ONLINE DATING: the Good… the Bad… the Hopeless
by Francis James
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Pub Date Apr 08 2016 | Archive Date Jun 30 2016
Description
ONLINE DATING: the Good, the Bad, the Hopeless!
Is a unique journey of discovery into the private world of computer dating. The sheer insanity of everyday reality near impossible to duplicate in fiction, is detailed and shared in 24 exciting Episodes. Perfect strangers meet .... and the adventure begins. Bizarre, eccentric, tantalizing behavior so real, yet, so unreal.
Author Bio: Francis James. Business Leader, Public Speaker, Creative Design/Advertiser, TV. Series Developer and Host, Master of Sales, Writer Extraordinaire, was born in Chicago, IL, Served in Vietnam, Graduated from the Univ of IL with a degree in Behavioral Science and went on to Law School..
Writing has been his life, but understanding human behavior has been his passion. "ONLINE DATING . . . ." Is his first journey into book writing concerning behavior in a casual setting. His non-technical explanation of dating lessons to be learned, you'll find on-point, entertaining and logical. Enjoy!
A Note From the Publisher
Keywords: Online, Dating, Revealing, Exciting, Surprising, Shocking, Romantic, Mysterious, Funny, Instructive
Advance Praise
What a surprise! After reading the back cover to this book, I could only surmise the contents must be a tirade against women. I must admit I really wanted to read the book to find out what this author found-out that was so terrible.
My assumptions fell far short. This was not a tirade, but rather an enhancement of all things wonderful in women (except for one episode). More than that, each of the 24 Episodes (i.e. dates) analyzes the pro's and con's of each participants behavior to determine what, if anything, resulted in a positive or negative conclusion.
It's an honest review on what to do or not do on a first date with a perfect stranger. The obvious "Hopeless" one is the author himself. Maybe his next back cover should be blank!
I guess the old adage of "Don't judge a book by it's cover" certainly applies here!
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I give this book five stars. As an "older" woman who has dated on line, I found this book very entertaining. I would like to be able to follow this journey and see how both the author continues to move forward as well as many of his dates! Online dating is well written and the author clearly enjoys women in all their complexities, including crazy! If you have been interested in venturing into the online dating scene this is a must read!
Marketing Plan
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Available Editions
EDITION | Ebook |
ISBN | 9781622875580 |
PRICE | $4.99 (USD) |
Average rating from 12 members
Featured Reviews
Humorous, thoughtful and inspiring. The online dating world through a man's eyes. And some hilarious adventures.
This book wasn't what I expected it to be, but some of the episodes were pretty humorous.
I thought this was written by a woman and I just couldn't get in to it when I found out otherwise. This is no one's fault but my own. It just isn't for me.
A very short read, but quite funny.
I enjoyed reading this. The dates the author goes on are hilarious, and the women he meets seem quite extreme. Unfortunately, these kinds of dates do happen all too often when you online date.
Well, at least it’s short. . .
There was very little good here, but definitely plenty of bad and hopeless. Out of the first twenty chapters, there was at most three dates that might qualify as good, so technically the title didn’t lie. But those bad ones weren’t bad enough to be funny, mostly cringeworthy. Even worse was the writing; the casual style feels forced, the attempts at humor fall flat. Writing “just kidding!” right after the attempted joke belongs in a text or tweet, not a book. And I try not to harp on grammar, knowing a lot of what I’m reading is not the final copy, but there’s simply too many misused commas, typos, unclosed quotations, etc. Schakowsky’s 1812 Overture—seriously?
More than anything, I found this author thoroughly unlikable. He stereotypes women—the Ph.D., the Indian princess—then tries to sound so lofty for overcoming his perceptions. Maybe next time don’t make judgements beforehand.
Here’s a perfect example: “This meeting / date did not proceed as expected. Usually the dominant party (almost always the male… at least on my dates) sets the stage for the beginning, the middle, and the end of this initial encounter. The female by nature is considered the gentle gender and politely cooperates with the self-appointed take-charge male. Exceptions to this routine are rare, but when they do occur . . . they can be devastating to the supposedly dominant gender. Totally unexpected, the male finds himself in a subordinate position and cannot function in his usual dominant manner.”
Maybe it’s just because he’s of an older generation, but he’s not that much older than me.
I’m surprised I made it to the end; usually when a book is this bad I give up on it. That’s why I rarely give bad reviews.
1.5 dropped to 1/5