Statistically Speaking

This book was so fun! I think we can all relate so well with the main character and her real emotions in this book! The sock drawer...loved this! It was such a great great.

Gemma has had a hard life and finds it difficult to attach herself to people. She had to give up her baby when she was sixteen because she was living in care (foster care).. She has not seen her mother in years and has spent most of her life moving from place to place. She is now teaching high school students and is intrigued by a student who is new to the school. When she discovers that Kate is adopted and has the same birth date as the daughter she gave away, she is intrigued. Statistically speaking is this possible? Gemma finally confides in her neighbor and her co-worker Karim about her past and ask for their guidance as to what she should do about it. Is Kate really her daughter, if not, is she ready to search for the daughter she gave up so many years ago? Will Karim become more than a co-worker? He is interested in Gemma, but can she let down her defenses to accept his love and his kindness? I highly recommend reading this novel to discover if things work out for Gemma.

Statistically Speaking by Debbie Johnson is definitely a 5-star for me. Why didn’t I know about this author before? The main character, Gemma, is a bit of a mess because of trauma from her childhood. Her growth as a person throughout the book is so well done. She is very introspective. She knows she closes herself off to people, and at first can’t help it and doesn’t want to fix it. She moves away to a new town whenever things get hard. But when she moves to Liverpool, she gradually decides what she’s been doing is not really “living” and she starts to make friends and even has a love interest. The inter-generational aspect of the community she gathers is excellent, and the story is sweet, tear-jerking at times, and wraps up in a very satisfying way. That’s enough review because I have to go buy one of Debbie’s other books!

I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.

I absolutely loved this book! The female main chapter was so likable and she makes you feel for her too. I really loved the characters development.

This book full of emotions. I can have my sympathy toward Gemma who has those kinds of dark past: pregnant in very young age, didn't have proper childhood life, had problematic mother etc. That's why she has trauma which made her overthink anything.

This book dive deep into Gemma thoughts and emotions, and I love how Karim being super understanding with her circumstances. It's not romantic type of book, but it's show us about how "mature" relationship happen.

At first, it made my emotion drained because of how Gemma think about everything, it gives us lesson: your denial traits can hurt somebody. After the story goes, I love how Gemma's character develop and how she started accept the truth.

I can say, it's heart-warming story about mother-daughter relationship.

Loved this one! Great and fun read. Highly recommend.
Many thanks to the publisher, Netgalley, and the author for my ARC.

Statistically Speaking is as much a story of coming of age through intense adversity, as a story of Girl Power and friendship with a lovely little romance thrown in. Gemma's story has a heart wrenching start leading to empowering relationships sprinkled with clever humor. An engaging and fantastic read!

Statistically Speaking is a heart-warming and hopeful book about chosen family and not judging a book by its cover.

The red-headed main character, Gemma, has had a difficult upbringing, struggles to make genuine connections and mostly keeps things to herself. Most importantly: giving up her daughter for adoption at birth when she was only 16 years old, which has been haunting her ever since. Did she make the right choice? How did her daughter turn out? Is there resentment? As her daughter will soon have her 18th birthday, Gemma is anxious whether she will try to contact her. When she meets a red-headed student that has been adopted herself and shares the same birthday as her baby, she starts to wonder whether this might be her.

The book at times reads like a journal, being written from Gemma's perspective. Not a lot of statistics though (except for some compulsive keeping count of steps and drinks). So if you're curious about what are the odds of this story, you'd have to do your own research. It is generally a fun read though, and at times a bit sad.

This book is labeled as romance, which is not a genre I typically read, and I wouldn't classify it as such myself. It is much more about the different types of relationships between families and friends, opening yourself up and seeing things from different perspectives.

I received an ARC of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.

Thank you NetGalley for the ebook in exchange for an honest review.

This book was so lovely! I really enjoyed everything about it but I especially liked the way the characters were written. Like I was happy when Margie, Erin or Katie came up. And Gemma was a very relatable character that you like as soon as the book starts.

