When Dogs Heal

This is a very sweet book on the vital relationship between dogs and humans. The way these stories unfold and the variety of them is a nice illustration of just how robust, important, and ultimately unique the experience of becoming family with a dog can be. The portraits were incredibly sweet too.

FTC disclosure: I received this book from the publisher through Netgalley in exchange for an honest review

ARC was provided by NetGalley and Zest Books in exchange for an honest review.

This review is being published before the release date (March 2, 2021)

Content/Trigger Warnings: Mental health, homophobia, toxic relationships, addiction (drug abuse & alcoholism), depression, grief, mentions of suicidal ideation, trauam/PTSD, mentions of terminal illness (cancer), death, loss of a loved one, microaggressions, mentions of rape, mentions of assault, mentions of a forced outing



“What I’ve learned throughout my life is that while I struggle to feel loved and supported by the people around me, I can always rely on my dogs, no matter what.”

With my whole chest, I love this book so damn much! I’m a firm believer that there are some books that everyone needs to read at least once in their life. This is one of those books. All too often society doesn’t talk about mental health or certain illnesses because of the stigma around them. And all too often, that stigma can cause a one-sided perspective of them and the person who has to face these challenges every day. HIV and those who have HIV are no exception to these type of circumstances, but this book is so fantastic because it offers so many different perspectives, from a plethora of people who share their own stories. I can’t express the importance this book holds and how much I wish I could put this book in everyone’s hands.

This book is a collection of stories with a photo of a person(s) and their dog(s), and their story. Each story is centered around their story with HIV and how their canine companions help them heal, and improving their life despite the challenges happening to them. Throughout the book you’ll meet a plethora of diverse people who are trans, do drag, queer, BIPOC, and so much more. You’ll learn about their background and the most common theme is the rejection of one’s family and loved ones, addiction, and facing the struggles of mental health from all the stigma surrounding HIV.

This is probably the most emotional book I’ve read in a very long time. You know I love my books that make me cry and steal my soul away, and this book succeeds at that. This book is so heart breakingly beautiful and it shines a light on the importance of fighting back against the stigmatism surrounding HIV. As someone who faces stigmatism around certain mental health challenges, this book hit so close to home on how hard it is to keep going despite the stigma, despite feeling like you don’t have the support you need, and this book melted me into a puddle. And while I don’t have HIV, one of my good friends passed away from having HIV and seeing the hardships they faced, reading this book just hit so close to home in so many ways. I think that’s why I loved it so much because I love books that touch that part of my soul.

“I am not a bad person – you don’t get HIV because you’re a bad person. You can be a good person, an educated person, and get HIV. We have to get past the stigma – that is the reason people don’t get tested and are not honest about their status.”

I think the thing I love most about this whole book is the hopefulness and the reflection on the benefits, emotional and physical, that pets have on people. I loved that despite the hardships all these people face, there’s always a feeling of hopefulness, of love, and seeing the silver-lining. And I think with everything combined, the good and the bad, readers will be able to connect with the people within this book.

Overall, I don’t want to say too much about this book because I want to encourage you to go pick this book up and read it. I believe with my whole heart that everyone needs to read this book at least once in their life because this book is too important not to. Even though I read and finished this in 2020, this is book has made it onto my top books of 2021 because it truly is a master piece and I just love it so, so much!

“I know that without him I wouldn’t be alive, and without me he wouldn’t either. We saved each other.”


The quotes above were taken from an ARC and are subject to change upon publication.

As full disclosure, my boyfriend created the website for the When Dogs Heal project and I've been eagerly waiting for the book's release for years now. When I saw it available on NetGalley, I snapped it up fast. That said, this is an honest review based on my experience as a reader.

This book is an utter treasure that had me tearing up multiple times over the evening it took me to read it.The stories were heartfelt and every single one of them was well-written.

The book follows a simple format: a beautiful photograph of a person and their dog(s), followed by their story. Each story runs between one and three pages and focuses on the featured person's experiences with being HIV+ and how owning a dog improved their quality of life.

The book creators did a fantastic job highlighting a wide variety of experiences and people from various backgrounds. BIPOC, cis, trans, queer, and straight HIV+ dog owners are all featured. One of the heartbreakingly frequent themes among the queer stories is rejection by one's family and addiction, shining a light on the very real challenges queer people face as a whole and how those challenges intensify due to the persistent stigma of an HIV diagnosis.

But ultimately, these stories are hopeful and reflect the emotional and physical benefits of pet ownership. This book would make a wonderful addition to any person's shelf.