, it alchemizes pain in such a gorgeous manner. I think offering a slice of life vibe rather than an elaborate plot beautifully drives the novel’s message home.
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I really enjoyed this book! I loved the writing and the way Debbie Johnson brought the characters to life. The pacing was perfect and the main character was messy and came across as realistic.

thank you to netgalley and to harper muse for providing me with an e-arc of this book! the thoughts and opinions shared are my own. i have to admit, it wasn't easy for me to get into this book. gemma, the protagonist, was a bit boring and bland, and her inner monologue made it hard for me to push through. but in the end, i am glad i did. i think the book does a really good job building the relationships between the characters. i thought margie was just fabulous, and erin and katie too. i especially liked katie's spunk and passion. and i liked the sweet moments shared between gemma and her mum and the growth it showed for the characters. however, despite finding karim to be really sweet, i wasn't very engaged by his relationship with gemma, and felt like those scenes were some of the weakest moments. i didn't find them, as a couple, interesting to read about. i am really glad we got an update on gemma's daughter at the end, it felt like a nice resolution to the book! a solid 3 stars from me.

⭐️⭐️ Statistically Speaking by Debbie Johnson is good, but not great. It has a really compelling opening. It starts out with the birth of a baby to 16 year old Gemma, and a letter she writes to her baby, who is then adopted. I had really high hopes for the book, but after this great opening it sort of fizzled. Gemma was confusing character, sometimes she seemed silly, other times romantic, other times a nervous wreck. The story was all over the place, there is a romantic interest that absolutely sneaks up on you. The last few pages are also lovely, the theme is very pro-adoption without being anti-choice, and it’s quite, quite British. I was a little disappointed that the whole “statistic” theme was lacking. Good in the beginning, but it’s like she kind of forgot to keep doing it. From the club I was expecting more of a neurodivergent character, like Cassandra in Reverse, Eleanor Oliphant or Interesting Facts About Space. Great idea but it just didn’t land for me.

I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own

Thanks to NetGalley and Harper Muse for the ARC.

I adored this cozy story about found family and what it means to create a life you love. Gemma’s journey of accepting her past while embracing the present and future is inspiring and realistic. This book walks the line between contemporary fiction and romcom, leaning more towards the former! The romance elements are very cute though, and this is a great closed-door love story. I will definitely be seeking out more of Debbie Johnson’s work!

I loved Johnson's book "Jenny James is Not a Disaster," so was excited to get the ARC od this one. I loved the themes of the novel and the character development was awesome. But, thonthe beginning was intriguing and ending ok, the heart of the novel was disjointed and ALL over the place.
I received an ARC from netgalley in exchange for an honest review

I really enjoyed this book. The characters were well developed and lovable. The pacing was perfect and left you wanting to read more. I can't wait to read more by this author!

This is a book about overcoming the odds. It is about perseverance and how your childhood doesn’t have to define who you are as an adult. Gemma was a child who had many obstacles to overcome including an unstable mom which eventually led her into be in the foster care system. One reckless night at 16 led her to have her own baby who she put up for adoption. Fast forward 18 years and Gemma is still trying to find herself. This story is one of true friendship, discovery of your true self, and love.

I loved this book. I found the writing crisp and witty, and felt drawn into Gemma’s poignant and heart-breaking story while admiring her toughness and determination. The book is also full of engaging secondary characters who filled out the plot as well as filled up Gemma’s life. The scene from the yoga studio had me howling with laughter and I loved how it became the start of such a strong female friendship. I also thought King-I-Love-You-The-First was perfect boyfriend material and I liked so many of the scenes where he encouraged Gemma to face her deep-seated beliefs and challenge her comfort zone.

Gemma beat the odds, statistically speaking, to rise up from her childhood circumstances and create a life of her choosing, and I rooted for her the entire way.

The book deals with teenage pregnancy, adoption, foster care, and addiction, as well as the mental health ripple effects and the emotional struggles therein.

Thank you to NetGalley and Harper Muse for an advanced reader copy in exchange for an honest review.

Gemma had an out-of-wedlock baby at age sixteen that she gave up for adoption. Her mother was drug addicted, and Gemma was in and out of foster care for most of her growing-up years. Nevertheless, Gemma graduated from college and became a history teacher. Now in her 30s, she has spent decades yearning for the child she gave away, but always moving to another town and another job whenever she felt she was growing emotionally close to anyone. Better to be alone. How she overcame her childhood trauma and found a "family" that she could be a part of is what this story is all about. Well written, all the characters are relatable. And it moves nicely to a potentially happy ending.

big thank you to Harper Muse for giving me the chance to read this one early!

