Many of us begin dating or start new relationships feeling alive and full of hope, only to watch that initial spark fade as we get caught up in expectations and old patterns. As resentment builds, we put on our 'dating armor' and start 'working' on the relationship, hoping it will fix things. But effort alone can’t bring true connection if we’re out of touch with what’s going on inside us, independent of other people.

The heart of this book is a fresh approach to dating and relationships, starting with the relationship we have with ourselves. Lila introduces a new way of understanding our thoughts and feelings that brings clarity and simplicity to navigating our dating life, sharing her own journey and insights from her work with clients. With “A Little Book of Dating” included, readers will find not only practical insights but a dose of humor about what happens in our dating lives when our mind is unclear—the results are predictably ridiculous. This book is a guide to breaking old patterns, finding joy in connection, and seeing the lighter side of love.

"Becoming Relationship Ready is an engaging, readable, wise and inspiring story of getting over ourselves to find ourselves. Lila Turner unselfconsciously shares her own journey, and that of several of her clients, through what appeared to be the obstacle course of finding love, only to discover that the obstacles, as intimidating as they seemed, were imaginary." Judith A. Sedgeman, EdD Published author, podcast host and Mental Health Mentor