Medical Gaslighting
How to Get the Care You Deserve in a System that Makes You Fight for Your Life
by Ilana Jacqueline
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Pub Date Oct 01 2024 | Archive Date Dec 01 2024
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Description
“This will be a salve for women tired of unjustly skeptical doctors.”
—Publishers Weekly
Our healthcare system is broken. But it doesn’t have to break you.
This practical, realistic guide is designed to help women fight medical bias and neglect in order to get the care they need—and deserve.
For women, the possibility of experiencing medical gaslighting—having a health care provider dismiss or ignore their concerns without considering appropriate testing or creating a treatment plan—has always been a very real and present danger, with consequences ranging from self-doubt and emotional stress to delayed diagnosis and death. And being a woman of color, transgender, or disabled only compounds the risk.
Today, more women are aware of medical gaslighting than ever—but awareness isn’t enough. In Medical Gaslighting, you’ll equip yourself with the tools you need to be fully heard at every step of the process, including:
- Mastering the ability to request, revise, and read your electronic medical records so you and your medical team are on the same page.
- Responding effectively when you recognize the signs, language, and scenarios associated with medical gaslighting
- Give yourself a fighting chance against common medical bias by being mindful of how you present yourself as a patient.
With expert advice and stories from women across the medical spectrum who fought medical gaslighting and lived to tell their stories, patient advocate (and rare disease patient), Ilana Jacqueline provides a combat guide for increasing your confidence—and success—when advocating for your health.
You might have to get naked in the exam room, but you don’t have to walk in unarmed. Medical Gaslighting is your guide to taking control of your healthcare.
Advance Praise
“Raw, real, badass as hell . . . This empowering guide gives women the keys to unlock their own health advocacy, liberating them from the shadows of doubt and reclaiming their power in the face of systemic disbelief.”
—Kelsey Darragh, author of Don't F*cking Panic and cohost of the Confidently Insecure podcast
“Ilana Jacqueline has written one of the most important books of our time. Medical gaslighting continues to be deeply harmful and can shock people to their core. This book ensures that no one has to be caught off guard at a doctor’s appointment ever again, and I do believe it will become a staple for anyone navigating their health, which is most human beings on this earth.”
—Nitika Chopra, founder and CEO of Chronicon
“This book has the power and information to save your life.”
—Anushay Hossain, author of The Pain Gap
“Ilana has written a survival guide for women, a guidebook for difficult conversations, and a way to reclaim their power in vulnerable situations.”
—Ann Shoket, CEO of TheLi.st and author of The Big Life
Available Editions
EDITION | Other Format |
ISBN | 9781637745397 |
PRICE | $21.95 (USD) |
PAGES | 272 |
Available on NetGalley
Featured Reviews
This was a super informative book and it was actually pretty moving. I thought it was so insightful and there was a lot of interesting things I learned from this book about the medical field. Due to the nature of this book it was a bit slow at times, but I think it was worth the read
Thank you to Netgalley, the author, and publisher for this ARC!!
This is a very informative book. If you have experienced explicit or implicit medical bias and the shaming that goes along with it, you will have several aha moments while reading this book! Many women will relate to the topic. Even if you haven't experienced it, chances are great that you one day will. I recommend women pick up a copy of this book. It is empowering.
Thanks to the publisher and Netgalley for this eARC.
Ilana Jacqueline’s Medical Gaslighting is a powerful and essential read for anyone who has ever felt dismissed or ignored by the healthcare system. This book is not just a guide; it’s a lifeline for those navigating the often frustrating and disheartening world of medical care.
Jacqueline tackles the pervasive issue of medical gaslighting, where healthcare providers dismiss or undermine patients’ concerns, often leading to misdiagnosis or inadequate treatment. Drawing from her own experiences and those of others, she provides a comprehensive toolkit for recognizing and combating this harmful practice.
This book is meticulously organized, starting with an exploration of what medical gaslighting is and why it happens. Jacqueline then delves into practical strategies for patients to advocate for themselves effectively. Each chapter is filled with actionable advice, from how to prepare for medical appointments to understanding and managing medical records.
Jacqueline includes numerous personal stories that highlight the real-world impact of medical gaslighting. These narratives are heart-wrenching yet inspiring, showcasing the resilience of patients who have fought for their right to be heard.