I loved being on this emotional journey with Gemma and I loved seeing her change and grow and open herself to the people around her who really did love her, even tho she was afraid. I also enjoyed the secondary characters and their stories. I learned a whole lot about adoption and the feelings of mother and child as well as adoptive parents. The novel as a whole was thoroughly enjoyable and kept me turning the pages. I will be recommending this to my readers.

Thanks to NetGalley, the author, and publisher for an advanced reading copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.

I absolutely adore everything Debbie Johnson writes and this heartwarming story was perfect for a holiday weekend in the sun.
33-year-old Gemma is quite content with her life, for the first time ever. After growing up in the care system and giving birth and giving up her daughter for adoption when she was only 16, she has finally found a place that feels like home. She loves her job as a teacher, enjoys spending time with her elderly neighbour and her dog and there might even be a man in her future, when a new student enrolls in her history class with the same date of birth as the daughter she gave up, the same red hair she has and she also turns out to have been adopted… could this be het daughter?


I loved the found family, the characters and the humour in the story. As a teacher, I particularly liked the descriptions of teaching as well and even highlighted some sentences. They are absolutely spot on!

Thank you Netgalley and the publisher for this ARC. I enjoyed it very much!

Gemma had an out-of-wedlock baby at age sixteen that she gave up for adoption. Her mother was drug addicted, and Gemma was in and out of foster care for most of her growing-up years. Nevertheless, Gemma graduated from college and became a history teacher. Now in her 30s, she has spent decades yearning for the child she gave away, but always moving to another town and another job whenever she felt she was growing emotionally close to anyone. Better to be alone. How she overcame her childhood trauma and found a "family" that she could be a part of is what this story is all about. Well written, all the characters are relatable. And it moves nicely to a potentially happy ending.

I loved this book. I found the writing crisp and witty, and felt drawn into Gemma’s poignant and heart-breaking story while admiring her toughness and determination. The book is also full of engaging secondary characters who filled out the plot as well as filled up Gemma’s life. The scene from the yoga studio had me howling with laughter and I loved how it became the start of such a strong female friendship. I also thought King-I-Love-You-The-First was perfect boyfriend material and I liked so many of the scenes where he encouraged Gemma to face her deep-seated beliefs and challenge her comfort zone.

Gemma beat the odds, statistically speaking, to rise up from her childhood circumstances and create a life of her choosing, and I rooted for her the entire way.

The book deals with teenage pregnancy, adoption, foster care, and addiction, as well as the mental health ripple effects and the emotional struggles therein.

Thank you to NetGalley and Harper Muse for an advanced reader copy in exchange for an honest review.

I really enjoyed this book. The characters were well developed and lovable. The pacing was perfect and left you wanting to read more. I can't wait to read more by this author!

Debbie Johnson’s *Statistically Speaking* is the rom-com you didn’t know you needed—sharp, witty, and full of that deliciously awkward charm that makes you root for the characters from page one. It’s a delightful twist on the classic love story, where numbers and nerdiness collide with the unpredictable mess that is romance. If you’ve ever found yourself calculating the odds of finding love and wondering if there’s a formula for happiness, this book will speak to your soul—and make you laugh out loud while it’s at it.

Meet Lucy Green, a statistician who lives her life by the numbers. She’s got spreadsheets for everything—her grocery shopping, her exercise routine, and, naturally, her dating life. After all, why leave love to chance when you can calculate your way to the perfect partner? Lucy’s got it all figured out: the perfect height, job, and even the probability of a second date. But as you might expect, life isn’t so easily plotted out on a graph, and her perfectly planned approach to romance quickly starts to unravel.

Enter Owen Miller, the guy who’s about as far from Lucy’s “ideal match” as you can get. He’s spontaneous, a little bit chaotic, and doesn’t know the first thing about probability theory. But Owen has his own kind of charm—one that can’t be quantified or plugged into a formula. He’s the wildcard Lucy never saw coming, and watching her struggle to reconcile her meticulously calculated expectations with the messy reality of falling in love is nothing short of hilarious.

