Birthing Hope

Giving Fear to the Light

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Pub Date May 01 2018 | Archive Date Jul 10 2018

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Library Journal - Best Books of 2018 "To bring anything new into the world is to open one’s self and therefore to take on risk, to contaminate oneself with the other, to be made vulnerable. This requires not just courage but many things, among them faith, hope, help, companionship, grace—in a word, love." While living in one of the world's most impoverished countries, Rachel Marie Stone unexpectedly caught a baby without wearing gloves, drenching her bare hands with HIV-positive blood. Already worried about her health and family, Stone grappled anew with realities of human suffering, global justice, and maternal health. In these reflections on the mysteries of life and death, Stone unpacks how childbirth reveals our anxieties, our physicality, our mortality. Yet birth is a profoundly hopeful act of faith, as new life is brought into a hurting world that groans for redemption. God becomes present to us as a mother who consents to the risk of love and lets us make our own way in the world, as every good mother must do.

Library Journal - Best Books of 2018 "To bring anything new into the world is to open one’s self and therefore to take on risk, to contaminate oneself with the other, to be made...


Advance Praise

"I love this book. You needn't have given birth to love it. Maybe you don't even have to be curious about God or life as a human being to love it—the prose is that strong and compelling that perhaps even the God-and-human-uncurious might love it. My copy is going on my read-once-a-year shelf, after Jane Smiley and before Robert Penn Warren."
-Lauren F. Winner, associate professor at Duke Divinity School, author of Wearing God

"Ask me what this book is about and I will struggle to give you a simple answer. It is about pregnancy and birth, anxiety and despair, blood and water. It is memoir and history, poetry and theology. Ask me, though, why you should read this book, and my answer is very simple—because you are a person with a body in and through which you bear pain, fear, and failure. Read this book for its necessary wisdom. In our most desperate vulnerability, when all we can do is endure, God is there too."
-Ellen Painter Dollar, author of No Easy Choice: A Story of Disability, Parenthood, and Faith in an Age of Advanced Reproduction

"Birthing Hope drew me in from the first page to the last. Rachel Marie Stone’s masterful interweaving of family story, theological truth, and personal reflection on birth, life, and loss puts her in the company of writers such as Rebecca Solnit and Eula Biss. I will return to this book for wisdom, beautiful writing, and encouragement that, even in the face of loss and sorrow, it is good to give ourselves to the light."
-Amy Julia Becker, author of Small Talk and A Good and Perfect Gift

"We all carry fear with us in our bodies. Some of us try to escape it, some excel at denying it, and others attempt to bully it into submission. Rachel Marie Stone’s shimmering writing instead invites readers to recognize the ways in which fear shapes us (and sometimes breaks us) as human beings. Birthing Hope reveals, with honesty and grace, the ways in which holy, embodied hope can re-form our response to fear."
-Michelle Van Loon, author of Moments & Days: How Our Holy Celebrations Shape Our Faith

"Rachel Stone writes with power in this captivating reflection on the legacies of pain, procreation, and promise that echo through women’s (reproductive, emotional, and familial) lives. Part memoir, part travelogue, part time travel, Birthing Hope kept me glued to its pages. Highly recommend!"
-Jennifer Grant, author of Love You More, Wholehearted Living, and Maybe God Is Like That Too

"I’ve been waiting for a book like this one for years, and no one could have written it more beautifully and wisely that Rachel Marie Stone. With the skill of a poet and the patience of a doula, Stone invites the reader to look straight into the face of fear and find in it the spark of hope. There are words and phrases from these pages that I will go on pondering for years. Theologically rich and carefully researched, Birthing Hope is a book for everyone, but as a new mother it proved life changing—the kind of book that leaves you breathless."
-Rachel Held Evans, author of Searching for Sunday and A Year of Biblical Womanhood

"Every woman who gives birth knows that it is a profoundly spiritual experience. Something in us changes as our bodies bring life into the world. Rachel Marie Stone puts words around the ways the birthing process pulls women into the depths of pain, but also identity, fear, mercy, and even death. In doing so, she offers a clear look at the physical, emotional, and mystical messiness of birth."
-Carla Barnhill, author of The Myth of the Perfect Mother, former editor of Christian Parenting Today

"Profound theology, deep psychic insight, and the kind of wisdom that only emerges from immersion in life and the Scriptures—Rachel Marie Stone's book is a treasure, unforgettable, entirely compelling."
-James Howell, author of Worshipful: Living Sunday Morning All Week

"I love this book. You needn't have given birth to love it. Maybe you don't even have to be curious about God or life as a human being to love it—the prose is that strong and compelling that...


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While I've heard Rachel Marie Stone's name before, and skimmed over some of her articles, it was the first time I had picked up one of her books and actually dug in. Birthing Hope caught my attention - because of both its premise, and the fact that I am a recent first-time mom.
From the first page where she quoted Micha Boyett's poem "Darkness" to the last page, I was hooked. As I read this book, I found myself nodding with enthusiasm, shedding a few tears, and even laughing because I related so deeply to what she was saying. Just listen to a few of my favourite quotes:

"That's what it is to be a mother: to love and nurture that which is fragile, mortal, unpredictable, uncontrollable and ultimately not even truly one's own."

"To love is to unshield oneself - shield coming from a German world meaning "to separate" - and I was unshielded, unseparated, exposed, a fisherman caught in a storm in a dinghy on a churning sea."

"The scandal of the incarnation is that God became a human, not by being beamed down from on high but by being born in the usual way...The scandal of the incarnation is that a woman - we may even be tempted to refer to Mary as a girl, she was so young - was in labour with God."

These are just a few of my many highlights in this book. Rachel Marie's honesty and transparency about her own birth experiences, her experiences working with women giving birth in Malawi, and the way she connects both to Scripture and theology are beautiful. I clung to every word, and will recommend this book particularly to young mothers - and well, to everyone!

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Birthing Hope
Giving Fear to the Light
by Rachel Marie Stone
InterVarsity Press


Christian , Religion & Spirituality
Pub Date 01 May 2018



I am reviewing a copy of Birthing Hope through Intervarsity Press and Netgalley:


In Birthing Hope the author points out that bringing something to light requires us to dive fully into water.

We are reminded that love is always a risk, from the time a woman agreed to nurture a child with her own body and then allows it to be torn open for the sake of the new life that grew inside of her, the author points out that, that is the miracle that saves the world. The author reminds us that is where fragile hope is found.

Author Rachel Marie Stone unexpectedly caught a baby with her bare hands, drenching it with HIV blood while working as a doula, as well as a teacher in the world's most impoverished countries.

The author reminds us that all who are born or give birth will someday die, but amongst our fears and doubts birth is a deeply hopeful act of faith, new life is brought into a hurting world that recalls for redemption.


I give Birthing Hope five out of five stars!

Happy Reading!

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Sometimes a writer puts words together so eloquently, you feel like you're reading a painting. Rachel is one such artist. This one is a bit hard for me to describe. It's a bit memoir, a bit of theology, at bit of Bible teaching. I want to read it again already.

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A beautiful memoir that examines not only the author's own life, but also the cultures in which she has found herself, life, death, and, as the subtitle suggests, what we do with fear. Rachel Marie Stone's writing is stunning, her voice both strong and gentle. I could have read another 500 pages simply because I enjoy her style so much.

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