This book is rich with practical advice, such as how to document symptoms accurately, ask the right questions, and handle dismissive behavior from healthcare providers. Jacqueline’s tips are designed to empower patients to take control of their healthcare journey.
Jacqueline’s background as a patient advocate shines through, offering readers expert insights into navigating the healthcare system. Her advice is grounded in both personal experience and professional knowledge, making it relatable and authoritative.
Jacqueline’s writing is clear, compassionate, and engaging. She strikes a perfect balance between being informative and empathetic, making complex medical and legal information accessible to a broad audience. Her tone is supportive, encouraging readers to stand up for themselves without feeling overwhelmed.
Medical Gaslighting is about empowerment and resilience. Jacqueline addresses the systemic issues within the healthcare system while offering hope and practical solutions. The book underscores the importance of self-advocacy and the need for systemic change to ensure equitable healthcare for all.
Medical Gaslighting is a must-read for anyone who has ever felt marginalized or ignored by the healthcare system.
Ilana Jacqueline’s blend of personal experience, expert advice, and practical tools makes this book an invaluable resource. It is a call to action for patients to take control of their healthcare and demand the respect and care they deserve.
Whether you’re a patient, a caregiver, or a healthcare professional, this book offers valuable insights and strategies to improve patient care and advocate for systemic change. Jacqueline’s work is a beacon of hope in a system that often feels indifferent, reminding us all that our voices matter and deserve to be heard.
This book is one of the best books I’ve read about women’s experiences in healthcare. I feel so seen. Thank you to the Author for letting us all know we aren’t alone. I would recommend this book to any woman advocating for herself and her treatment in the broken system.
As a chronic pain patient, I read many books on the American health care system and patient advocacy. This is one of the best medical books I’ve read in years! From practical information such as how to prepare for a medical appointment and how to interpret your electronic medical records, to best practices on how to find the right doctor for you and how to know if you are receiving proper care, Ilana Jacqueline is well-matched to help. She suffers from chronic pain (a rare disease), and she works professionally as a patient advocate.
All chronically ill women should read this book! In fact, it should really be read by everyone, regardless of health status! And it should definitely be a required read for doctors and medical students! It helps you identify medical gaslighting with clear examples and different methods to advocate for yourself. Some of the stories are dreadfully shocking, but they do a wonderful job of conveying how serious the consequences of medical gaslighting can be. I loved that the author kept mentioning the historical context of different types of gaslighting, like the “hysterical women” excuse, along with different types of medical biases. It had useful tips like what to ask when you switch to a new doctor and how to deal with incorrect medical records. It really had everything you need to know to deal with medical gaslighting! This book offered me a safe space to process some of my own medical trauma and to grieve my past self. I am incredibly grateful for the opportunity to read this, and I could not recommend it more!
Thank you to NetGalley for providing me with the eARC, but it did not affect my review in any way!
If you are a woman living with chronic illness, this is a book you should check out. And for everyone else, I would still recommend reading this, as it may be quite eye-opening, as the biases are likely ones that many people have experienced.
For women living with chronic health issues, this book could be a lifeline for helping navigate the complex medical system that wants to push them and their issues/concerns aside. A system that makes them feel invisible. One that doesn't believe that women know their own bodies and what is normal. The author combines her personal experience, along with that of others. These stories will likely be relatable to many readers. She provides some common causes for gaslighting, as well as suggestions to combat it. This book will be most useful for readers in the US, but there are still tips here that could be helpful to patients around the world. The author emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy, and she encourages the reader on just how to do that. Anyone who deals with the healthcare system, particularly those with chronic illnesses, know that it is broken. The author reminds readers that they are not alone, and it is possible to navigate the system to get the treatment and care you deserve. This would also be a wonderful book for doctors to read, as she also points out how easy it is to have biases toward certain patients, as well as the dire consequences that can result from medical gas lighting.
This is a book that so many Americans need to read. It so helpful and important to be an advocate for yourself especially when you are up against a field that is full of burnt out employees or people that belong in medicine.
I recommend this book across the board, but particularly to women who are more often the victims of the American medical system.
I grew into adulthood with the idea that doctors know what to do and should be trusted without question. I’ve learned the hard way that belief is inaccurate. I found this book wonderfully validating, as well as helpful in terms of bolstering my fortress of self-advocacy. I promptly bought a copy for a chronically ill friend, and have already heard back from her how validated she feels.