What makes *Statistically Speaking* so damn fun is the way Johnson blends humor with heart. Lucy’s obsessive need for control and predictability is something anyone who’s ever tried to plan their life down to the last detail can relate to. But it’s the way she learns to let go—helped along by Owen’s laid-back, devil-may-care attitude—that gives the story its real emotional punch. You can’t help but cheer for Lucy as she starts to realize that love, much like life, can’t always be measured or predicted.

The dialogue in this book is razor-sharp, with plenty of laugh-out-loud moments and a healthy dose of banter that keeps things lively. Johnson’s writing is effortlessly charming, balancing light-hearted humor with deeper, more reflective moments that give the story real substance. The pacing is spot-on, making it the kind of book you can devour in one sitting—or stretch out over a few days, savoring every bit of Lucy and Owen’s journey.

But beyond the laughs and the love story, *Statistically Speaking* has a lot to say about the pressures we put on ourselves to have everything figured out. It’s a reminder that sometimes the best things in life happen when we least expect them, and that true happiness can’t be found in a formula or a set of rules. It’s about embracing the unexpected, the unquantifiable, and learning to trust that sometimes, the best things can’t be predicted or planned—they just happen.

Debbie Johnson has crafted a rom-com that’s as smart as it is sweet, with a heroine who’s as relatable as she is lovable. *Statistically Speaking* is for anyone who’s ever tried to organize their life into neat little boxes, only to have love come in and turn everything upside down—in the best possible way. So, grab this book, get comfortable, and get ready to enjoy a love story that’s anything but by the numbers.

Post on 8/21/24

This book starts out with the FMC giving birth at 16 and then goes to how she lived her adult life in the most controlled way. She was a perfectionist, neat and clean, always counting, and she never spent a moment not thinking about the baby she gave up. She does genuinely feel like someone who has been hurt and will do anything to avoid messy feelings and uncomfortable situations. But, then something happens. She considers staying put in her cute home, with a small group of good friends and she finally opens up to people about a secret she’s been hiding. It’s that moment where things change for her. She frees herself from the burden of this secret and it has a positive chain reaction. One thing leads to another and she finds herself in a better place for it. Here’s too taking chances and moving forward!

Thank you to NetGalley and Harper Muse for allowing me to read an ARC of Statistically Speaking by Debbie Johnson, in exchange for my honest review.

So much love! This was a fantastic story. As someone who lives with anxiety disorder/panic attacks, I admire Gemma for her coping mechanisms, and recognizing when she will (and will not) need them.

I would like to commend and thank Debbie Johnson for her brilliant portrayal of this not-spoken-of-nearly-enough-brain-chaos, showing it can be managed and there are people who will understand and love us.

I definitely recommend this book!

Whether Debbie Johnson sets out to write a witty book or a serious one, she nails it. Every. Time.
I love the characters in her books and the relationships they have and the banter between them and I don't know how she can whip out so many in a short time to such a high standard.

Firstly the characters in the book were very human. The way the protagonist was so normal in her unique way spoke to me. Even though we have a completely different upbringing, Gemma's way of coping and owning who she was was amazing. The PE teacher guy sounds like a dream bf. Handsome and funny and caring. Above all, someone who didn't try to change her at all.
Margie, Katie and Erin are the best friends that I've always wanted and I do find myself saying that about quite a few of Debbie's characters! Bill of course was the adorable boy next door.

The book started in a witty way which was funny to think of being a key and traumatic event that was being experienced. We were introduced to Gemma and her coping mechanisms of counting and thinking of fact after fact. Throughout the the book, we learn how Gemma reacts to different scenarios that life throws at her. Some traumatic, some romantic and some even lunatic.

I enjoyed that the story included a romance but didn't start as one. I enjoyed the hard topics written about and how they were tackled with poise, affection and genuine feelings. The ending of course had me crying buckets and there's nothing quite like happy crying to give you a sense of calm and to make your own dog look at you with questioning side eye!

All in all, I loved it. All hail 'Queen Can Write No Wrong'. 5 stars from me!

Thanks so much to Netgalley, Harper Muse and Debbie Johnson for allowing me the chance to read this and write a review. All views expressed are my own