The first half of this book is a nice reflection on the early life of Allison and the path that took her to meeting Stephen and finding success in their respective careers, as well as creating a nice life and family together. The second half of the book focuses on the life after Stephen's unexpected death. The reflection of the author is raw and understandable, but also feels like very private and personal experiences that I didn't necessarily need shared so publicly with me.

Allison Holker’s memoir, This Far, is a deeply personal and inspiring journey through her life as a dancer, mother, and wife, offering readers a heartfelt glimpse into her triumphs and hardships. While many may recognize her from So You Think You Can Dance or her high-profile marriage to Stephen “tWitch” Boss, this book reveals the untold story of her resilience, ambition, and personal growth.

At its core, This Far is not just a reflection on grief but a testament to Holker’s determination. She candidly shares her struggles—both professional and personal—including the countless times she faced rejection in the dance industry. Rather than letting setbacks define her, she persisted, proving that talent and perseverance can break down barriers. Her journey is particularly compelling for aspiring artists and working parents, as she balances the demanding worlds of dance and motherhood with grace and strength.

While part of the book inevitably touches on the heartbreaking loss of her husband, This Far is ultimately about Holker’s path forward. She provides an honest look at grief and healing, emphasizing the importance of community, therapy, and self-reflection in navigating tragedy. Her vulnerability makes the book not just a memoir, but a source of comfort and inspiration for those who have faced similar loss.

Holker’s storytelling is engaging, emotional, and uplifting. Readers who have followed her and tWitch’s journey will gain a newfound appreciation for the depth of their relationship and the strength she continues to display. This Far is a powerful read about perseverance, love, and finding light even in the darkest moments.

I requested this before I read about the controversy surrounding it, and now I’m uncomfortable with the idea of reading it. I loved tWitch and Allison from pop culture and was devastated when tWitch died. I was hoping this book would be cathartic and a celebration of his life and their relationship, but the early reactions have really put me off and I won’t be reading it.

As i got approved today the day before release i loved it. She poured into this book not to downplay she told HER story. It is heavy but i couldn’t put it down im so proud of her for her bravery

The memoir was wonderfully written while the content was quite heavy. However, I did enjoy getting a chance to read Allison's story.

This book is a love story about dance, family, and her husband, but it also addresses difficult themes. In it, Alison candidly shares glimpses into her life with Stephen "tWitch" Boss, highlighting his struggles and the profound impact his death had on her and their loved ones. Due to the heavy subject matter, I intended to read this book slowly and take my time with it. However, I found it impossible to put down. Alison writes as if she is speaking directly to her friends, and her approachable style makes her relatable.

I commend Alison's bravery in writing this book, especially considering her family is in the public eye. I can only imagine how much harder it is to be vulnerable to the world, as people are quick to judge. Despite this challenge, she has succeeded in creating a book that is truly worth reading.

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I read this book in about 1.5 days. I was blown away by Allison’s honesty, rawness and the way she laid her soul bare. I felt like she was totally reclaiming the narrative of it all and while she didn’t own any of us any explanation she told her story and what she went through. It was also eye opening of what to say and not to say to people when they are grieving but also that things and people aren’t always what they seem.

I cannot wait for the rest of the world to read this story. I am sure others will see symptoms and characteristics, of what she saw in Stephen, in their loved ones and will be alert to that after reading this book.

I will definitely be suggesting this book to others.