Mastering Adulthood
Go Beyond Adulting to Become an Emotional Grown-Up
by Lara E Fielding
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Pub Date Mar 28 2019 | Archive Date Jan 16 2019
New Harbinger Publications, Inc. | New Harbinger
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Description
Whoever said being a grownup was easy? If you're up to the challenge, Mastering Adulthood offers smart and entertaining strategies for dealing with difficult emotions like anxiety, sadness, and anger, or even just a lack of motivation and uncertainty. More than just "adulting"-this book will give you the real emotional skills you need to thrive!
Whether you're graduating from college, starting a career, trying to gain financial independence, or creating meaningful relationships-entering into the world of grownups can be more than a little overwhelming. And while there are plenty of fun books out there for young adults offering advice on how to fix a leaky faucet or find the right apartment, none really delve into the deeply emotional aspects of growing up.
In Mastering Adulthood, psychologist Lara Fielding offers evidence-based skills to help you cope with the feelings of anxiety, depression, anger, and stress that may be getting in the way of living an independent, fulfilling adult life. Drawing on case examples from young adults she's worked with in her private practice, Fielding provides empowering strategies and skills for managing difficult emotions using mindfulness, dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT).
When you experience big life changes that cause you stress, you need emotional flexibility to reach your goals and be your best self. Using the skills in this book, you'll learn to take charge of your emotional habits, stop feeling stuck, and discover what really matters to you.
Advance Praise
“Mastering Adulthood does a masterful job of bringing timeless
wisdom and practical solutions to young adults. Current social and economic conditions
can seem challenging to young people who seek to live lives of meaning, purpose,
and joy. Fielding provides evidence-based methods, humor, and practical
enlightenment for those facing these hurdles. In fact, this user-friendly
guidebook for living with mindful purpose could help just about anybody, at any
stage of life.”
—Dennis Tirch, PhD,
author of The Compassionate-Mind Guide to Overcoming Anxiety, and
founder of The Center for Compassion Focused Therapy
“Finally, a ‘how-to’ book for transition age
adults. So often manuals with behavioral skills are either too young or too old
for eighteen- to twenty-five-year-olds. Fielding uses examples, stories, and
practices that will resonate with people who are entering adulthood. Mastering
Adulthood combines mindfulness and current emotion regulation strategies in
a practical, easy-to-use format. This book can be used by young adults alone,
with others, or in a counseling setting. I have begun to use the dashboard
practices and the pauses with my own clients.”
—Shari Manning, PhD, CEO
and founder of Treatment Implementation Collaborative and SC Center for
Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and author of Loving Someone with Borderline
Personality Disorder
“Adulthood is
becoming more complicated. All of us need help, and Lara E. Fielding has
written a wonderful guide. Mastering Adulthood will teach readers how
patterned habits keep us stuck, how to then develop new and more effective
behaviors, and the practice of mindfulness as key to establishing a more
grounded and emotionally attuned life.”
—Blaise
Aguirre, MD, medical director of
3East DBT-Continuum at McLean Hospital, assistant professor in the department
of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, and coauthor of Mindfulness for
Borderline Personality Disorder and Coping with BPD
“I could not love
this book more! Fielding beautifully weaves case examples, personal experience,
research, and brilliant use of metaphor, into a fun, easy-to-digest book
designed to help young adults tackle the psychological complexities of growing
into emotionally competent, independent adults. While the language and examples
are geared toward a twentysomething to thirtysomething audience, any individual
interested in greater self-knowledge and psychological growth can benefit from
the evidence-based concepts in Mastering Adulthood—I know I did!”
—Jill A. Stoddard, PhD, director of The Center for Stress and
Anxiety Management in San Diego, CA, and coauthor of The Big Book of ACT
Metaphors
“Lara
Fielding’s enthusiasm for helping those who wish to have an engaging and
meaningful adult life shines through in Mastering Adulthood. Her ability
to guide you through learning how to develop and practice psychological
flexibility, as well as emotion management, is skillful. She has created a book
grounded in solid evidence of psychological theory and practice that will help
those grappling with how to participate in “adulting” find new ways to cope
with the realities of adulthood in a fast-paced world. For those thousands of
people seeking guidance on how to successfully navigate this thing called
living, Fielding expertly teaches you how to get in the driver’s seat and steer
toward success!”
—Robyn D. Walser, PhD, licensed clinical
psychologist; coauthor of Learning ACT, The Mindful Couple,
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy for the Treatment of Post-Traumatic Stress
Disorder and Trauma-Related Problems; and author of The Heart of
ACT
“There
is more to adulthood than handling its instrumental challenges: If you stop
there, you will never learn how to create the kind of life you really want.
This comprehensive and cleverly organized book invites you to look more deeply
at your habits of handling emotions, to find what really motivates you, and then
to construct the skills you need build your life around deeper goals:
relationships that matter; work that prospers; a profound connection with life.
Adulthood doesn’t come with an owner’s manual—you need to explore what makes
you tick and draft your own. This book will help. Highly recommended.”
—Steven C. Hayes, PhD, professor in the department of psychology at the
University of Nevada, developer of acceptance and commitment therapy, and
author of Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life
“This is the book I needed to grow up. Here is help
to know what truly matters, what you truly care about. And with clarity about
core values comes motivation and a surer sense of direction. Of equal
importance is how Mastering Adulthood helps you overcome the emotional
and mental roadblocks—those nasty passengers everyone carries—that sometimes
keep you from fully embracing life. This masterful book, based on the
principles of acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), can throw open the doors
to becoming a vital, self-directed grown-up.”
—Matthew
McKay, PhD, coauthor of Mind
and Emotions
Available Editions
EDITION | Other Format |
ISBN | 9781684031931 |
PRICE | £12.99 (GBP) |
PAGES | 216 |