Grief is often perceived as a purely dark and lonely journey, and is a topic we prefer to avoid in today’s society. Within a 20-month period Elizabeth Berrien endured the loss of her stillborn son and the subsequent death of her husband on active duty in Afghanistan. She found herself a 27-year-old widow, whose life had been shattered. In this book, she shares her experiences, insights, wisdom, and even joy gathered on her journey from grief to hope. It is a journey at times painful, at times lonely, at times unexpectedly humorous.

This book is to offer comfort, support, and encouragement, while acknowledging that there is no “right” way to grieve. She tells us about the myriad of emotions one can experience while grieving, the social awkwardness of grieving in an ”instant gratification” society, the importance of self-nurturing, balancing grief and motherhood, the re-defining of community and relationships, and the discovery of new meaning, new passions, and a new pathway to fulfillment.

Her fresh authentic account of grieving in today’s society provides empowerment for anyone coping with grief and loss. The innovative Model of Heart-Centered Grief provides an intimate and useful example of how her journey unfolds. Along with personal stories, a community of women’s voices are included throughout, providing pieces of “Hip Chick Wisdom” that speak to the grieving woman’s soul. Elizabeth emphasizes that grieving is best supported within a compassionate community - friends, family, and counselors/coaches. “Creative Hip Chick Ideas" are provided, along with a comprehensive list of helpful resources, to assist the reader in integrating grief on all levels – body, mind, and soul. Through vulnerability, connection, and courage, we are given a story of how we can all find our own unique and creative way of moving through grief to a place of hope, and uncover the gifts along the way.