Whatever the Hell You Want

“Keri Ohlrich and Kelly Guenther have written the kickass motivational book you won't want to put down. Truly insightful (and hilarious), Whatever the Hell You Want is the guide that will get you just that. Grab this book and put their direct, relatable, and achievable strategies to use today!” —Cara Tuttle, author, Drowning in Timidity: Women, Politeness, and the Power of Assertive Living

"Rarely do you find a book that reads like a practical, human, hilarious guide to meaningful change. This book accomplishes that heady goal and more! I spent most of my time reading thinking that I was tucked into a corner pub with my mentors, and they were telling me all the stuff that I needed to hear, even if it was a tough truth, along with strategies to anticipate and survive the inevitable challenges. When I put the book down, I felt inspired and motivated, which is great; I also felt seen, which is remarkable." —Dr. Matthew Zakreski, licensed clinical psychologist, keynote speaker, adjunct professor

“Ready to break free from societal constraints? Whatever the Hell You Want is your guide to reclaiming autonomy in midlife. Kelly and Keri's empowering book offers a road map for shedding outdated roles and pursuing passions with unapologetic fervor. Filled with practical advice and empowering anecdotes, it's a rallying cry for people to live authentically and seize the reins of their destiny.” —Joli Hamilton, PhD, relationship coach, TEDx speaker, jealousy expert, research psychologist, professor, author, podcast host

“Whatever the Hell You Want by Keri Ohlrich and Kelly Guenther is an extraordinary book that serves as both inspiration and a practical guide for anyone feeling trapped by societal expectations or personal pressures. It beautifully validates the idea that stepping away from the paths laid out by parents, partners, and corporate mandates isn't just possible, but can lead to unparalleled joy and success. This isn't just a book; it's a journey into self-discovery, offering real-life insights and actionable steps to break free from the ‘little boxes’ that confine us. Whether it's redefining success, carving out a unique professional path, or simply living life on your own terms, Ohlrich and Guenther's combined expertise and personal anecdotes make for a compelling and relatable guide. I wholeheartedly recommend this book to anyone looking to reclaim their life. It's a reminder that the permission to do Whatever the Hell You Want comes from within, and that happiness and authenticity are within reach when we dare to chase them." —Amy Kavanaugh Mason, cofounder, Candified Inc.; former chief engagement officer, Taco Bell; chief marketing officer, Dine Brands International

“This book is a game-changer! I wish I had it when summoning the courage to leave my marriage and job simultaneously. It captures the essence of genuine change, blending desire with action. With a mix of humor, inspirational tales, and practical methods, it serves as the ultimate guide for embracing both ‘doing and being.’ This handbook is a treasure trove for anyone seeking lasting change to shape a truly fulfilling life. If you're ready to embark on a transformative journey, this book is your compass!” [[COMP: Leave the following line of attribution spacing exactly as written]] —Lyndal Larkin, executive coach, leadership advisor, founder and principal, Larkin Leadership

“The charm mixed with dangerous honesty here is really refreshing. In many ways, it feels like the tough love talk we’ve all been waiting for, acknowledging where we fall short and hoping and pushing us to do better. We read several chapters as a family and talked about it for days afterwards. Highly recommend.” —Sean Daniels, writer, director, advocate

“An honest and unfiltered journey that will inspire anyone to shed the weight of expectations and discover how it’s not only possible, but enviable, to live an authentic life. Keri and Kelly share deeply personal stories and provide simple tools to show how anyone can use humor and self-reflection to find your best self.” —Jennifer Turner, president and CEO, Tennessee Performing Arts Center

"This book resonates deeply with me, as I have experienced numerous twists and turns in my own life. It emphasizes the importance of living authentically as the ultimate solution. With its step-by-step guide and easy-to-understand concepts, it provides a road map to break free from the confines of societal expectations and embrace true self-expression." —Madeline Borkin, vice president of membership, executive sponsor of i4cp Chief Diversity Officer board

“For those looking for a supportive, uplifting, and motivational journey toward carving out your own unique path to happiness and doing it on your own terms, your search is over! Keri and Kelly through their personal knowledge of breaking through expectations, have created a powerful read that allows readers to define expectations from which they want to break free, while doing so in a way that is truly at their pace. Their commitment to empowering us to live our best lives radiates from each page—and celebrates each step along the way.” —Sharon Armstrong, best-selling coauthor of The Essential HR Handbook

“A refreshingly authentic approach to uncovering the root of expectations, challenging cognitive biases, and facilitating a journey toward a life grounded in values. Keri and Kelly's combined wisdom and candid perspectives on self-expectation pave the way for purposeful shifts toward a values-centered life. Whatever the Hell You Want is a manual for mastering the art of questioning norms and dissecting expectations, ultimately shattering the boundaries we confine ourselves within. Join Keri and Kelly on a delightful journey to uncover the expectations holding you back as they bring humor and insight to embracing a life rooted in values.” —Hilary S. Lyn, MS, MA, president, Association for Women in Communications, Santa Barbara; Fielding Graduate University Social Innovation Fellow; founder, Pivot and Rise Coaching and Consulting

“In this candid and empowering book, Keri and Kelly dismantle the little boxes that confine us and offer a blueprint for living a life that is truly our own. An unapologetic celebration of freedom, choice, and authenticity, Whatever the Hell You Want will inspire you to redefine success on your terms.” —Ashley Jordan, author, Unhappy Achiever

“Drawing on the lived experiences of authors individually, who share the evolution of their friendship and how they came to be strong businesswomen and podcasters, Whatever the Hell You Want invites us to challenge the inherited, limiting beliefs women may have subconsciously retained.” —Lizbeth Meredith, podcaster, award-winning author of Pieces of Me and Grounded in Grit: Turn Your Challenges into Superpowers

“Whatever the Hell You Want stands as a beacon of hope for those seeking to break free from the confining boxes that life often thrusts upon us. You will find not just a book, but a manifesto—a call to arms for individuals tired of conforming to others’ standards and yearning to embrace their true selves. Through a blend of wisdom, humor, and unapologetic honesty, this book serves as your guide to dismantling the barriers that hold you back and stepping boldly into the life you’ve always desired. It’s a reminder that you are not defined by the labels others impose upon you, nor are you confined to the roles society assigns. You have the power to chart your own course, pursue your passions, and chase your dreams—whatever the hell they may be. Remember this: you are worthy of a life filled with passion, purpose, and joy. You deserve to pursue whatever the hell you want. Go ahead, flip the page, and let the journey begin.” —Colonel (Ret.) Charlie Davis, CEO, Davis Strategic Consulting and Coaching