I was excited to read this one because the description really seemed right up my alley. Little did I know I would relate to the FMC in ways I didn’t expect! While my personal story and upbringing is quite different than Gemma’s, there were passages that felt like Johnson took a look into my brain and wrote out everything she discovered.

From the jump, Gemma was a strong lead (at 16 and 34). She is self-aware in a way that felt refreshing to me. I also loved all the supporting characters! So well written! I felt like I really grew to know the whole cast, not just the lead.

The story is charming and heartwarming and lovely. Would recommend to a friend!

Docking a star because I don’t love chapter titles but that is obviously a personal preference!

The story starts with foster child Gemma, a new mom at sixteen who gives her child up for adoption. Cut to 18 years later and Gemma has a fulfilling job as a high school school teacher, but is detached from other's lives by choice. She has always wondered about the baby she gave away, but never more so than now after she realizes a new student could potentially be her biological daughter. There's a lovely romance here, yes, but this book is more about all of Gemma's relationships and how her past has impacted how much she allows others into her life. This is a cautious and anxious woman with a troubled familial history, who feels that by avoiding others she is avoiding hurt. But what is she giving up in return? Throughout the story there are nice messages of support and acceptance, especially if you're brave enough to open yourself up to it. I loves the focus on found family and on forgiveness, both for yourself and for others. And I don't usually pay attention to chapter titles but I liked these, they were fun sign posts in navigating each chapter. This is a great book for those needing a literary hug, for those recovering from their past while allowing themselves to be hopeful about the future, and for those that sometimes need a nudge to open their hearts to others. New-to-me author, I'd read her again. Ebook ARC provided by NetGalley for this review.

I absolutely adore everything Debbie Johnson writes and this heartwarming story was perfect for a holiday weekend in the sun.
33-year-old Gemma is quite content with her life, for the first time ever. After growing up in the care system and giving birth and giving up her daughter for adoption when she was only 16, she has finally found a place that feels like home. She loves her job as a teacher, enjoys spending time with her elderly neighbour and her dog and there might even be a man in her future, when a new student enrolls in her history class with the same date of birth as the daughter she gave up, the same red hair she has and she also turns out to have been adopted… could this be het daughter?


I loved the found family, the characters and the humour in the story. As a teacher, I particularly liked the descriptions of teaching as well and even highlighted some sentences. They are absolutely spot on!

Thank you Netgalley and the publisher for this ARC. I enjoyed it very much!

I enjoyed this book, a real roller-coaster, but with a lovely ending making it all worthwhile.

Gemma reluctantly gave up her baby girl for adoption when she was a teenager, and now this 'baby' girl is about to turn 18 and so will officially be able to search for her birth mother, which Gemma is waiting for every second of every day. There are various twists and turns and Gemma thinks a recent pupil (Gemma is a teacher) could be her daughter, which is initially made more awkward as she had just befriended this girl's mother without realising.

I loved all the quirky characters, Gemma's downstairs neighbour Margie was fabulous and one of my favourites, but they were all great in their own way and really helped Gemma come out of her shell.

The story is all about Gemma waiting for her daughter to (hopefully) contact her, but in the meantime she's slowly becoming a bit less solitary and being dragged into peoples lives, which she finds she actually enjoys, after resisting it for so long.

A very satisfying read, with highs and lows, but ultimately a lovely ending.

The only thing that really, really annoys me - and of course I didn't realise this until I started reading it - is that this book has been published under two names - 'Forever Yours' published in 2022 and 'Statistically Speaking' this one in 2024. All through it I kept thinking I'd read it before, and flipping pages, but I couldn't think what it was and thought it was just me going mad! Different titles for the same book are a real bugbear for me, I think it's just ridiculous to have different titles for different countries. Please authors just stick to the one title for a book!!

this was fine at first, fine at the end, and the middle was a bit of a jumbled mess. gemma was messy, albeit somewhat entertaining. the pacing felt a bit off, especially around the halfway mark, and it made it a bit hard to even WANT to get through the book.

I would recommend Statistically Speaking. I loved Gemma, the main character. This story definitely had its ups and downs but I found I was right there with Gemma along the way. As a mother of an adopted daughter I was not so sure I wanted to read the book. Often books about adoption are just not written well or accurately. This book handled the topic of adoption sensitively and I appreciated that.

This one was just okay for me... Wasn't bad by any means, just never pulled me in completely. Thank you for the ARC