“The go-to resource for anyone seeking a healthier, more vibrant relationship.” —Kara Hoppe, MFT, co-author of Baby Bomb: A Relationship Survival Guide for New Parents 

“Fire It Up is a beacon of hope for couples navigating the complexities of relationships. Grounded in the science of attachment, this book is a transformative roadmap for deepening intimacy and fostering lasting connection. With warmth and expertise, Carolyn Sharp offers invaluable insights and practical tools, empowering couples to ignite the flames of passion and understanding in their relationship. A must-read for anyone seeking to enrich their love life and cultivate thriving partnerships.” —Tony Rousmaniere, PsyD, president of the Psychotherapy Division of the American Psychological Association 

“Finally! An honest, relatable guide for couples written by an experienced clinician who provides you with clear and simple guidance on how to transform a struggling relationship into a vibrant, joyful partnership. Everything about Sharp’s methodology just makes sense! Required reading for anyone who wants to deepen their understanding of healthy relationships and foster lasting connection.” —Megan Gunnell, LMSW, founder of Thriving Well Institute and bestselling author of Thriving as a Therapist 

"All relationships, even the best of them, need care, tending, and work to thrive. Yet family histories, life demands, and lack of clear guidance often make it challenging for couples to bring out the best in themselves and their relationships. With humor, humility, and considerable clinical experience and wisdom, Carolyn Sharp has crafted an invaluable resource for any couple seeking to build the kind of positive patterns and behaviors that are needed to create and sustain a healthy relationship for the long-term. Packed with sage advice and skills (with practice exercises!), this gem of a book is the perfect how-to guide for building relationships filled with love, mutual support, and of course, fire!" —Travis Osborne, PhD, ABPP, Clinical Director of the Evidence Based Treatment Centers of Seattle

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