Just As You Are
A Teen’s Guide to SelfAcceptance and Lasting SelfEsteem
by Michelle Skeen; Kelly Skeen
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Pub Date Aug 30 2018 | Archive Date Jun 27 2018
New Harbinger Publications, Inc. | New Harbinger
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Description
Stop comparing yourself to others-you're special just as you are! In this fun, practical guide, you'll learn how to silence your nit-picky inner critic, cultivate self-compassion, and discover what really matters to you.
If you're like many teens, you probably feel pressured to live up to the impossible standards set by our culture, the media, and even by your peers. After all, everyone wants perfect hair, a perfect body, cool friends, and good grades. But while it's okay to strive to be your best, it's also easy to get caught up in a never-ending comparison game that can feed your inner critic and rob you of your happiness. So, how can you break free from negative self-criticism and learn to appreciate your strengths?
In Just As You Are, psychologist Michelle Skeen and her daughter, Kelly Skeen, offer simple tips to help you overcome feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness, stop comparing yourself to others, and be more open and accepting of all aspects of who you are. You'll also learn how to be more aware of your thoughts and feelings in the moment using powerful mindfulness tools, and build a plan of action for the future based on your values.
Sometimes it's hard to see yourself with clarity and kindness. With this important guide, you'll learn to move past your faults, celebrate your true strengths, and discover what really matters in your life. What are you waiting for?
Advance Praise
“This
book provides effective tools for combatting feelings of inadequacy,
unworthiness, and low self-esteem that are so common among teens. Readers will
learn strategies for self-acceptance, changing negative thinking patterns, and
communicating effectively. The book is clear, easy to read, and filled with
practical exercises. Highly recommended!”
—Martin M. Antony, PhD, ABPP, professor of
psychology at Ryerson University in Toronto, ON, Canada, and coauthor of The
Shyness and Social Anxiety Workbook and The Anti-Anxiety
Workbook
“Just As You Are
helps young people examine their negative self-stories from a place of
compassion and value. The personal stories and exercises will resonate with a
broad range of readers. Such a helpful book.”
—Ben
Sedley, PhD, clinical psychologist and author of Stuff That Sucks
“We all struggle with parts of ourselves and feel at
some level not okay. But this common need to appear like you have it all
together, is not only exhausting and disconfirming, it’s lonely as well. As you
read others’ stories of this same struggle, work through exercises, and
challenge your inner critic, you learn to accept yourself Just As You Are
with the same care and warmth that you would your best friend.”
—Janetti
Marotta, PhD, author of 50 Mindful Steps to
Self-Esteem
“So many young people struggle with feeling ‘not good enough,’ or
believing that something is fundamentally wrong with them. Just As You Are is a step-by-step guide to undo those negative core
beliefs. Michelle and Kelly Skeen offer tools for understanding yourself,
identifying strengths, and changing unhealthy habits. They teach mindfulness
and self-compassion in down-to-earth language that will appeal to everyone,
even those who are skeptical of self-help books.”
—Ann
Marie Dobosz, MA, MFT, author of The Perfectionism Workbook for Teens
“Michelle Skeen has written yet another elegant, reassuring, and, most importantly, useful book. As with her other books, her hand reaches out from the pages with a powerful yet gentle message of guidance and encouragement. At a time when young people are feeling estranged, isolated, and not heard, Michelle offers her unique and reassuring voice; a lifeline from that dark place of self-aversion and unrelenting self-criticism to which many young people wake up each morning.
In addition to Michelle’s wise counsel, is the voice
from her daughter Kelly. Too often young folks feel talked to and left not
knowing where to begin in their journey of healing. Kelly, from her youthful
wisdom, beautifully offers a ‘Hey! Here’s how this all works! See, it’s not so
hard!’ What powerful encouragement!”
—Thomas
Roberts, LCSW, psychotherapist, clinical hypnotherapist,
mindfulness and meditation teacher and retreat leader, and author of The Mindfulness Workbook
“Michelle and Kelly Skeen
have written a powerful tool to help teens navigate the tricky world of
self-acceptance. Their words are thought-provoking, genuine, and kind. Teens
will relate to the heartfelt stories and learn to embrace and appreciate their
authentic self.”
—Julia
V. Taylor, PhD, counselor educator at the University of
Virginia in Charlottesville, VA; author of The
Body Image Workbook for Teens; and coauthor of The Bullying Workbook for Teens
“Just
As You Are speaks in a caring and thoughtful voice to the many
teens who feel uncomfortable in their own skins. Filled with carefully crafted
exercises that rest on a foundation of self-acceptance and self-compassion,
teens will experience the power that comes with truly being themselves.”
—Michael A. Tompkins, PhD, ABPP, coauthor of The Relaxation and Stress
Reduction Workbook for Teens, and codirector of the San Francisco
Bay Area Center for Cognitive Therapy
“A beautiful guide to self-acceptance in the face of
the relentless inner critic. The feeling that one isn’t good enough, that one
is unworthy, is a huge source of pain and paralysis. This book is a game changer,
a healing breath of kindness and self-compassion.”
—Matthew
McKay, PhD, coauthor of Self-Esteem
Available Editions
EDITION | Other Format |
ISBN | 9781626255906 |
PRICE | £12.99 (GBP) |
PAGES | 200 |