Far From The Tree
Parents, Children and the Search for Identity
by Andrew Solomon
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Pub Date Feb 07 2013 | Archive Date Aug 05 2014
Random House UK, Vintage Publishing | Vintage Digital
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**WINNER OF THE WELLCOME BOOK PRIZE 2014**
A NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER
Sometimes your child - the most familiar person of all - is radically different from you. The saying goes that the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. But what happens when it does?
Drawing on interviews with over three hundred families, covering subjects including deafness, dwarfs, Down's Syndrome, Autism, Schizophrenia, disability, prodigies, children born of rape, children convicted of crime and transgender people, Andrew Solomon documents ordinary people making courageous choices. Difference is potentially isolating, but Far from the Tree celebrates repeated triumphs of human love and compassion to show that the shared experience of difference is what unites us.
Winner of the National Book Critics Circle Award for General Non-fiction and eleven other national awards. Winner of the Green Carnation Prize.
A Note From the Publisher
UK edition - available for readers in the UK, Europe and Commonwealth (excluding Canada) only.
Advance Praise
The
tales Solomon returns with, of profound disability and extreme
differences overcome, make it a bible of empathy and inclusion - Spectator
Andrew Solomon’s Far From The Tree is a prodigious, illuminating book about the challenge of being a parent – especially when children are out of the ordinary - Observer
Life-affirming,
thought provoking and highly readable, the book was compiled over 10
years of interviews and I found it deeply moving - Observer
Many
accounts are desperately moving, but Solomon goes far beyond cheap
pity... The book is an exquisite written study of parental love – as
well as "a how-to manual for receptivity" - Herald
Far from the Tree
is a landmark, revolutionary book… Andrew Solomon plumbs his topic
thoroughly, humanely, and in a compulsively readable style that makes
the book as entertaining as it is illuminating.
One
of the most extraordinary books I have read in recent times – brave,
compassionate and astonishingly humane. Solomon approaches one of the
oldest questions – how much are we defined by nature versus nurture? –
and crafts from it a gripping narrative. Through his stories, told with
such masterful delicacy and lucidity, we learn how different we all are,
and how achingly similar. I could not put this book down.
A
passionate and affecting work that will shake up your preconceptions
and leave you in a better place. It’s a book everyone should read…
there’s no one who wouldn’t be a more imaginative and understanding
parent – or human being – for having done so… breathtaking reading. - New York Times
Andrew
Solomon reminds us that nothing is more powerful in a child’s
development than the love of a parent. This remarkable new book
introduces us to mothers and fathers – many in circumstances the rest of
us can hardly imagine – who are making their children feel special, no
matter what challenges come their way.
"Parenting," writes Andrew Solomon in Far from the Tree, "is no sport for perfectionists." It's an irony of the book, 10 years in the making and his first since The Noonday Demon,
that by militating against perfectionism, he only leaves the reader in
greater awe of the art of the achievable. The book starts out as a study
of parents raising "difficult" children, and ends up as an affirmation
of what it is to be human. - Guardian
The first thing you should know about Andrew Solomon’s new book, Far From the Tree,
is that it’s a monumental work. This is a masterpiece of non-fiction,
the culmination of a decade’s worth of research and writing, and it
should be required reading for psychologists, teachers, and above all,
parents. Far From the Tree is a stunning work of scholarship and compassion. - USA Today
Knotty,
gargantuan and lionhearted… Mr. Solomon’s first chapter, entitled
'Son', is as masterly a piece of writing as I’ve come across all year.
It combines his own story with a taut and elegant précis of this book’s
arguments. It is required reading. - New York Times
Far-reaching,
original, fascinating - Andrew Solomon's investigation of many of the
most intense challenges that parenthood can bring challenges us all to
reexamine how we understand human difference. Perhaps the greatest gift
of this monumental book, full of facts and full of feelings, is that it
constantly makes one think, and think again.
