MOMMY MAN
How I Went from Mild-Mannered Geek to Gay Superdad
by Jerry Mahoney
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Pub Date May 19 2014 | Archive Date May 05 2014
Rowman & Littlefield | Taylor Trade
Description
As
a teenager growing up in the 1980s, all Jerry Mahoney wanted was a
nice, normal sham marriage. 2.5 kids and a frustrated, dissatisfied wife
living in denial of her husband's sexuality. Hey, why not? It seemed
much more attainable and fulfilling than the alternative—coming out of
the closet and making peace with the fact that he'd never have a family
at all.
Twenty years later, Jerry is
living with his long-term boyfriend, Drew, and they're ready to take the
plunge into parenthood. But how? Adoption? Foster parenting?
Kidnapping? What they want most of all is a great story to tell their
future kid about where he or she came from.
Their
search leads them to gestational surrogacy, a road less traveled where
they'll be borrowing a stranger's ladyparts for nine months. Thus begins
Jerry and Drew's hilarious and unexpected journey to daddyhood. They
meet a surrogate who's perfect in every way... until she rejects them.
They squabble over potential egg donors, discovering that they have very
different notions of what makes the ideal woman. Then, Drew's sister
Susie makes a stunning offer that turns their entire journey on its
head. If they're interested, she'll donate her eggs.
For
the first time, Jerry and Drew imagine what it would be like to have a
baby who's a little bit of both of them. From then on, they're in
uncharted waters. They're forced to face down homophobic baby store
clerks, a hospital that doesn't know what to do with them, even members
of their own family who think what they're doing is a little nutty.
Along the way, Susie receives some devastating news that threatens to
crush all their dreams of parenthood. One thing's for sure. If this all
works out, they're going to have an incredible birth story to tell their
kid.
With honesty, emotion, and laugh-out-loud humor, Jerry Mahoney ponders what it means to become a Mommy Man . . . and discovers that the answer is as varied and beautiful as the concept of family itself.
Jerry Mahoney is an award-winning comedy writer whose work has appeared in the New York Times, Westchester Magazine, and on the Lifetime Moms
website. He's the author of the popular parenting blog, Mommy Man:
Adventures of a Gay Superdad, which was named one of the Top 10 Humor
Blogs by Babble.com. He lives in New Rochelle, New York with his
husband, Drew and . . . well, the rest is a long story.
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Advance Praise
It'd
be impressive enough if Jerry Mahoney had just written a smart, sweet,
touching book about building a family, but somehow, he's also written
one that's hilariously funny at the same time. Mommy Man belongs
on the same shelf with Dan Savage and David Sedaris, unless you're one
of those weirdos who sort your books alphabetically.
— Tim Carvell, head writer, The Daily Show with Jon Stewart
This
book reads like a comedic coming of age tale, a harrowing adventure
saga, and a romantic love story all at once, but the heart and humor
lies in the fact that it's a beautifully and brightly crafted memoir.
After reading Mommy Man, I want Mahoney to be my dad, my best friend, and my husband all at once!
— Sascha Rothchild, author of How to Get Divorced by 30
Jerry first stole my heart with his New York Times “Modern
Love” essay on finding an egg donor to make him a daddy, so I was
thrilled to have a chance to read the whole story. This memoir is
astounding, hilarious, heartfelt, and everything I was hoping it would
be. I finished it in three sittings (and I have three kids)!
— Stefanie Wilder-Taylor, author of Sippy Cups Are Not for Chardonnay, and host of Parental Discretion on NickMom
Hilarious, self-deprecating, and honest. Jerry Mahoney makes it easy to laugh and root for him at the same time.
— Karen Alpert, New York Times bestselling author of I Heart My Little A-Holes
Mommy Man is
more than just a story about two remarkable men attempting to start a
family. It’s also a true-life testament to the power of kindness; of
doing the right thing in a world that frequently asks you to be
indifferent. When these remarkable family members—some bonded by blood,
others not—come together and selflessly make choices to help those they
love, the result is a moving and ultimately hopeful account. Also, it
features the worst April Fool’s joke ever conceived in recorded human
history.
— Drew Z. Greenberg, writer/producer whose work includes Buffy the Vampire Slayer. He is not the Drew in this book.
When I reported on Jerry's story for the Today Show, I told him I couldn't wait for the book. Finally, it's here. Mommy Man
should be required reading for every parent in America—and in turn,
passed on to their kids. Mahoney paints a touching and hilarious
portrait of family, selflessness, and the labor of love.
His very modern family is totally unique, yet in many ways, it's every
family. This book should be in every home. Next stop, Hollywood.
— Robin Sindler, producer, NBC Today
You
must read this book. Jerry Mahoney's gift is not just the surprising,
moving and hilarious story he tells, but the voice in which he tells it.
Compassionate but biting, funny, warm, and most of all, honest, Mahoney
makes you wish he would sit down and tell you stories about every one
of his life experiences. Luckily, in this book, he has shared many. As
Mahoney takes you on his journey of growing up gay in the eighties,
coming out in the nineties, and having a child in the new millennium,
you realize—it is so rare to read a voice that is both able to disarm
and surprise in a single sentence. His tale captures the bravery and
terror of being on the frontier of social conventions, medical advances,
and family relations . . . if that story was told by the love child of
Woody Allen and David Sedaris, as raised by John Hughes. Regardless of
your sexual orientation or the number of children you have (or don't),
it is impossible not to get drawn in to this unpredictable, joyful, and
hilarious ride to parenthood. The rites of passage seen through
Mahoney's lens are so fulfilling, you feel like you're eating your
veggies and downing a box of Milk Duds at the same time (but not in a
gross way). This is a story you will want to share with everyone you
know—they will thank you for making them laugh out loud, and won't even
realize, until the end, that they've just read a story about the true
meaning of family.
— Victoria Strouse, screenwriter and television writer whose work includes October Road
Who says the romantic comedy is dead? Here comes Mommy Man.
Jerry Mahoney’s search for love and family is hilarious, smart, and in
the end—profound. This odyssey to create what most people take for
granted—family—is humbling, laugh-out-loud funny, and tear-jerking good.
I loved this book.
— Susan E. Isaacs, author of Angry Conversations with God
It’s
rare these days that I find the time to read a book, never mind get
lost in it, but that's exactly what I did with the hilarious and
poignant Mommy Man.
Before I knew it, two hours had passed and I'd completely fallen in
love with Jerry and Drew. I can't remember the last time I enjoyed a
book so much!
— Jill
Smokler, New York Times bestselling author of Confessions of a Scary
Mommy and Motherhood Comes Naturally (and Other Vicious Lies)
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ISBN | 9781589799226 |
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Mommy Man is the story of Jerry and his partner Drew and how they got together and decided they wanted to have kids. They chose surrogacy and I enjoyed the discussion of the fertility issues because I have several friends who have done IUIs and IVF as well as some LGBT friends who have adopted or used sperm donors. The story pretty much ends with the birth, so it’s not about parenting as much as it is about becoming parents. I really did laugh and cry while I was reading it. I read this on Mother’s Day and it was a perfect reminder of the miracle of life.