Aiden Arata’s latest book is a thought-provoking, incisive dive into the complex intersections of media, identity, and capitalism. Known for her sharp writing across platforms like The Rumpus and the popular Substack Under the Influence, Arata has a knack for blending wit, cultural commentary, and self-awareness in a way that both entertains and challenges the reader.

This book feels like an extension of their online presence: ironic but layered with moments of insight that strike a deeper chord. Arata examines the transactional nature of media and the ways in which capitalism shapes not just our consumption but our identities and aspirations. Their perspective is both personal and cultural, oscillating between love and hate for the systems they critique, which adds a compelling tension to the narrative.

While the tone can sometimes feel affected or overly polished, this doesn’t detract from the sharpness of Arata’s observations. There’s a robotic precision to Arata's prose that reflects the very systems she is dissecting, creating an interesting interplay between style and substance. It’s an enjoyable and engaging journey through the complexities of modern life and the media machine.

Arata’s voice is distinct, blending humor, skepticism, and a certain detached curiosity. The book’s glib tone may not appeal to everyone, but for those who enjoy a little cynicism with their cultural critique, it hits the mark. The self-awareness with which she navigated her own complicity in the media landscape—being a culture influencer with 120k Instagram followers—adds a refreshing honesty to the work.

Ultimately, this book isn’t about arriving at neat conclusions or offering solutions. It’s about asking the right questions and holding up a mirror to a world in which influence, consumption, and identity are inextricably linked. Arata may not have all the answers, but her ability to articulate the contradictions of our time makes this a worthwhile read.

If you’re a fan of their Substack or appreciate sharp cultural commentary with a dose of humor, this book is well worth picking up. It’s a fun, provocative ride through the paradoxes of modern life, written by someone who knows how to keep you thinking long after the final page.

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with meditations on girlhood, tech, social media, mental health, identity, and more, You Have A New Memory is a canon of information. this is a fascinating collection that gives readers a lot to reflect on about their own lives, whether its the reach of the latest tiktok you posted, your closest parasocial relationships, or what it really means to "influence". i enjoyed the writing even if all of the essays didn't strike a chord; undoubtedly an interesting collection that is worth the read.

Aiden Arata’s "You Have A New Memory" is a sharp, self-aware exploration of the internet’s entanglement with identity, influence, and mental health. Blending memoir, cultural critique, and a deep understanding of the digital landscape, Arata dissects the ways technology has shaped not just our media consumption but also our sense of self. The book reads like an extension of her online presence—ironic yet deeply introspective, humorous yet unsettlingly precise in its observations.

The essays cover a broad range of topics, from the early days of instant messaging to the weight of parasocial relationships, the commodification of personal trauma, and the shifting landscape of social media influence. Some of the strongest moments come when Arata turns a critical eye on herself, reflecting on her own role in the systems she critiques. This tension—between complicity and critique—makes for an engaging read.

Arata doesn’t provide easy answers, but she does ask the right questions—about influence, authenticity, and what it means to exist in a world where every moment has the potential to become content.

Really interesting almost stream-of-consciousness reflections that all make sense together somehow. The format being the point of the fragmented digital age.