An
informative and moving book that raises profound issues regarding the
nature of love, the value of human life and the future of humanity. - Kirkus (starred review)
Solomon is a storyteller of great intimacy and ease… [He] creates something of enduring warmth and beauty: a quilt, a choir. - Boston Globe
Andrew
Solomon provides us with an unrivalled educational experience about
identity groups in our society, an experience that is filled with
insight, empathy and intelligence. Reading Far from the Tree is a mind-opening experience.
Solomon is in many ways the perfect writer for the subject – nuanced, thorough, humane, and a gifted stylist. - New Yorker
Far From the Tree
is a book of extraordinary ambition… From a writer known primarily as a
historian of sadness, this sweeping tribute to the joys of parental
love can be startling and ecstatic. - San Francisco Chronicle
A ground-breaking book - The Economist
Brought
to life by its intimate domestic voices, many of them people who ended
up falling in love with children they never knew they wanted - Economist
A life-changing book - Irish Examiner
Nobody could read this extraordinary, moving book and not feel enlightened, but above all enlarged, by it. - Spectator
I'd
suggest this be made compulsory reading for an couple considering
having a baby... This is a remarkable work: moving but never bathetic,
challenging in parts but always worth the effort. I'd call it
extraordinary - if only Solomon would let me. - Evening Standard
A book brimming with poignancy - Sunday Times
A fascinating examination of the accommodation of difference - Guardian
You don't so much read Far from the Tree as cohabit with it; its stories take up residence in your head and heart, messily unpack themselves and refuse to leave - Observer
A generous, humane and — in complex and unexpected ways — compassionate book about what it means to be a parent - Scotsman
The book is about people and their experiences and it is rich with their strategies, smiles and sadnesses - The TImes
Solomon
writes movingly of the resources of support and empathy that he found
among communities of the deaf, dwarfs, transgender children and people
with Down’s syndrome
A
catalogue of astonishing tenacity and unexpected joy that inevitably
expands both our sympathies and sense of wonder at the immense variety
of human experiences - Financial Times
This is a remarkable work: moving but never bathetic, challenging in parts, but always worth the effort - Evening Standard
Nobody could read this extraordinary, moving book and not feel enlightened, but above all enlarged by it - Spectator
Far
From the Tree is the most important book I’ve ever read. It is a
masterpiece of research; giving an impressive insight into human
relationships and our tolerance of those who are different. If everyone
read this book the world would be a better place - Farm Lane Books
A monumental and generous-hearted book, balanced between the universal and the particular, and gorgeously observed - Literary Review
Solomon’s
compassionate study of these dozen loves that are, and are not, like
each other, illuminates not so much the heroism of difficult kinds of
love as the adaptability of every kind - The Tablet
A triumphant celebration of the power of parental love - Intelligent Life
Forces]
the reader to meditate on a number of wrenching, often heart-breaking
aspects of existence. And to mediate as well on questions of stigma and
prejudice, callousness and cruelty, the widespread and extraordinary
intolerance of human diversity, and the horrors that those attitudes and
behaviours heap on the heads of those whose lives are already
extraordinarily difficult, and on the head of those who love and care
for them - Times Literary Supplement
Marketing Plan
Sometimes your child – the most familiar person of all – is radically different from you. The saying goes that the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. But what happens when it does?
A seminal new book on how parents relate to their children: it will change the way you think about families and identity.
Groundbreaking new research: 200 families interviewed, 10 years of research, from highly respected Solomon who lectures at Harvard, Yale, Stanford and is doing a PhD at Cambridge
Moving emotional testimonies: uplifting stories from families, alongside Andrew Solomon's own story: he started the book as a single gay man, and finishes it married with a husband and four children
The Noonday Demon was an international sensation. It was shortlisted for the Pulitzer Prize, won the National Book Award and was listed as one of the 100 best books of the decade by The Times.
Comparisons with parenting titles (The Battle Hymn of the Chinese Tiger Mother/Amy Chua) and big issue books (Outliers/Malcolm Gladwell, Status Anxiety/Alain de Botton).
Winner of the Green Carnation award, and longlisted for the Samuel Johnson Prize for Non-fiction.
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