Braver Than You Think

Around the World on the Trip of My (Mother’s) Lifetime

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Pub Date May 12 2020 | Archive Date May 01 2020

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Description

Newly married and established in her career as an award-winning newspaper journalist, Maggie Downs quits her job, sells her belongings, and embarks on the solo trip of a lifetime: Her mother’s.

As a child, Maggie Downs often doubted that she would ever possess the courage to visit the destinations her mother dreamed of one day seeing. “You are braver than you think,” her mother always insisted. That statement would guide her as, over the course of one year, Downs backpacked through seventeen countries―visiting all the places her mother, struck with early-onset Alzheimer’s disease, could not visit herself―encountering some of the world’s most striking locales while confronting the slow loss of her mother. Interweaving travelogue with family memories, Braver Than You Think takes the reader hiking the Inca Trail to Machu Picchu, white-water rafting on the Nile, volunteering at a monkey sanctuary in Bolivia, praying at an ashram in India, and fleeing the Arab Spring in Egypt.

By embarking on an international journey, Downs learned to make every moment count―traveling around the globe and home again, losing a parent while discovering the world. Perfect for fans of adventure memoirs like Wild and Welcome to the Goddamn Ice Cube, Braver Than You Think explores grief and loss with tenderness, clarity, and humor, and offers a truly incredible roadmap to coping with the unimaginable.

Newly married and established in her career as an award-winning newspaper journalist, Maggie Downs quits her job, sells her belongings, and embarks on the solo trip of a lifetime: Her mother’s.

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Advance Praise

"Downs has a fluid, conversational writing style, zooming in to particular anecdotes that illuminate her experience rather than trying to cover the entire year . . . The travel sections are compelling and lively. A poignant tale of connection and disconnection through travel." —Kirkus Reviews


"Deeply inspiring and profoundly moving, Maggie Downs's journey reminds us to take stock of what's truly important. Gorgeous prose, fascinating adventures, and a lot of heart will make this one of your favorite books of the year." —Claire Bidwell Smith, author of The Rules of Inheritance


"She encounters monkeys in Bolivia, grilled camel in Egypt (as a vegetarian), and roadwork in Thailand, all to learn courage in places her mom never got to see. But the most moving scenes are about her mother in the grip of Alzheimer’s, and the result is an affecting and hard-to-put-down meditation on life and grief.” —Michael Scott Moore, author of The Desert and the Sea


“In prose so vivid that I felt the coral cutting her feet in the Red Sea, the sharp fangs of a monkey as his teeth hit her flesh, and the devastation of losing her mother, Maggie Downs proves she’s a great stylist and a great storyteller. If you want an adventure story, a love story, a story about losing a parent or about becoming one—or if you’re simply looking for a great read—Braver Than You Think is your book.” —Jeannie Vanasco, author of Things We Didn’t Talk About When I Was a Girl

 

“Maggie Downs writes beautifully in that liminal space where joy and grief overlap to form another kind of feeling where 'brokenness makes the cracks that can be filled again.' A brave story of one woman's love journey to honor and mourn her mother and to find herself in the process. There's something here for everyone—equal parts travel adventure and adventure of the heart. A triumphant book!" —Karen Rinaldi, author of It's Great to Suck at Something: The Unexpected Joy of Wiping Out and What It Can Teach Us About Patience, Resilience, and the Stuff That Really Matters


“What a gorgeous book—full of adventure and suspense. I'd follow Maggie Downs anywhere. She's not just intrepid, she's excellent company: funny, deep, vulnerable, exquisitely honest, and such a good writer. Downs is the hero we need now—one to inspire each of us to be our best self and live our best life.” —Dinah Lenney, author of The Object Parade 


"With a mother in the final stages of Alzheimer’s, Maggie Downs tries to run from her grief, but instead takes us to the far reaches of the globe, cuddling (and being bitten) by endangered monkeys, bonding with elephants, and working to save sea turtles. It’s a journey to make any of us wonder if we’re braver than we think." —Diana Marcum, Pulitzer Prize winner and author of The Tenth Island


“Maggie Downs is Braver Than You Think—and braver than she thinks, before she sets off on the globe-trotting, culture-hopping, grief-haunted trip of her (and her mother’s) lifetime. This is a book about love and loss, yes, but also about survival, about curiosity and determination, and about how to thrive when the world seems suddenly to hold no certainty. I devoured this book in one sitting and closed its last pages enriched, moved, and inspired. You will be, too.” —Alex Marzano-Lesnevich, author of The Fact of a Body

"Downs has a fluid, conversational writing style, zooming in to particular anecdotes that illuminate her experience rather than trying to cover the entire year . . . The travel sections are...


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ISBN 9781640092921
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PAGES 304

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Featured Reviews

Downs is indeed brave, doing something I have only dreamed of doing. She quits her job, sells her things and embarks on a one woman trip around the world. The trip is bittersweet as Downs visits the place her Alzheimer stricken mother has only dreamed of; Egypt, India, Bolivia and more. The story of her travels is woven with her coming to terms with the loss of her mother, and I had to put the book aside a couple of times because losing a parent is something I am also struggling with. This beautiful travel memoir is a love letter to Downs’s remarkable mother and her indomitable spirit, something she has obviously passed on to her daughter

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I looked forward to reading this book. This is the author’s memoir of the trips she took, trips that she and her mother had dreamed of experiencing. Before I started the book I imagined, “Oh how splendid. I will get to be an arm-chair traveler. I hope we go to Paris, Florence, Sydney, maybe even Moscow or Budapest. Little did I know…”

Turns out that Ms. Down’s adventures were amazing. She went to places I would never have dream of going. She began in South America with a hike (not a bus ride) to Machu Picchu, and then on to Bolivia and Venezuela. Then, all on her own, she was off to Africa, South Africa, Rwanda and Uganda. Then she followed the Nile to Egypt and Jordan. India beckoned next, which led the author to Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam Nam, and Korea including the DMZ where she could see N.Korea. She stayed in hostels, and had incredible experiences with people whoever she went. She also volunteered and worked with elephants, monkeys, as well as tutoring young women. She even hiked to see the Mountain Apes in Rwanda. I’m not a brave traveler like she was, but I would love to see those families of apes.

Ms. Downs had a successful career in journalism. Why did she leave her job, and new husband to travel the world? Because of her mother. She and her mother were close, and when she was a young girl, they would both read the National Geographic from cover to cover each month and dream of all the wonderful places. Tragically, her mother suffered from early-onset Alzheimer’s for ten years. Ms. Down’s journey was in honor of her mother. She would see and experience what her mother could not.

The book is beautifully written and balanced. There is enough detail about each locale- the sights, sounds, colors, tastes…but not too much. There are flashbacks to her mother’s story- just the right amount. We learn and feel the author’s pain, worries, sorrows, joys, but are not overwhelmed. We are inspired, but not lectured to.

Ms. Down learns from her adventures. In a beautiful moment, she sees that perhaps her mother had lived a fulfilling life after all. That the journey was for herself and her future. A mesmerizing and emotional story that I highly recommend. Thanks to NetGalley and Counterpoint Books for an advance review copy. This is my honest review.

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