The Myth of the Spoiled Child

Challenging the Conventional Wisdom about Children and Parenting

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Pub Date Mar 25 2014 | Archive Date Mar 25 2014

Description

Somehow, deeply conservative assumptions about how children behave and how parents raise them have become the conventional wisdom in our society. It’s widely assumed that parents are both permissive and overprotective, unable to set limits and afraid to let their kids fail. We’re told that young people receive trophies, praise, and A’s too easily, and suffer from inflated self esteem and insufficient self-discipline. However, complaints about pushover parents and entitled kids are actually decades old and driven, it turns out, by ideology more than evidence.

With the same lively, contrarian style of Alfie Kohn’s bestselling books about rewards, competition, and traditional education, The Myth of the Spoiled Child systematically debunks the story that we hear with numbing regularity. Kohn uses humor, logic, and his familiarity with a vast range of social science data to challenge media-stoked fears of spoiling our children. He reveals that the major threat to healthy child development isn’t parents who are too indulgent but those who are too controlling.

Somehow, deeply conservative assumptions about how children behave and how parents raise them have become the conventional wisdom in our society. It’s widely assumed that parents are both...

Advance Praise

“Splendid….Kohn’s analysis is incisive, witty, and fun to read. In a manner that reminds me of Voltaire, Kohn brings clear and profound social criticism to a topic of great contemporary importance.” William Crain, author of Reclaiming Childhood

“A wise and passionate book -- by one of the best friends our children have today -- that is also a delight to read.” Jonathan Kozol, author of Fire in the Ashes

“A well-researched, important counter-truth to all the foolishness…A must read for parents who care.” Seth Godin, author of Stop Stealing Dreams

“Splendid….Kohn’s analysis is incisive, witty, and fun to read. In a manner that reminds me of Voltaire, Kohn brings clear and profound social criticism to a topic of great contemporary...


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